Higher education improves students' professional knowledge and skills, but it doesn't teach college students how to be a man. To survive and develop in society, one must strengthen all aspects of self-cultivation, among which social moral self-cultivation is the core content. Learn to be a man, have a high sense of responsibility and social morality, which are the qualities that contemporary college students should have.
1. Only with good social and moral qualities can we adapt to society. People live in society, and it is impossible to exist independently without social relations. Be brave and good at handling various social relations. Some college students avoid talking about morality as soon as they hear it and feel empty. In fact, in real life, people can judge and evaluate a person's moral quality according to his behavior, because there is a moral principle in people's hearts, that is, "everyone has morality in his heart." Some college students think that modern society stresses interests more than morality. In fact, morality is a code of conduct to adjust the relationship between people, between people and society, and between people and nature, and the relationship adjusted by morality is the interest relationship. There is no Fiona Fang without rules. Social harmony requires people to abide by certain rules, and morality is the most basic and universal code of conduct that people should abide by in society. Morality and people go hand in hand. College students live in society, and society is also an integral part of social relations. Only in accordance with the objective laws of social development and social moral requirements, consciously strengthen personal social moral cultivation and improve moral quality can we adapt to the requirements of today and future times.
2. Having good social moral quality is the need of college students' career development. Good moral quality is the core content and main goal of personal development. College students have a high level of knowledge and good cultural accomplishment, and their moral cultivation should also correspond to their knowledge level and cultural accomplishment. In the career development of college students, good moral quality helps to enhance the individual motivation of college students to become talents, guide them to establish a scientific outlook on life, values and careers, and cultivate indomitable spirit and open-minded mind; Encourage college students to study skills seriously, be proactive, blaze new trails, and set up lofty ideals and ambitions; Help college students correctly understand and understand the society, establish a correct political direction, and strengthen their determination to become talents and make a career. Hong Kong famous industrialist and Chairman of the Board of Directors of Goldlion Group Co., Ltd. * * is known as the "evergreen tree" of China economic circles. His success rule is "Diligence, honesty, wisdom = success", among which: Diligence means diligence and diligence; Thrift is thrift; Honesty means treating others sincerely, which is the secret of making friends; Faith means keeping your promise. There is a proverb in China: "One or two sincerity equals one ton of cleverness". It is also said: "All complete success is the success of being a man, and all complete failure is the failure of being a man." A person with an imperfect personality can't be a person who really makes a difference.
The Present Situation of Contemporary College Students' Social Moral Quality
The mainstream of contemporary college students' social moral quality is good, but there are also many shortcomings, mainly in:
1. Strong self-awareness, but lack of team awareness and cooperation spirit. Most contemporary college students are only children. They are the center of the family, so they take themselves very seriously. However, due to the lack of brothers and sisters, there are not many neighbors and few playmates at home. After school, they spend more time with computers and televisions. The special family atmosphere makes some contemporary college students have a strong sense of self, but they lack the sense of cooperation with others, like to be alone, are unwilling to tolerate minor conflicts with their classmates, and have a weak sense of collective. In the professional practice of the employer, when criticized by the supervisor, I feel that I don't respect myself, but I ignore the respect for my classmates, colleagues, superiors and elders.
2. Strong self-confidence, but poor ability to resist setbacks. Most contemporary college students grow up under the care of their parents. In order to encourage their children's enthusiasm, modern parents mainly praise and praise their children, but seldom criticize them, which makes some contemporary college students very confident, have a high opinion of themselves and have confidence in their future. However, because it is rarely criticized, it gradually becomes difficult to accept criticism from others and has poor mental endurance. Once you encounter a little setback, you will change from self-confidence to disappointment, and even college students will commit suicide because they are criticized by their teachers or their life and love are not smooth.
3. Strong sense of self-struggle, but lack of social responsibility. Contemporary college students have clearly realized that under the socialist market economy system, the competition is fierce, the survival of the fittest, and successful entrepreneurs are getting younger and younger. The pressure of employment makes college students feel the urgency of their efforts, and the successful deeds of entrepreneurs, especially young entrepreneurs, inspire college students to start their own businesses. Many college students believe that contemporary society will survive and develop in the competition. However, some students overemphasize personal struggle and lack the sense of social responsibility and social service.
4. Pay attention to the quality of life, but civilization and etiquette need to be strengthened. Contemporary college students have high demands on life, and their consumption concepts have changed greatly. The traditional moral concept of "diligence and thrift, hard work and simplicity" has faded. They like the "petty bourgeoisie" life and pay attention to life taste. However, basic etiquette and social morality awareness need to be further strengthened.