When I was reading the Book of Rites, I came across the following passage, which is worth learning slowly.

Ancient teachers have schools, the party has difficulties, the art is orderly, and state-owned learning. Admission the following year, middle-aged exam. A year's research on distinguishing classics and records. Three years of dedication to music groups, five years of learning from friends, and seven years of learning from friends are considered small achievements. I have known the class very well for nine years and stood firm and did not object. This is a great achievement. Husband is enough to change the customs, and those who are near will persuade him, and those who are far away will be pregnant. This is also the way of university.

There is no virtue, intelligence, physique and beauty in ancient education, but there is benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and wisdom. It doesn't mean that students can become talents and do great things after graduation, but that students can be sound in personality, knowledgeable and set an example. After becoming an example, others will naturally be convinced, that is, changing customs, persuading those who are close, and cherishing those who are far away.

On the other hand, our current education is basically for grades, for certificates, for degrees, and then as a tool to get ahead. To some extent, we are very dedicated, but we have to ask, are we a music group?

At present, in colleges and universities, teachers grade students' papers and students grade teachers' grades. I am disgusted with this, not because students give me low marks, but because I don't understand this kind of thing. In order to please students, some people even give up the dignity of teachers and tolerate indulgence and servility to students. Also, some students even scolded their teachers online because they didn't do well in the exam. Alas, today? Bo Xi Qin Shi? Yes

About learning and choosing friends, we can understand that we have the ability to learn and the principle of choosing friends. But I prefer to misinterpret these four words as meeting friends with China people. A piece of heartbroken liver, where to find a bosom friend in the end of the world. The most painful thing is not having a confidant. Students and peers are the easiest to become bosom friends. I hope I will never forget my classmates' feelings. My peers are not enemies. Talking about wine and things is much happier than talking about swords and shadows. If we can achieve the above three points, we can make small achievements. In fact, it is not difficult.

Dacheng is called knowing the class, strong but not reverse. It is difficult to do this for many reasons. I think the most important reason is to have independent thinking and honest judgment. This may be too popular, and many people think it is not that important. For example, I often set people up.

I often ask people this question: Do you think eight-part essay is good?

The answer in the above example is a person who has no independent thoughts. When making a value judgment of a thing, it must be based on understanding, otherwise everything will follow suit and have no opinion. There is no limit to success, independent thinking, honest life, that's all.

Reflections on The Book of Rites

Confucianism, Taoism, Yin and Yang, Legalism, Ming, Mohism, Za, Agriculture and Novelist are the nine earliest schools in China, among which Confucianism and Taoism appeared the earliest. Confucian etiquette was practiced in the Zhou Dynasty, and Taoist gossip appeared as early as Fuxi. But what about Mencius? In the "special chapter and sentence", he said:? A wicked person who holds one thing is also a thief, and will waste one hundred? . So I think Confucianism advocates the middle way more.

I think the article Confucianism is about the behaviors of gentlemen (Confucian scholars). What I have learned the most is that Confucianism believes in loyalty and loyalty, and propriety and righteousness think it is dry; Dai Renxing, holding righteousness; Although there is tyranny, it is worse. Its self-reliance is like this. Some people will translate it into: Confucian scholars take loyalty as a armor and courtesy as a shield; Walk with your head worn out, integrity of life. This is self-reliance. But I prefer to translate it into: Confucian scholars defend their thoughts with loyalty and protect their hearts with courtesy; I have an idea in my mind, that is, I should do things with kindness and righteousness in my heart. Although there is tyranny, it can't change my mind. This is called self-reliance.

Give two examples!

In the Zhou Dynasty, Xibo (Zhou Wenwang) didn't like Zhou Wang's decadent and ruthless rule, so he ruled the country with his benevolent government. This angered Zhou Wang, so Zhou Wang imprisoned Xibo. But Xibo still followed his right path, and finally defeated Zhou Wang (only passed his path on to his son King Wu).

The second example is about Moses the Jew.

After the Jews stayed in Egypt for a long time, the Egyptians began to reject the Jews. Later, they wanted to kill all the newborn Jewish boys, but only one boy named Moses was saved. He supported Jews to believe in God instead of polytheism, and eventually led them to move to Jerusalem (later Israel) and call themselves Israelis.

Therefore, if you can only cook and sweep the floor independently, it is not self-reliance. You have to have this heart to stand on your own feet.

Review of The Book of Rites

In my spare time, I often like to sit quietly at my desk, sipping tea and slowly studying the ancient classic Book of Rites. The faint scent of tea and book fragrance merged with my heart and spleen in an instant, which was enough to make me relaxed and intoxicated. Reading and reading, I feel as if I have returned to the distant ancient times, having a tea conversation with the ancient sages.

