A Letter to My Daughter Dear Daughter:
I've been thinking about it for a day or two, and I want to write to you, but I don't know how to write it. I seem to want to say too much, but I don't know how to say it. Based on my mother's life experience, how can I tell you the world? I speak too well, for fear that you are naive and think that the world is full of truth, goodness and beauty, and all of them are honest and kind people: I tell you some bad things, but I am afraid that you are worried and think that the world is full of danger and insecurity. My heart is heavy and I don't know how to write.
But, my daughter, first of all, what my mother wants to tell you is: Baby, you are the only person my mother cares about and loves most in this world. My mother only wishes you happiness, happiness and healthy growth. Mother hopes that she can be more powerful and earn more money. More ability can provide you with a carefree life, so that you can live without pressure and burden. Mom hopes that she won't get old too fast, and can look at you, accompany you and help you grow up, grow up, get married and start a career. Mom hopes you will never get hurt. But, dear, my mother will get old. Now she is 40 years old, and it is almost impossible to make greater achievements. So, basically, mom can't support you for life. I'm really sorry. If mom is capable enough, mom really wants you to let her support you under her wings and protect you for life. But, sorry, daughter, mom can't do it. You can only rely on yourself to be strong and self-reliant. In fact, it would be nice if your mother could support you for a lifetime, so that you can do what you like, without having to work hard for survival, without pressure or task. However, my mother is an ordinary person, not strong enough to support you for life, but she wants to do her best to support you. With a better education, I can spend more time with you, take you, and let you get into a better junior high school as much as possible. I hope my daughter will forgive my mother for her incompetence. My mother doesn't provide the best living conditions for her children like a few excellent parents. My mother can only raise you to high school and college, and then she will struggle on her own. I hope that through the efforts of three generations of grandma, mom and daughter, you can let your children live a better and better life in the future! Daughter, since God sent you to your mother, since we are a family, we should care for each other, tolerate each other, support each other and care for each other! Mom wants you to be strong! Confidence! Sunshine! Brave and optimistic study life. Believe in yourself, you can surpass your mother, be much better than your mother, overcome your cowardice, timidity and inertia, be proud of learning all kinds of knowledge, live and study actively, love your relatives and friends around you, be sincere, friendly and gentle to your friends, and learn from people around you to improve yourself!
Daughter, life is beautiful. My mother wrote to you in the cloakroom on the third floor on Tuesday morning. The spring is bright outside the window, just like a daughter's face. Life is beautiful. Look outside, how beautiful the flowers, grass and trees are, and how warm the sun is! As soon as the rain passes, nature is full of vitality. It's good to be alive! You can experience many beautiful things: the love of parents, the beauty of nature, food, movies, beautiful clothes and a beautiful world! Of course, life can't be smooth sailing, and there will always be some small difficulties. Only through the cold winter can bloom be warm in spring all the year round! If you encounter any difficulty, overcome it bravely. If winter comes, can spring be far behind? After persisting in overcoming difficulties, you will have more joy of success!
Daughter, you will be eleven years old this year. She will soon grow into a beautiful big girl. Remember my mother's words: the reason why roses are so popular is because of their amazing beauty and prickly thorns. Flowers that are too easy to pick are always not so delicate Therefore, you should be as beautiful as a rose, but at the same time, you should completely love yourself, respect yourself and be self-reliant! Like a rose with thorns, protect yourself from infringement! Only in this way can you get the love of the world at the most brilliant time. The nobler things are, the harder it is to get. The most important thing for girls is to be steady, reserved and not frivolous, otherwise people will despise you! Disrespect you! I believe my daughter will grow into the most delicate and noble rose in the world, right?
Finally, I hope my daughter will be happy every day and pay attention to personal safety. Mom loves you! Forever! Whether you are beautiful or ugly, whether you are a towering tree or a grass, mom loves you unconditionally!
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A letter to my daughter, my dear child:
First of all, I want to tell you: Dad loves you as much as he loves his grandparents! Perhaps, my father loves you more than my grandparents, even so much that he doesn't know how to tell you and what attitude to treat you, for fear that you are unhappy now; It is too wide. I'm afraid you will be more unhappy in the future. Dad was embarrassed, sad and even wanted to cry.
Since you were very young, I told my mother: Don't be too strict with children, just let her grow up happily. It's true. Your happiness is the greatest wish of my mother and me.
But I was wrong. Once I saw your composition, you said that your study was not outstanding, the teacher didn't like you, and the students didn't like you either.
