1, girls directly ask boys for money for bride price, which is a bit of moral kidnapping. Boys are really decisive. In fact, I have to say that it is female college students who ask boys to pay the bride price in advance. In a sense, it does contain a certain premise of moral kidnapping. It is precisely because of this that boys feel a little scared and choose to cut off contact with female college students, which is also to protect their own interests.
2. It is really heartless for boys to choose to cut off contact with female college students because they have agreed on the bride price money. In fact, I have to say that it is because of family difficulties that female college students ask boys for bride price money. This is not wrong in itself, but the boy was afraid of further moral kidnapping before the appointment, so he cut off contact in order to avoid unnecessary trouble in the future. This one-size-fits-all approach is really ruthless and does not conform to the values of ordinary people.
3, it is not easy for boys to do it, but it is a wise choice. In a sense, female college students ask boys to take away the bride price money in advance, which also shows that boys are really heartless, but although this method is too decisive, there are many reasons. In order to consider the future, boys may choose a one-size-fits-all approach to avoid getting into unnecessary trouble and bringing unnecessary losses to themselves, but there is nothing wrong with this relationship itself. Boys should not do this, and it will cause greater psychological harm to female college students.
Generally speaking, the incident of female college students paying bride price money in advance has the color of moral kidnapping, and it is normal for boys to break up. However, it seems unreasonable for boys to choose to cut off contact with that female college student across the board.