For example, many parties are mostly for drinking and chatting. This kind of socializing and gathering is often extremely limited to people's growth and help, but it will make people fall into a bad lifestyle.
Young people will reject this useless social interaction. They know the saying: If you are in full bloom, the breeze will come. They have expectations and requirements for themselves, hoping that through self-growth, they can get high-quality social interaction. Smart people don't like socializing, but that doesn't mean they don't like learning. With the popularity of mobile Internet, the learning styles of smart people are constantly expanding, and they will find inner happiness through continuous learning.
I once knew a teacher who bought countless books to study. He said he didn't like socializing, but he built a large group, all of which belonged to the best in the field. In that group, they don't talk about socializing, but more about the confusion and solution of knowledge. This kind of high-quality chat brought him great pleasure.
Young people don't like socializing. In fact, they are not completely lonely. They are more interested in spiritual pleasure. They lack comparison with the outside world, so they have rich minds and peace of mind.
Why do contemporary people become less sociable?
Now everyone begins to subtract from their social circle, not because of arrogance or arrogance, but because fewer and fewer people can understand their own language. Sometimes I quite understand that some girls want to find someone who knows themselves, and the reason is also related to their social circle. Even their girlfriends have begun to have their own life circles, but few people take the time to seriously understand other people's lives. It is better to talk to strangers than to communicate with acquaintances ... but the social radius is smaller, and it is more difficult for single people to meet new friends. The problem with extension is that it is difficult to get rid of orders.