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Do you think it's normal to be unsociable in college?
Bian Xiao thinks it's normal to be unsociable in the university, because people in the university come from all directions, and it's normal not to get along, so there's no need to compromise themselves in order to integrate into the collective life.

First, lonely people in universities.

In fact, many college students like to be alone in college, but this does not mean that they will not communicate with others, but that they will be more comfortable alone. You don't need to bring books to your roommates in class, and you don't need to bring meals to your roommates when you eat. You can relax as much as you want, so Bian Xiao thinks that people who are alone in college are often people who will enjoy life more. Although some people are integrated into the collective life, they are paralyzed. For example, in order to make their relationship with others better, they are forced to like a hobby they don't like, while the lone ranger in the university can go to the library to study or travel to enrich their knowledge. Bian Xiao thinks that universities don't need to do everything together like primary schools, which wastes their time very much, so lonely people in universities are often smarter, know how to use their time, and know that it is easier for a person to accomplish something.

Second, the advantages of being a loner in college.

Although college study is not particularly busy, Bian Xiao thinks it is unnecessary to spend all his time on communication. He can go out as a volunteer himself or get some certificates. And those who like to be in groups in college, as long as one of them doesn't want to study, then others don't want to study, but will play together, so this group of people often can't get a certificate, and unsociable people have their own ideas and goals and won't be influenced by others. Bian Xiao believes that a person is not a shortcoming, but can enjoy life better, and it is enough to have some friends to chat with.

Finally, after entering the society, everyone is a person, and no one can be independent for himself, so one can also exercise his ability in college.