-feeling after reading Fu Lei's letter

Everyone has biological parents, and most of them have experienced their love and teaching. When I read this letter from home, I felt a different kind of teaching, not the teacher's teaching, not the elder's persuasion, but the parents' concern for their children, which is different from my parents' concern, but it does not lose the feeling of being carefully cared for. I seem to have found another kind of parental love, which most children can't understand. This may be the reason why I loved her for ten years. It's a letter from home, like a precious heart-to-heart, which brings us closer. I feel, listen and remember with my heart like a good boy.

Father Fu Lei is a wise, knowledgeable and upright scholar. When I was young, I was even a little violent and full of personality. Mother Zhu Meifu is an oriental woman with oriental cultural accomplishment and has been baptized by western culture. She is dignified, virtuous and kind.

His father, Fu Lei, dabbled in a wide range, made profound research on literature, music, painting and both at home and abroad, and his personal cultural accomplishment was extremely high. The object of his training is to receive a good family education from an early age and finally grow into Fu Cong, the son of an international master. He deeply understands that art, even like piano playing, needs strict technical factors, but it is by no means a "craft", but a manifestation of wholehearted and complete personality. He educated his son and said, "I always think that the most important thing is' people', and we should cultivate a' person' as much as possible. Before becoming an artist, we must learn to be human, otherwise that kind of family will not make much contribution to mankind. " A person who is purely devoted to art has nothing but art and personal personality.

The so-called "person" is concrete and subtle in Fu Lei's mind, not just a wish, but a slogan. From loyalty and dedication to the world, to strictness in one's own career, to filial piety to parents, to understanding of his wife, to tolerance to friends, even the handling of a piece of music, communication with friends, and even the words and manners of his son, all warn readers that "hands should be upright and people should stand up straight".

In that sinister era, when personal safety was not guaranteed, her heart was connected with her distant son and grandson. She restrained her inner fears and pains and gave her strong, peaceful and meticulous care to her relatives who were wandering in foreign countries. A sweater knitted for her grandson is as heavy as a mountain, but she is uneasy about the "gift book". In order to let her son feel the warmth of family in a foreign country, she meticulously wrote down the cooking program for fear of missing a detail. She loved her husband and son and devoted her life to this family. However, the trampling and insult to her personal dignity made her unbearable any longer. The husband and wife merged their lives and moved towards eternity, perhaps more favoritism, which was also an ending. However, this end has never been separated from the couple.

As role models of China people, the couple spent their whole lives cultivating their two sons. The eldest son Fu Cong became the famous piano master, and the youngest son Fu Min became a special English teacher. They taught their son to be a "person" first and then a "home". At the end of their lives, it ends with the word "people". All good memories don't want to humiliate themselves, and I don't want to let so many unpleasant things in my life make me unbearable. They would rather abandon themselves and get a kind of relief to complete the interpretation of people.

Their death shocked me. I no longer feel pain for them as I did when I was young. I just want them to rest in peace for half a century.

It is their strict family education that has cultivated world-class masters of art, just as a pair of Fu Lei, friends of Lou Shi, "disapprove" of their son Fu Cong's strict and meticulous family education. However, it is this strict family education that has created a beautiful life for him and left a mirror for thousands of parents in Qian Qian. Let's see what we gave the children. How should we express ourselves for children?

In the book, we not only see a strict and caring father, but also see the growth of father and son. His music translation communicates with his son, and his concern and love for the development of the motherland are also revealed to the students. Fu Lei is doing his duty to the society, the motherland and the human world with a highly responsible spirit and heart. His son Fu Cong learned a lot from his wandering career in a foreign country, but his father made him feel like an orphan overseas, as if his parents were still around, giving him guidance, encouragement and encouragement from time to time, giving him the courage and strength to overcome all kinds of evil influences and obstacles and set foot on the road of his proper growth. Through these letters, he not only established a strong bond between his son and his relatives, but also Fu Cong was firmly separated from the motherland through this bond. Later, it was proved that regardless of the cruel experience of his family and the notoriety he bore, he never turned his back on his motherland, was threatened and lured by his enemies in many ways, and never said or did anything detrimental to the dignity of his motherland. This is a father's influence on a son, which is inseparable from his ardent patriotic education for his son who is thousands of miles away. Time and distance are not a problem. Caring parents, your sleepless beloved son, are irreplaceable textbooks and gas stations of life.

