I think it's particularly irrational to get into trouble with my roommate. At this time, I feel that to adjust myself, we must first change our views on roommates and then treat them well. Because you have to get along for four years, if you can't get along with your roommates, what can you talk about getting along with others? If you want to be popular, you must first get along well with your roommates.

There is a roommate in our dormitory who doesn't get along with other people in our dormitory. She is the Communist Youth League Secretary of our class, and she is usually very busy. It stands to reason that everyone will be friends with her. Being close to her is good for you. It will be more convenient to ask for leave in the future, at least.

However, it can't be said that she has a bad relationship with everyone in our dormitory, because she doesn't contact everyone in the dormitory and never draws water. Water cards are all spent with other people's money. She has never played with other people's water. Besides, she just grabbed your chopsticks, ate them without asking you, and always liked to steal others' lives, no matter what others said, she just said.

I won't go easy on my roommate, whether she is * * or really wrong. I don't know that you can't just expose others and hit her in the face, and what she said is wrong. Unrealistic. Is emotional intelligence is not high, don't know how to get along with roommates, everyone doesn't like her.

Later, she adjusted herself, changed herself and became active with her roommate. If you have anything delicious, share it with your roommate. If anything happens, she will let us know as soon as possible. Besides, she has a good attitude towards everyone and won't be jealous.

In fact, I think when everyone is estranged from you, you should change yourself, keep them, get rid of your bad habits and selfishness, be kind to others and make more friends.

First, find your own reasons. I want to save myself three times a day, but I want two people to applaud. I must be wrong, and everyone's habits are different, and the bottom line is different. If you are good with your roommates, you must know each other's bottom line.

First of all, don't rummage through other people's things without their permission. This is basic courtesy. Roommates often take my cosmetics without asking me. I don't think it's stingy. If he asks me, I will still give it to him. It's not that hard to say hello.

Pay attention to your hygiene. Don't throw things about. The desktop is messy every day. Everyone who passes by your desk will be disgusted if they don't talk. Trash cans are not often thrown away and often stink. Dormitory is not your home, but also a public place.

Pay attention to your words when chatting. The speaker has no intention, but the listener has a heart. Don't deny what others like. Everyone has something he likes, and others you like should like it for whatever reason.

Don't wait for others to ask for what you borrowed, just return it as soon as you use it. It is not difficult to borrow it after borrowing it. First of all, don't say whether you will borrow it again. You should think about whether others want to lend you again. Even if they lend you, they are reluctant and impatient with you.

Ask others to bring you drinks or meals, and remember to pay back the money. Although the money is not much, it is all the hard-earned money of parents, or a few hundred dollars that you have worked hard for a month. No one is a virgin, you are still a quality problem.

Don't speak ill of another roommate in front of him. This is the most basic respect for roommates. Don't answer the phone even if someone tells you. Just smile. Speak ill of others behind their backs, and others will speak ill of you.

Let others bring you food, neither too cold nor too hot, just let others bring you food. Everyone knows that others should sleep quietly. Watch yourself. It's normal to be a little noisy, and others will think you are very careful. Even if there is noise, others will not think it is too much. Also, there are three people walking together. One of them is tying his shoelaces, and the other two must wait for her. Don't go. I think everyone hopes that no matter who ties his shoelaces, others will wait.

Although these are details, details determine success or failure!

Many times, we live too humble. We are good at taking other people's eyes as mirrors, and others' emotions and sorrows unconsciously become our standard for testing ourselves. Gradually, being consistent with the collective has become a way for most people to feel safe. Even if this so-called collective is just a "rabble".

Of course, everyone should be modest, be good at listening, and take others' evaluation of themselves as a way to know themselves.

Then, after I talked about the above two life choices, the answer to how to adjust myself after I have a bad relationship with my college roommate is clear and clear.

Why are you in trouble with them? This is your first consideration.

You can think about the ins and outs of things and calmly analyze whose fault led to this ending.

If it is mutual misunderstanding or your own fault, the best way to adjust is to take a step back and take the initiative to chat with roommates to seek mutual understanding.

However, if it is their fault, or if they deliberately punish you with cold violence. My suggestion is: different roads lead to no common cause, no common goal, and get out of their circle.

Maybe you will say that the dormitory is the longest place except the classroom. Everyone sleeps together every day. How can we treat them like air?

However, people who try to blend into other people's circles, even the devil's circle, are even uglier! They don't like you and don't accept you. No matter how much you pay, it will become useless. Is a group that hurts you everywhere worth being wronged?

Maybe you will say, look at my loneliness, other students will laugh at my bad popularity.

I want to say that the world is big and life is long. They are just passers-by. Students will be separated after all. Everyone has nothing to do with each other's interests, so why care about other people's eyes?

Go your own way and let others talk! People who are isolated by groups are willing to be honest and stick to themselves.

In short, after quarreling with college roommates, let yourself calmly analyze and deal with it calmly!

Roommates should be very important for every college student who lives on campus. Some good roommates may affect your life. However, when dealing with people, some contradictions often occur, which can easily lead to disputes and even fights if not handled well. So what should I do when I have a conflict with others?

First of all, we must stabilize our mentality. Maybe I was really angry at that time, but it's over and I should calm down. At this time, don't recall what the other party said and what the other party did. When people are angry, they will say some ugly things and maybe do some irrational things. Some people tend to think more about it, get angrier and hate each other more and more. Anger will not only hurt your health, but also be very bad for your relationship.

Then, if you want to continue this relationship, you'd better apologize. For some people, quarreling is war. But after the war, it was the cold war. The outcome of the war is often not so important, but the outcome of the cold war is what matters. Whoever apologizes first will lose the game, and there is nothing wrong with winning the other side. But if two people think so, how can their relationship be reconciled? Sometimes, I will put down my posture and take the initiative to apologize, believing that the other party will forgive me.

Moreover, after apologizing, the other party will certainly realize his mistake and apologize to himself.

I believe that after this experience, the relationship between the two people will not get worse, but will become closer.