The Book of Rites is an important work to study the social situation, laws and regulations and Confucianism in ancient China. Its position in history is second only to the Analects of Confucius, comparable to Mencius and far beyond Xunzi. This book is all-encompassing. It takes rites and music as its core, and its thoughts include social, political, ethical, philosophical, religious and other aspects. The Book of Rites is listed as? Nine classics? One of them was included in the Song Dynasty? Thirteen classics? Among them, it is a must-read book for readers, which shows the important value of the Book of Rites. Book of Rites, Yili and Zhou Li are collectively called? Three gifts? , had a far-reaching impact on China culture, people of all ages are looking for ideological resources.

? The trip to the avenue is also for the public, choosing talents and talents, and honesty. Old friends are not only relatives, but also only children, so that everyone who is old, strong and useful, young and strong, and lonely and sick can be supported? . I read this passage repeatedly and was deeply infected by the powerful spiritual power contained in it. ? In the era of avenue implementation, the world belongs to everyone. People who choose talents and appoint people to govern the world, and people pay attention to credit and live in harmony. Therefore, people not only treat their relatives as relatives, but also treat their children as children, so that the elderly can enjoy their old age, mature people can contribute there, young people can get a good education, and the elderly who are widowed, fatherless and childless can be supported. Such a society is called the Great Harmony World. ? Dr. Sun Yat-sen once said? The world is public? Thought, advocate doing things for the people, and build a democratic society of the people, by the people and for the people. This passage will not lose its luster with age. Today, it still radiates golden light, illuminating each of us and expressing our strong yearning for a happy and just Datong society.

Review of The Book of Rites

Open my notebook, and the first sentence extracted from it is a paragraph from the Book of Rites:? Be knowledgeable, interrogate, ponder, argue clearly and do it faithfully. ? The original meaning of this sentence is:? We should study extensively, ask for knowledge in detail, understand thoroughly, think carefully, distinguish clearly and practice seriously. ? I often take this sentence in the Book of Rites as my motto, and I often use this sentence to teach and encourage my children and young friends around me. ? Erudite? In other words, learning must first be extensive hunting and cultivate rich and exuberant curiosity. When curiosity is lost, the desire to learn will also disappear, and erudition will become impossible. ? Bo? It also means being broad and tolerant. Only by being broad and inclusive can we be inclusive, learn with a world vision and an open mind, and truly achieve it? Is tolerance great? And then what? Pan-lover, but pro-benevolence? . So erudition can be the first stage of learning. After this stage, learning is a rootless tree and passive water. ? Interrogation For what you don't know in the second stage, you should ask the question to the end and doubt what you have learned. After asking questions, you should carefully examine and analyze them through your own ideological activities, otherwise what you have learned can't be used for yourself. Why? Think about it? . ? Debate? The fourth stage. Learning is becoming clearer and clearer, and if you don't argue, you will have it. What do you mean? Erudite? It will be a mixed bag of fish and dragons, and it will be difficult to tell the truth from the truth. ? Dojo? Is it the last stage of learning, that is, since you have learned something, you should strive to implement what you have learned, so that what you have learned can finally be implemented? Unity of knowledge and action? . ? Hey? Loyalty, down-to-earth, single-minded and persistent. Only people with clear goals and firm will can really do it? Dojo? . This sentence often reminds me to pay attention to learning in my work, not only to be proficient in business knowledge, but also to study extensively excellent books in other fields, and constantly improve my overall quality and become a? Multifunctional? In addition, we should communicate with colleagues and friends around us, learn their advanced working methods, and ask experienced old comrades for advice on problems in our work and life. In addition, it is not enough to learn theory and book knowledge, but also to practice and exercise more, so as to apply what you have learned and apply what you have learned.

In this book, I also learned some knowledge about the etiquette system of ancient Confucianism, such as the origin and function of etiquette, and the ancient people's explanations of etiquette norms such as crown ceremony, engagement ceremony and sacrifice ceremony. It can be said that the appearance of The Book of Rites marks the maturity of China's ethical culture. This book still has good enlightenment and educational research significance to the etiquette of modern China society. Of course, some words in the Book of Rites also contain the idea of maintaining the feudal hierarchy in an all-round way and stubbornly promoting the idea that men are superior to women. These ideas are not desirable and need our attention. Take the essence and discard the dross? Treat it with an attitude.

In a word, The Book of Rites is a valuable classic of Chinese studies, just like a pot of good tea, which needs to be tasted slowly to feel the refreshing fragrance.

? At most, the book is far away, and the belly is full of poetry and self-improvement? I will continue to wander in the sea of books and pick up a faint book fragrance.

A selection of famous aphorisms in The Book of Rites

1, everything is standing with preparation (pre-planning), and there is no waste of preparation (pre-planning).

A good singer makes people follow his voice, and a good teacher makes people follow his ambition.

3, ancient politics, lovers are big.

4, the trip to the avenue, the world is fair.

5. Live within your means.

6. It is difficult to learn before learning, but difficult after teaching. If you don't know enough, then you can reverse; Advance despite difficulties, and then strive for self-improvement.

7, learn, just know the shortage, teach, just know the difficulty.

8. At the top of a thousand peaks, the dance collapses.

9. Ancient scholars must be strict with their teachers, and the teachers must be strict and respectful.