Just go by yourself, the tutor won't like your money. It's not good to send money. As long as people leave, everything will depend on your mouth in the future, but be careful not to say too much, master your own degree, and don't let others think you are in trouble because of frivolity, and don't say too little. It depends on whether you can master yourself at ordinary times, try to express your desire to study there and show sincerity. Others can't help you in this matter, it's up to you.