Landlord 1990 was born in the countryside of an ordinary five-line small city in northern Hubei. Whether they are themselves, or the students in junior high schools, senior high schools or even universities around them, most of them are rural families who live by farming. Only a few people with strong personality and willingness can establish themselves in first-and second-tier cities such as Shenzhen, Shanghai, Hangzhou and Guangzhou, and the vast majority can only settle down in fourth-and fifth-tier cities. Generally speaking, it is very general and it is difficult to make a breakthrough. Why is it increasingly difficult for rural college students to change their fate through reading (especially rural college students born after 90)?

Collection answer:

First of all, introduce yourself:

I am a male, from a rural area with a large population in Central China. I graduated from a central province with a master's degree (not 985, not 2 1 1, not double-class). Currently working for one and a half years.

I had a deep understanding of this problem before I went to college. As left-behind children, in addition to Chinese New Year and busy farming, contact with parents is limited to telephone. I am very lucky. Since the second day of junior high school, my parents have sent me to study in the county seat. My hometown is a national poverty-stricken county. Even so, the county seat is much better than the village. From the village to the county seat, I have never seen the prosperity everywhere, which has been greatly impacted in my life and study. I found myself in rags, far from the people around me. The money my parents gave me, except tuition and teaching materials, was used for eating. I wanted to learn basketball at that time. The first time I played basketball with others, my shoes were worn out at once, and I had no extra money to buy sneakers and basketball. I never played basketball again. But I will still pay attention to the NBA, limited to browsing videos. It has a greater impact on my study. I am introverted and extreme, and I don't know anything about English exams. Later, my mother cruelly spent a sum of money to help me sign up for an English cram school. After studying English systematically, my English will not be biased.

Before entering high school, that is, the night before the senior high school entrance examination. I had just finished washing when the landlord called my father to call me. On the phone, my dad asked me if I wanted to take the high school exam tomorrow, and I said yes. He said that if you do well in the exam tomorrow, you won't be admitted to a key high school, and I won't pay a high price for your study. Just come with me to work at the construction site. I'm extremely nervous when I hear this. Because I went to the construction site in the summer vacation the year I graduated from primary school. At that time, I worked all day, pulling steel bars to the second floor of the factory. A young man about to go to college came to work as a summer job. He lifted the steel bar to the edge of the second floor and I dragged it from the edge. Off the site, I ate seven or eight steamed buns and slept soundly. The next day, I was sore all over and couldn't get up, so I didn't go to the construction site. I pulled more steel bars than adults that day, but they only gave me half the salary of adults, which seemed to be 30 yuan. Working on the construction site is too tiring and miserable. I don't want to work on a construction site. I didn't have a good rest that night. The next day, whenever I meet a difficult topic in the examination room, I will think of my father's words. I will think of that tired night, and the more I think about it, the more nervous I become. I didn't write all the first scientific research language and ancient poems. Out of the examination room, I remembered it all. I still remember a topic: _ _ _, you can be a teacher. If you search this topic, you may know when I went to high school. It is conceivable that the exam that year was not particularly ideal for me, but I was admitted to the best high school in our county and went to a key class.

When I was in high school, my father's voice on the phone became, study hard, and go to the construction site with me if I can't get into college. This kind of pressure is beyond my endurance. Whenever my test scores drop, I blame myself. On the one hand, it is not easy for parents to earn money hard. I can imagine that their dirty hands are covered with the money I earned by learning to sweat. On the other hand, if I am puppy love, if I surf the Internet for fun, if I get sick, if I fall behind in my studies, I feel sorry for them. I try not to think about it. I hardly answer my dad's phone calls, and I never take the initiative to contact him.

I volunteered after the college entrance examination, and no one consulted me. I filled in an unpopular major according to my own interests. This is directly related to my future employment. I study basic subjects, so it is difficult to find a job. Most of my junior students have taken the postgraduate entrance examination. My grades are good, and I can be qualified as a graduate school, but I'm unlucky. I was limited by the policy adjustment of that year. In an emergency, I prepared for the exam for more than three months and entered the examination room with the postgraduate entrance examination army. The score was too low, so I didn't get into 985 in Shanghai, and finally I transferred back to my alma mater for postgraduate study.

Graduate school, internship in a city in the Pearl River Delta, working in a city in the Yangtze River Delta.

