Whenever there is a festival, grandpa will buy a lot of delicious food for my brother and me, and will also buy one or two new clothes for my brother and me. This is the happiest day for my brother and children.
My grandfather, too, was happy from ear to ear because of my brother's gluttony and my cute appearance in new clothes. This is the happiness of family.
However, when summer came, my grandfather suddenly died of coronary heart disease. At that time, his grandfather was 76 years old, which was the biggest pain for me and my brother in my life.
Since then, my brother and I have never seen anything "delicious and fun" given by grandpa, never seen grandpa's kind and gentle eyes, and never heard grandpa's call for love.
After my grandfather left, my academic performance was unstable for a while, especially in the third grade of junior high school, which attracted my parents' attention.
One Saturday morning, after I finished my homework after breakfast, my parents talked to me, which was a good habit left by my grandfather.
Father said, "Your mother and I have been busy with our work recently and neglected the supervision of your study. Your mother and I apologize to you and promise to help you study as seriously as your grandfather. " However, your mother and I found that during the period after grandpa left, you were absent-minded, especially in your studies. Can you tell me what caused it? "
I replied, "Maybe I didn't sleep well in recent days, which led to this result."
The father added, "There is a reason for this, but you haven't said the most important one. Are you embarrassed to say it? "
I replied, "I think that's it myself, and there is no other reason."
Father continued: "Your grandfather just left, and I often see you sitting there alone, looking at the sky. I don't think you have got over your grief. " Birth, old age, illness and death are natural laws. Everyone will have this experience. Only by adjusting our mentality and doing our own thing can we comfort grandpa's heroic spirit. "
I continued to answer: "Yes, I am often in a trance, hesitant to do things, and I always dream about my grandfather in my dreams, so I can't bear to do anything."
Mother said: "If we find the root cause, we must correct our mistakes in time and study hard to be a good boy. Parents believe in you and will do it. "
Father also said, "Your grandfather said it well." It's not terrible to encounter problems. Confidence in solving problems is the most important thing. "I hope you can solve your own problems correctly, return to normal state, and don't live up to Grandpa's entrustment."
I nodded deeply and replied, "I see. I will adjust my mind in time, study hard, make progress every day and do everything well. Please rest assured."
At this time, my father held me tightly in his arms and said happily, "My baby, you are a good grandson of Grandpa."
My mother is a public security policeman in the public security bureau of the reclamation area of the seventh division of the Corps, engaged in file management. Although she is a little leisure, she is very serious and responsible. She should not only do her job well, but also be busy with things at home and abroad, and she can't be idle for a moment.
My father is a leading cadre of a state-owned enterprise in the Seventh Division of the Corps. He is very busy and serious, and his responsibility is more important than everything else. In order to reduce the burden on my father, almost everything at home falls on my mother's shoulders. Seeing that his mother was tired, his son wanted to help, but his mother always showed a tired smile and always found an excuse to send his son away and let him go back to his room to study, study and study.
My grandmother is from Sichuan. Although she is a graduate of Sichuan University, she has traditional virtues, diligence and thrift, hard work and simplicity.
Grandma, who is "hardworking, thrifty and knows how to live", is also a very peaceful and sophisticated person, with the elegant demeanor of a good family. Her life is calm as water, unhurried, unhurried, unhurried and decisive.
In my spare time, my parents often tell me the extraordinary experience of my grandfather's life to spur my study.
After listening to grandpa's unusual and little-known story, I sincerely admire him more and strengthen my determination to study hard and make progress every day. Only in this way can I comfort my grandfather's spirit in heaven.
My grandfather is great. He is from Beijing, the capital of the motherland. In 1930s, Tsinghua campus was beautiful, and Tsinghua, Shui Mu, was always a place where famous teachers, talents and stars gathered at home and abroad. This period was praised as the "golden age" by Tsinghua people. In the design of curriculum structure, Tsinghua University takes "general knowledge as the basis" and "specialized knowledge as the purpose" as the guiding principles, and advocates students to acquire a wide range of comprehensive basic knowledge. The curriculum structure embodies the characteristics of "linking arts and sciences and emphasizing foundation". A "stable and high-quality" team of teachers has been formed. Many teachers are not only successful in their studies, but also "good teachers and good friends, and strict teachers make excellent students." They are very strict with their students and have trained a group of outstanding talents who are well-known at home and abroad. My grandfather grew up in such a good learning environment and graduated from Tsinghua University with excellent results.
My grandfather, tall and strong, honest and frank, is serious and responsible for his work, strict with himself and tolerant of others. In my mind, he is a great big man.
In my memory, Grandpa is a legendary book. Such a legend lies not only in my grandfather's extraordinary experience, but also in his life course, which has a great influence on my growth.
In his spare time, my grandfather likes growing flowers very much. The "balcony, living room and window sill" at home are full of colorful flowers. Especially in spring, gorgeous flowers are in full bloom, red, white, blue, yellow and purple. They are not only beautiful in color, but also fragrant and dancing with the wind for a while, which makes people ecstatic.
