First, it is a kind of behavior without motivation.
If a person doesn't make progress, then he will easily fall.
Spoiling is a kind of mentality of "breaking the jar and breaking the fall". If a roommate often acts like a spoiled brat, you can see that he or she is not motivated. When I think the situation is getting worse, I don't try to remedy it, but make it worse. In the long run, I will make my mentality worse, form a vicious circle, and indulge myself at will, which may not only affect my mental state, but even my health. It is also a sign of being irresponsible to yourself.
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? Second, roommates are not necessarily really bad.
Sometimes seeing is not necessarily believing.
Some people say they want to destroy it, but it's just "lip service". They just talk nonsense to relieve their inner anxiety, but their bodies dare not rest. Although we see that roommates talk and do things like lying flat, does he (she) really lie flat? We can't stare at them 24 hours a day. Maybe they quietly participate where we can't see them, but we just can't see them.
In addition, everyone has different goals and expectations. Although your roommate seems to be a bad behavior, it may be just a relief for them. They may have made a plan or finished it, so in fact, roommates may not be really bad.
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? Third, it is not influenced by them.
If you can't change others, stick to yourself.
Spoiling is a comfortable but negative behavior. Occasionally, it is a way of rest for us to study or work, but if we spoil it for a long time, it will affect our state.
When we find that we can't keep up with others, we will become more and more anxious and have no motivation to work hard, which will cause great mental pressure on ourselves. Therefore, don't affect your life because of bad roommates, don't blindly follow the crowd and say "bye-bye" to bad roommates.
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In a word, the most important thing for us is to be ourselves and stick to ourselves. We should cherish life, don't waste it easily, and live every day that belongs to us.