After work, I gradually paid off the student loan. Before the Spring Festival, my brother-in-law helped me decorate my house, and he confiscated his salary. My parents also said that the new house was for me to repair and keep it for my wedding. I used a ghost! They don't live by themselves. I can't live for a few days in a year. In order to build a house in my name, I always show some signs. When I came home for the New Year, I gave a big red envelope to my sister's two children and bought many gifts. Give my nephew a red envelope, and my niece gave one. Well, my parents and grandpa also have one. No way, if I don't send it, they will say behind my back that work can make money, regardless of home, baiwenhang, heartless! Who knows, I moved four times and changed five places in more than half a year. In the coldest winter in recent years, I only wore a windbreaker, wrapped in a thin quilt to cook porridge every day, and gave them red envelopes for the money I saved. I live so hard and have to take care of the vanity of my family. I feel sad when I think about it. I don't want to see my frugal salary given to my family. But I think my parents can stand up straight in front of the villagers and proudly say that my son graduated from graduate school and can earn money. He gave me a big red envelope during the Spring Festival! I'm still quite happy.

After the Spring Festival, my sister's family bought a big truck, and her parents sponsored her family for 10,000 yuan. After the sponsorship, they found that there was no money, and my mother called me for money. I just got paid at that time and was going to buy a decent dress, so I had to give up and call my mother. Just a few months later, when life was not so urgent, I was ready to buy a laptop. Something happened to my father. He broke his foot on the way to the construction site in Hangzhou. I have to take time out to take care of him and help him solve the problem. I have to deduct my salary when I take leave, but I used to spend a lot of money to take care of my father.

My parents always put pressure on me to find someone to marry. Who am I looking for? I can't even buy a decent suit and a laptop. Who am I looking for? Finding a partner, getting married, housing ... these things can't be helped by my family.

As a rural person, my greatest wish now is the health and longevity of my family. Let me work hard for a few years and don't break my wings before flying.

Parents in rural areas have no knowledge and education, do not know how to educate their children, are humble in ability, small in pattern, weak in character and timid. To a great extent, I inherited their character. But by contrast, I have made great progress. I can't imagine the life of a city dweller compared with people from superior backgrounds. As long as I am more advanced than my parents' generation and let my next generation live a better life than me, I will be satisfied.

Never give up, never give up. Work hard to make money.

The specific details were revealed too much and were recognized; Modify it to block some key information; Plus the recent situation. The above was written in May and June of 20 18, and the situation has improved a lot in the past six months. Please supplement the situation in the past six months.

2065438+July 2008, my boss gave me a raise. I am the employee with the largest salary increase after the company was established one year ago. At present, it is close to five figures before tax. I paid off all my debts and bought a notebook I had been longing for for for a long time. This winter is particularly cold, and new clothes have been added. I turn on the air conditioner every night, so I don't need it to save electricity.

Soon after I came to work here, my girlfriend from school broke up. I met a girl playing with a drift bottle, a Sichuan girl with a good personality. I call her Lele, a rich second generation, teaching in the countryside. We talked every night and never met. I am very happy to communicate with her. I don't know if there is a future, but I know that I am very happy with her. By the way, I blocked all the notices in Zhihu. Weibo forwarded a big V, which was discovered by Lele. She guessed it was me and told me that I didn't know about it. )

There is good news before New Year's Day: the boss wants to set up a new company to carry out new business, and he decided to give me 10% of the shares. I hope the new company will get better and better. For tomorrow, I will try my best to get results.

Although my foundation and background are worse than others, I am willing to spend time and sweat to make up for it. I never complain publicly. This article is probably my only complaint and the most frequent one.

I thank my family for giving me a patient personality. At work, others shout when they suffer, and I won't complain if I suffer two or three times. 65438+has been working overtime since early February. Vomiting at night, with a lot of blood and phlegm. I didn't tell anyone about it. I am very lucky. I met many outstanding people in my work. They all take good care of me. Following them, I learned too much and made great progress.

20 18 has passed, I wish you all a happy new year! 20 19 has set sail, and I will continue to work hard and make continuous progress. I will live up to the sky, and I hope the sky will live up to me. I hope I can give you more good news when I add this answer next time.

Yu, an entrepreneurial idol, and Liu, an Internet giant, are both college students coming out of the countryside. There are many rural college students living well. Although they are in an era of class solidification, it does not mean that we have no chance. The change of fate in the documentary about the seven-year changes in Britain is just college students like us.

I came to apologize to you. I closed all notices in Zhihu six months ago. I can't see any comments and praises from you, but they are all open now. I took the time to read the comments carefully today, and I thank you for your encouragement. I accept all my critics. I am really not tactful. I accept criticism from the heart, really. Thank you.

Thanks to the attention and forwarding of Weibo's "Beijing Big Potato", and thanks to the encouragement and criticism of netizens in Zhihu and Weibo.

——20 19 1.3

After half a year, record the recent situation, with more content, and then write another question.