A study by the University of Texas at Austin found that only children have higher achievements. Many people think that the only child is clever but not good at getting along with others. A study led by Qiu Jiang, a psychology professor at Southwest University, found that only children are more creative, but their brain structure is different from others, which leads to their low affinity. Children's growing environment has an impact on their brain development, and more contact with people other than their parents may make up for their lack of personality.
I didn't understand when I was a child. Perhaps I longed for everything my parents gave me and gave it to myself.
When we grow up, we gradually find that we have all the love of our parents and lack another kind of love. I slowly discovered that parents' love is actually acceptable to share. Brothers and sisters are, to some extent, gifts from your parents for the rest of your life. When they grow up, they have company, and when they get old, they also have support.
We thought the only child would last a long time. But when we grew up, the times changed. We began to let go of the second child and slowly accepted the fact that we were actually a very special generation.
The only child, literally, is a unique child born by parents, but from another literal point of view, it grew up alone.
It's like growing up with all the love and expectations that have been treasured at home for a long time, only to find that childhood and growth can have different experiences.
I also want to have two children in the future.
If you ask me why, the answer may be:
I long for them to be accompanied and witnessed by their closest relatives when they grow up. And after my wife and I left this world, our children still have the closest relatives, who are willing to give everything without hesitation.
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Only children are unsociable. A hot search was conducted recently. In society, a potential consciousness of the only child is the spoiled child. When we are young, we want to have it. When we grow up, we prefer someone to share. The only child is in such an awkward position. Why is the only child unsociable? Sometimes I am lonely and don't even know how to get along with others, but when you love me with every cell of your body, you are afraid to bear the brunt. Why is the only child unsociable?
A study by the University of Texas at Austin found that only children have higher achievements. Many people think that the only child is clever but not good at getting along with others. A study led by Qiu Jiang, a psychology professor at Southwest University, found that only children are more creative, but their brain structure is different from others, which leads to their low affinity. Children's growing environment has an impact on their brain development, and more contact with people other than their parents may make up for their lack of personality.
In the past, people often mentioned a phrase called "Little Emperor China", but now it is rare. However, because the only child is spoiled by thousands of people, it is bound to be spoiled and not get along well with others. Is this right?
Statisticians in the United States have made a lot of comparisons between only children and children with brothers and sisters at home, and then come to a conclusion.
On the contrary, the first only child has more advantages: the only child has a stronger pursuit of higher achievements, more self-esteem and better care for his parents;
Secondly, we are worried that the only child is spoiled, does not get along well with others and lacks self-control. There is no obvious difference between an only child and other children.
Of course, some people may say that these studies are all American studies, so what's wrong with the only child in China? In fact, scientists have also studied the only child in China, and come to the conclusion that there is no one-child effect in China, which means that the only child has no special influence on the child's personality.
In fact, the reason why we guess that the only child will have personality problems mainly comes from intuition. We believe that the only child may have personality problems such as selfishness because he has no brothers and sisters, but on the other hand, the child has ample opportunities to get along with his peers at school and will not have psychological problems because of the lack of brothers and sisters.