Post-80s freelance writer, maverick Aquarius girl.

Focus on sharing women's growth and self-media dry goods knowledge.

I hope to live the life I want through my own efforts.

Nowadays, in many universities, the word "tinkering" is popular. It's a bit broken.

Many people lead a dull life with bad excuses.

However, a bad college life is definitely not what we want.

After the college entrance examination, I came to a college unexpectedly, but I was locked up in the school because of the epidemic. I take classes online every day, play mobile phones, spend my parents' money, and live a terrible life.

One day, I suddenly realized the meaning of this life. This is not my fantasy of youth and college life. I think youth should be warm, sunny and progressive.

At the beginning of college, there will be a period of confusion, which we have all experienced. Maybe we will spoil it for a while at first, but we can't spoil it forever.

This is our own life, our own choice, in order not to regret it after many years, we must not screw it up again.

So I began to try to get up from the mud, and now I'm standing in the sun, and I've cleared my mind. Let's share with you my experience of climbing out.

First, have a normal time plan.

1, to ensure normal work and rest.

In college, time is relatively free, and we all start to be people who don't sleep at night and can't get up in the morning, but this is not acceptable. We must first ensure a normal work and rest, eat on time, sleep on time and attend classes on time.

We can try to sleep before eleven o'clock in the evening and get up before seven o'clock in the morning. Ensure that we have 8 hours of sleep every day, so that we can have a better mental state and better face all kinds of things in our study and life.

However, long-term irregular work and rest is not so easy to change, and sudden changes may lead to a series of situations such as insomnia, but please firmly believe that as long as you persist, you can return to normal work and rest within one week.

2. Insist on learning to read every day.

There will be polarization in universities, some people study and some people don't study.

And I want to learn to be the part of people who insist on learning. Learning can make us gain knowledge continuously, and it will also make us feel no longer wasting time and bring us spiritual satisfaction.

You should know that the most important task in the student period is learning, and learning is the first.

Besides studying professional knowledge, we can also go to the library to read more extracurricular books to enrich our experience and knowledge. There are worlds in the book that we have never seen before.

3. Find a hobby you like.

You can find more hobbies you like and cultivate more hobbies during your college years. Because we still have a lot of time to try many things at this time, maybe we can find our future career direction slowly.

Personally, I prefer reading and writing, so I will write some articles and then contribute to the official WeChat account to earn some living expenses.

University is for learning, not for screwing up.

Second, there are clear goals.

When I was young, we all wrote a composition called My Dream. Now that you have grown up, do you still remember your dream?

We are now standing on the dividing line between school and society, and it is time to think about where to go.

1, set a small goal

Have you mastered the knowledge of specialized courses? Have you understood the words of CET-4 and CET-6, computer certificate and Putonghua certificate? In short, have you been able to get the certificate you want in college?

Make a list of things you want to do, from easy to difficult, from less to more, gradually realize and decompose.

Step 2 set big goals

What are you going to do after graduation? What qualifications, education and ability do you need to do this job?

What is the employment prospect and development space of this job, and whether your major now can help him?

These are all things that we should consider as college students. As the saying goes, don't fight unprepared, plan your studies and future career, and keep moving towards that goal.

Third, learn to beautify yourself.

This era is an era of looking at faces, and we must learn to package ourselves. No one will know your truth, goodness and beauty from your sloppy appearance.

1, movement

Did you watch the sunrise when you were in college? Do you know how many laps it takes to run a kilometer on the school playground?

You can exercise, run and jump rope in the morning or evening. You can exercise, lose weight and relax.

A healthy body is the premise of doing anything, and it can also improve our posture and make our body better.

Step 2 learn to wear

When you go to college, you will be an independent individual. You should learn to match clothes, not that you dress beautifully every day, but that you should learn to dress appropriately.

There is no need to exaggerate when you find a dress style that suits you. Comfort, neatness and generosity are the best.

Fourth, refuse endless internal friction.

Do you often feel that you have just read Tik Tok and the little red book for a while, but you haven't read anything, and you haven't learned anything. Time flies.

This is aimless and endless internal friction.

1, delete those meaningless apps.

Brush Tik Tok, brush the little red book, brush Weibo, we are constantly brushing, and the time is brushed away defenseless.

But when I think about it carefully, it seems that nothing happened and the day is over.

So, from now on, uninstalling software is meaningless to you, but it is a waste of your time.

2. Don't be a perfectionist.

Many things can't be done for the time being, so you can tell yourself that it doesn't matter and try again next time.

There is no need to demand perfection at once.

Remember: finish first, then perfect.

Time in college is precious and can't be wasted.

Think about it, how many people who are better than you work harder than you, how can they be ruined?

Don't try to lie flat, always try. Adjust your mentality, refuse to go bad, work hard for yourself and be responsible for yourself.

Think about yourself who has been studying hard for several years. How can universities be wasted?

As an ordinary college student, you should learn to plan your future path and be responsible for your life.

College students, don't pretend to be bad.

Youth is only a few years. You can choose enthusiasm or laziness, but you have been at the foot of the mountain for so long. Should I climb up to see the scenery on the top of the mountain?

Work hard from now on, see you at the peak!