Your girlfriend is a lovely girl, and her natural kindness and enthusiasm are very valuable. She deserves to be cherished and grasped by you.

My girlfriend is not contaminated with the local customs of this city. Even if she encounters setbacks in reality, she is defenseless against people and things, and always treats others well, even to the point of forgetting herself.

You can't say that she is not self-motivated, otherwise she won't be admitted to normal university and graduate to become a teacher, but she is satisfied and has no ambition for life. This kind of peace of mind is also a realm of life.

Maybe she can't start a business in Qi Fei as you expect and create the same economic value for your future family as you do. However, with a stable teaching career, she will provide you with an ideal rear base so that you can work hard without worry.

She is also a highly educated person. You should trust her way of dealing with people and respect her personal space. It is understandable that she helped her friends find reference books, but you interfered. Some ignored her personal wishes and replaced her sincerity and enthusiasm with their own narrowness and selfishness.

You also set your own standards for her in her studies and career. She is just taking the teacher qualification exam, which is not difficult for normal students who have just graduated. Why does a girl like you take a masochistic way of not eating or sleeping? She knows how to take care of her body better than you do.

Facing such a girl who is not stupid or calm, what you have to do is not how to cultivate her, but how to get to know her, adapt to her and adjust your life and career according to her characteristics. For her personal development, you can make your own suggestions, but you should respect her choice and don't exert too much pressure.

She was cheated once, and she was cheated badly, which shows that she is too trusting of others, so it is necessary to remind her. Just don't confuse her natural kindness with stupidity. You should not only protect her from harm, but also be good at protecting her from feeling that her personal freedom is restricted.

Mom likes playing mahjong and chatting on QQ. It's all fun in life. You can't take care of her all your life, just give her a living space where she can enjoy herself.