Because the relationship between our dormitory is lukewarm, sometimes people in the dormitory can say nothing all night and feel particularly depressed every time they go back to the dormitory. Faced with this kind of cold violence, I always choose to study in the library when I have no classes and find some suitable certificates to take exams, so that I can spend my spare time in the library. I seldom stay in the dormitory for a long time, and sometimes I go to bed after washing my room in the dormitory after the library closes, which reduces the burden. Moreover, I also think that since cold violence is used to treat me, no matter how I communicate with them and treat them well, they will not necessarily appreciate it, which will waste my feelings too much, so I will try not to stay in the dormitory for too long and do more things of my own, so as to enrich myself and avoid the pain caused by cold violence in the dormitory.
Moreover, I sometimes go to chat with my good friends or go out to play, visit other dormitories and play with some friends who can chat, so I find like-minded friends who have a good relationship with me. Together, we can chat with each other and have fun, and I won't be too depressed because of the cold violence in the dormitory, because I think it's enough for me to have these friends who have a good relationship with me, and nothing else is important. Perhaps this idea is too extreme. Some people think that we should get along well with everyone, but some people are born out of place with us, so we don't have to compromise ourselves to cater to these people.
In fact, sometimes we just need to be ourselves and the rest will come naturally. There is no need to pay too much attention to the cold violence in the dormitory.