My grandfather often tells me: "There are many benefits of raising flowers. The most important thing is to cultivate one's self-cultivation, so that" mental labor "and" manual labor "can be properly regulated, which is beneficial to people's physical and mental health and can also enjoy the pleasure of" flowers with fruits and fragrance ". "
My grandfather also said, "Growing flowers is the same as doing things. No matter how much difficulty and resistance you encounter, you must correctly face the pressure from all sides, be serious and responsible, persevere and stick to the end. "
From an early age, I was taught by my grandfather's words and deeds and by my father. My grandfather and father began to teach me to read, but they always found the original text. Gradually, I became interested in reading and learning. I began to read ancient poems when I was four years old, but I gradually understood them. Grandpa is happy to teach me and I am happy to learn.
Grandpa's love for me is beyond words. When I was five years old, I could recite multiplication formula, know and write hundreds of Chinese characters. I enrolled in primary school and passed the school exam, but I am two years old and can't go to school. The next year, although I was one year behind, Tuanchang Primary School made an exception and accepted me.
In grandpa's subtle influence, I gradually understood the importance of persistence and its mystery. You see, my grandfather loves flowers, and with hard sweat, he got the fragrance of flowers; I like studying, reading and thinking. The more I like it, sometimes I forget to eat and sleep as soon as I read. My unremitting efforts have brought about a "step-by-step climb" in my academic performance.
My grandfather raised three men and six women all his life, and gradually grew up under the influence of school education and grandpa. After nine children worked, some were technicians from state-owned enterprises, some were people's teachers, some were doctors, some worked in post offices, some were national civil servants, and some grew up to be leading cadres, all of which were inseparable from grandpa's strict family education.
My grandfather is like a duck to water in officialdom and has been promoted again and again. In the early 1960 s, the regiment of Xinjiang Corps, my grandfather was already a long regiment, and his work was very busy, so he couldn't take care of his family at all. But my grandmother, relying on her hard-working hands, not only went to work on time, but also began to learn to do all kinds of housework "raising chickens, rabbits and farming", and lived a life where the staple food was often only "Chinese cabbage, sweet potatoes and beans".
However, during the Cultural Revolution, a big political storm swept grandpa from the peak of his life to the bottom. For various reasons, grandpa was dismissed from public office, and he was very puzzled. He worked for the * * * production party all his life. How did he end up like this? Because grandpa's trumped-up charges are fabricated by others, grandpa believes in organizations at all levels and has a clear conscience. Later, the policy was implemented and grandpa was reinstated.
1980, my grandfather retired, with a generous pension, and my grandmother (also a grassroots cadre) lived a fairly rich life.
Grandpa spends most of his time reading books. From "Twenty-four History of China" to foreign classics; From Sunset Red, which the elderly love to watch, to Readers, which the young love to read, grandpa likes to read and browse, and he can't put it down.
1 July 9841day, I was born in this world. Soon after Grandpa's birthday, I had a grandson who I liked very much. I was beaming with joy.
I remember one time, I clamored for sugar buns. Grandpa steamed a cage of special sugar packets, round, triangular and long, but they were all filled with sugar. Grandpa made all kinds of shapes just to attract my attention. Grandpa spent his old age like this.
Because grandpa has a certain level of knowledge, he is generous with others. Grandpa's personality is very easy-going, and I have never seen him angry. I remember in a trance that my grandfather was really unhappy once, because my mother wouldn't let me take the delicious fruit on the living room table and let others eat it. Grandpa said, "The child is too young to be sensible. Don't treat them so lightly Educate children, let them know what is right, stick to what, and correct what is wrong. Let the children learn that everyone is for me and everyone is for you, and truly understand the truth of Kong Rong pears. " I immediately understood the meaning of grandpa's words and immediately distributed all the delicious fruits to everyone.
1May 7, 997, the day when Grandpa died. Three days later, according to the arrangement in Grandpa's will, my father, uncle and aunt cremated Grandpa's dead body and scattered it with grandma's ashes into the "rivers, fields and flowers" of the regimental headquarters company, accompanying this land with life and death.
I know that if grandpa didn't study so hard, he wouldn't have so much knowledge and a certain wealth. Without grandpa's attention to knowledge, my father could not have become a senior political engineer, a leading cadre of state-owned enterprises in the seventh division of the Corps, and a writer in Xinjiang. If I had not been influenced by my grandfather since I was a child, I wouldn't have enjoyed learning so much, and I wouldn't have today's knowledge level and working ability, and I wouldn't have a successful career.
I always remember grandpa's teaching, that is, "study hard and it's never too old to learn." I think this is also my grandfather's greatest expectation before his death. I just need to study hard, succeed in my studies and my career. This is my greatest happiness in heaven.
Sometimes, what I think most is that without my grandfather's attention to knowledge, my father's education and my training, I can only be unknown and do nothing in the company. I want to "study hard, work hard, live a down-to-earth life, be calm, kind and friendly, and be optimistic and open-minded" like my grandfather, because I am an ordinary person and have an ordinary life. I want to base myself on my job, be a good person, do good deeds, make greater contributions to the party, the country and the people, and be worthy of the party, the country and the people like my grandfather.
After graduating from Donghua University in Shanghai, especially after I was admitted to the civil service, I realized more clearly that Grandpa's spirit of "being conscientious, responsible, persistent and persevering in everything" will always be an example for me to learn. I must do everything myself, and my efforts will be rewarded, which will definitely enable me to reach the other side of success smoothly.