This concern is not a conscious stage, but accompanied by fatherly love. The serious father never shirked his responsibility. Even when Shanghai was surrounded by Japan, he kept his children at home, which appeared in his young body and mind very early. He has the qualities of a musician. Just as he treats himself as carefully and meticulously as he treats young children. He personally compiles teaching materials, gives classes to children every day, and is strict with children. He did it and asked his son to do it together. It's really a real father and son. I am surprised at this father-son relationship in the world. Yes, I am a friend and a comrade.

In addition to feeling that Fu Lei has a wealth of translated works and impressive achievements, he is also such a near-perfect person, integrating art and life into his life beautifully. His life is regular, life is a beautiful arc, and the bits and pieces left to us warm the hearts of every teenager, youth and parents.

When treating his son, he said, "I'm glad that I have another friend and my son has become a friend. What in the world can grow with this happiness? " Moreover, he said modestly and sincerely: "In getting along with my son, I learned patience, speaking skills and emotional sublimation." Teach us how to get along with children and what attitude to associate with. "When the child is suffering, he said," Bitter tears are the wine that cultivates your soul. People who have not experienced severe pain will not have deep and extensive sympathy. "He didn't do everything for his children, but he was happy with the process of their transformation and encouraged him to have a more sincere heart in art." Don't worry about success or failure, just do your best and live up to your heart.

In order to guide his son to devote all his energy to research and study, use more reason and less emotion, and restrain all troubles with strong confidence, he said: "Art is the purpose, and skill is the means. People who always pay attention to means will inevitably forget his purpose. "

Facing the money order sent by college students to their parents, there is no other greeting. The father warned his son that writing letters is forcing you to sort out your thoughts, which is also an excellent training. How much we need it now.

In daily life, he warned his son that "people always have to push themselves." If they don't force themselves, they can't solve the problem. The most basic thing is to seize the time "; "Doing things scientifically and thoroughly"; "Don't be embarrassed in the outside world and be casually stayed by others, so as not to disturb the scheduled schedule"; "Modifying small habits is tantamount to modifying one's own consciousness and temperament". I think it is an urgent problem in our life.

However, such a person who is strict with himself and teaches his children, he said: "The name outside the body is only pursued and amazed by ordinary people in society; It has nothing to do with the smallness and greatness of the individual. Confucius said' let wealth and fame be like clouds', and modern' fame and fortune' also belongs to spiritual' wealth'. Wise people are indifferent and don't be bound by greed. Don't forget the life guide for your famous and married son.

When he became an adult, his son was faced with emotional choices, but he also took the opportunity to help him: "It is very important to find a partner who can recognize each other's shortcomings, admit each other, be willing to change gradually, and tolerate each other at the same time." To find a permanent partner, we should also consider it rationally, don't be blinded by feelings, and be convinced that marriage will change, and don't believe it in advance. " When they got married, he told them not to have money on hand, but to spend money. The more they despised material things, the more they needed control.

Reading everywhere, there are repeated exhortations, warm reminders, like a friend's heart-to-heart, and some even point to play again, pitying the wind of passing on the family line. Are these gentle words like a trickle just the nagging of ordinary parents? This is a Millennium belief. Opening every page is refreshing, and my heart can always be dyed golden.

Letters written by sons Fu Cong and Fu Min to their father are also attached to the book. These letters don't seem to disappear forever. They are lucky to be read by our readers as such a good book, which adds a little democracy and equality to the rest of the commandments. Unfortunately, such a happy family was split up prematurely by the times. As an educator and a parent, I am pushing this book. Maybe you can learn more from it. You might as well read it yourself.

2. Feeling after reading Fu Lei's letter

Every letter from home is a cultural heritage, not to mention Fu Lei's letter. Letters from home, as the name implies, refer to letters exchanged between family members and relatives. About after the appearance of words, letters from home appeared, which can be said to have a long history. With the gradual enrichment of written language and the invention of paper, letters from home have gradually become popular, and today, letters from home are one of the ties to maintain family ties.

Letters after letters express deep feelings between the lines, reflecting beautiful interpersonal relationships, noble living standards, excellent behavior and moral traditions, and patriotic enthusiasm of boxing. These contents are all part of the excellent culture of the Chinese nation. Take Letters from Fu Lei as an example. The general theme of nearly 100 letters from Fu Lei is to educate children, base themselves on and act according to Chinese civilization. To be successful, we must serve the motherland first. Family letter can be said to be the best interpretation of the excellent morality of the Chinese nation.