Every word of your short composition reveals helplessness and sadness, and every word deeply hurts dad's heart. Dad secretly cried.
Please don't laugh at dad. Dad cried, but no one saw him, so there was no shame.
So I understand a truth: young trees not only need sunshine and rain, but also need the experience of strong wind and heavy rain to grow healthily; To be healthy and happy, children need not only games and cartoons, but also hardships. Life is fair, there is no happiness without pain!
So we send you to learn Olympic Mathematics and English, although I always hate letting my children learn Olympic Mathematics. Soon, your English and math will improve. You are more confident and happier than before. Dad is happy, happy and happy.
My dear child! Dad has always wanted to write to you, but he doesn't know where to start. He hesitated for a long time and finally decided to start with happiness.
I always feel that life has no ultimate meaning. No matter how you live, the final outcome is the same. ? Knowing that everything is empty after death? At that time, everything will be in vain.
So I have always felt that life need not care too much about gains and losses. The most important thing is happiness.
So, where is happiness hidden? Where should we find it?
First of all, happiness comes from details and trivial things. You get an A in your homework, you make progress in your exam, and the teacher praises you. Such a trivial matter will also make you happy. After hard work, you have done a difficult math problem yourself, and you will be very happy; After careful preparation, you will be very happy if all the words are dictated correctly; Even if you learn a game and play it well, you will be happy.
Happiness comes from small things and from details. Do every little thing carefully, and your happiness will last.
Finish what should be done as soon as possible, don't delay. The habit of procrastination is the greatest enemy of happiness. Because you know you still have things to do, and you know you can't do them unless you do them. These things are an invisible pressure and trouble for you, which makes you feel uncomfortable even when you are doing what you like and watching your favorite cartoons. Only when it is all solved, will your mood be completely relaxed and you will have more fun.
Keep doing this and your happiness will be more, purer and more thorough.
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A letter to my daughter, my dear child:
Today is your 15 birthday. You seem to have grown into a slim girl overnight. You are God's best gift to me and my father. Thank you for your concern and love.
Baby, looking back on your growth in 15, I often feel that I am not a qualified mother because I can't cook delicious food for my daughter. Not full of economics to teach her daughter; It's a pity that there are no versatile cells passed on to my daughter. But to my father's relief, my daughter is growing up mentally and healthily. You are active, healthy, lively, open-minded and reasonable, and what makes my father and I proud of you all the time is your best quality-kindness. Remember when you just babbled, and when I was going to work in winter, you staggered and held my leg? Mom, put it on? I was deeply moved at that time; At the age of seven, everyone was sick. You know how to pour water for the old man, but you don't know many words. You are still looking for medicine in the drawer. Seeing my father asleep on the sofa, I crept to cover my father with a blanket; Lu Yu beggars are never stingy; When the little white rabbit at home died, you cried so much that too many memories flooded into your mind that you didn't know where to start writing. Write wherever you want.
Baby, sometimes I don't know how to love you because I love you so much. Sometimes I don't know how to educate you, because I don't understand education; Don't blame me and my father for not giving you a stunning face and wealth the day after tomorrow, but what we give you is really the life and love we are willing to pay for you!
Baby, you will graduate from junior high school this year. If you want to enter your dream key high school, you still have to work hard and struggle. Let me, dad and you come! /kloc-What a beautiful girl you are at the age of 0/5! At the same time, my father and I are also vaguely worried. Now you are only one step away from adulthood, and you are about to integrate into society. You still don't understand many things. You have been studying in boarding school, divorced from society, ignorant of the fierce social competition, and afraid of being hurt. So listen to your mother's nagging again:
Baby, learning to be polite is a quality that will benefit you for life. It is not only convenient for others, but also noble for yourself. As the saying goes, giving someone a rose is more fragrant. Don't mind others muttering that they are false and lofty. After all, false and lofty is worse than really dirty sunshine. Don't expect the beneficiaries to be grateful, but thank them for giving them the opportunity to do good. God will not be unkind to those who are kind to others. No effort is taken for granted; No interest can be indifferent. Every grass and tree knows how to be grateful for the spring glow, not to mention people who enjoy the reputation of higher animals. I am kind to people and can't expect anything in return; Don't forget to appreciate people's kindness to me
Makeup is a compulsory course for girls, and everyone has a love of beauty. Washing your face every day is not only for your own hygiene, but also for the comfort of others. It is absolutely necessary to spend about 20 minutes dressing up every day; Exceeding this time shows a lack of confidence in your charm.