First, the benefits and advantages of college students falling in love
After all, it is ok to fall in love in college, and you can't kill it with a stick. If handled properly, it is also beneficial for college students to fall in love, which has some advantages, including the following aspects.
1. Knowing each other makes it easier to find a lifelong partner.
In reality, many couples are classmates, including many college students. In college, our class had 1 right, and finally came together. Because college students get along with each other for 3-4 years, they study and participate in some activities to get to know each other better. At the same time, college students are simple and don't think too much about material things, but more about their own personality and the appropriateness of their three views. In a sense, college love is more pure.
2. Having experienced a college romance will make people more mature.
Not all college romances are happy endings, and many don't come together in the end, but going through college romances will make people more mature. Even if a relationship fails, will it make you think about whether there is anything that needs improvement? What kind of partner is more suitable for you? How can I become a better self? In short, these will make you more mature.
3. Promote each other and become a better self.
College students can promote each other and make themselves better if they are properly handled in love. The students I take have such examples: boys are more playful before falling in love, addicted to online games all day, and often skip classes; After falling in love, it happened that his girlfriend studied very hard, and he followed her all day to learn for himself, just like a different person. In the end, both of them were admitted to junior college, and they were still in the same school and major. Look, what an inspirational story. Therefore, if college students' love is handled properly, they can also promote and improve each other.
Second, the disadvantages of college students falling in love
Just said a lot about the benefits of college students falling in love. Of course, everything has advantages and disadvantages, and the disadvantages of college students falling in love also exist, which are mainly reflected in the following points.
1, distracted, affecting normal study and life.
I have to say that falling in love takes time and energy. If it is not handled well, it will definitely affect your normal study and life. When I was studying, all my roommates around me were like this. Read a good book in the study room and be called out shopping by my girlfriend. Girlfriends have a big temper and are often unhappy easily. My roommate must try his best to make her happy. Therefore, if the two sides can't handle their feelings and the time allocation of study and life well, it will have a certain impact on them.
2, immature, easy to cause some contradictions and even tragedies.
After all, college students are still students and not mature enough. If it is not handled well in love, it will easily lead to some contradictions and even tragedies. There are many such examples, which may happen around us. Some quarreled for three days because of their incompatible personalities, and eventually the two sides became strangers; Some people fail to protect themselves in love and get pregnant before marriage, which brings them a lingering shadow; What's more, because of their lovelorn love, they are desperate and even take extreme actions to cause tragedy. These are all possible disadvantages of college students' love, and we don't want to see them.
Concluding remarks
There are advantages and disadvantages for college students to fall in love. On the one hand, the advantages are mainly reflected in the following three levels: first, it is easier to find a lifelong partner through acquaintance; Second, the experience of college romance will make people more mature; The third is to promote each other and become a better self. There are two main disadvantages of college students' falling in love: first, falling in love is easy to distract their energy and affect their normal study and life; Second, college students are not mature enough, and the process of love can easily lead to some contradictions and even tragedies.