Fu Lei's letter opened a window for us to understand the past history and well preserved the memory of that era. It is precisely because of its existence that the excellent morality of the Chinese nation is clearly interpreted. It is not only Fu Lei's education for children, but also the criterion for us to act.

In addition to teaching people to stand up and act, Fu Lei's letter is full of affection and touching between the lines. I can't help thinking of my parents. Although they are not great men, they are not as famous as Fu Lei, and they won't talk about putting people in one position, but they always think of me, and no matter what they do, they will think of me first and plan for me. Fu Lei's letters contain many truths about being a man and being a man, which is a valuable spiritual wealth. However, isn't the daily teaching of parents the criterion of standing and acting? My parents are not as reasonable as Fu Lei, but they have always been very kind to me.

After reading Letters from Fu Lei, I learned a lot about being a human being and felt the greatness of family ties.

3. Feeling after reading Fu Lei's letter

Every family has different ways of education, and Letters from Fu Lei is a painstaking educational book, a rare good book, which is most suitable for parents and children to read.

Fu Lei's method of educating children is unique. He conveyed his true feelings to distant children through letters, sincerely guided his son's life and art, and secretly showed his concern and love for his son. Good family education is good for children, which can determine a child's life. After all, family education was the first teacher, and Fu Lei also educated his son into a talent in a good way, which made people full of praise.

Yes, many families want their children to succeed, so good family education is very important, but how many families can educate their children correctly? In China, many families have not received proper education. Parents don't communicate with their children attentively, don't understand their children's situation, guide them incorrectly, lead them astray, and finally regret it. There are also some parents who think that children can't fight, and there have been countless domestic violence, which has caused physical and mental harm to children. Instead of making children sensible, they became rebellious. Parents should appreciate this letter "Fu Lei's Letter" by educating their children in an appropriate family education way. In fact, as children, it is necessary for us to see it, because it can infect us, make us aware of our parents' good intentions, know how to thank our parents, let us know how to appreciate art and get correct guidance in life.

Letters from Fu Lei is a book suitable for men, women and children, and will certainly benefit people.

4. < < Letters from Fu Lei > > From 1954 to 1966, more than 80 letters from home were compiled, most of which were written by Fu Lei, the father, to Fu Cong, the eldest son, and some were written by the mother. As a literary translator, Fu Lei translated 32 books in his life, with fluent writing and distinctive style ...> This is a monograph and painstaking work full of fatherly love. This is not only a letter from home, but also a written record of Fu Lei's education in Fu Cong thousands of miles away. The longest letter from home is more than 7000 words. Only by writing your own true feelings and catching up with a letter from home can you reach such a number of words. Fu Lei in Letters from Home is quite different from reality, completely subverting the cold Fu Lei and showing us a fatherly image.

In the letter1955 65438+1October 26th, when Fu Cong was "proud" at that time, Fu Lei advised the children how to face the ups and downs of emotions. First of all, explain the necessity of controlling emotions. Secondly, calmly and objectively analyze the cause and effect, thus becoming more and more powerful. It really expresses the feelings of all' experienced people' looking back. Depressed and detached. This letter was written when my son achieved great success and was surrounded by flowers and applause. It encourages his son to be humble at all times, not afraid of loneliness, and dare to climb the limits of art. At the same time, it gives him more through his success, allowing him to see a higher realm of life and maintain a pure "childlike innocence."

"Strong" is the inner spirit that runs through this letter. Fu Lei said to the child: "As long as you can be strong, I will be relieved!" It can be seen that being strong is of great significance to life. Strong performance in two aspects: A is not afraid of setbacks, and B is always modest. That is, win without arrogance and lose with grace. This is what we can learn.

Fu Lei's rigorous academic attitude.

Fu Lei's rigorous academic attitude can be used for reference. & gt I can read between the lines. As an educator and writer, Fu Lei naturally wants to educate his children to be like him. But the child was not with his parents since he was a child, so the relay of delivering love by letter began. It is important that not every letter from Fu Lei is written in black and white. Just like when we took the exam again, Fu Lei did well in the exam, which is not only a habit he has developed for many years, but also a far-reaching education. & lt Letter from Fu Lei >> You will also find that Fu Lei is a very efficient person. For example, some letters are very short. Just briefly explain your intention. Fu Lei's rigorous academic attitude also shows that the list of things is one after another, which is not chaotic at all, unlike the handwriting of people facing death. It can also be seen from his representative works that he is not only rigorous in his studies, but also full of sense of responsibility, strong patriotism and love for his son. Besides, he wrote his masterpiece.