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How do college students get along with roommates
For freshmen who have just entered the university, many of them leave home for the first time and get along with their roommates in the dormitory. So getting along with roommates is a big problem. Then I will talk about some tips for dealing with dormitory relations.

1, prepare snacks: try to prepare snacks in independent packages. This is just a suggestion. Knowing how to share can win the favor of others. Individually packaged snacks are also very convenient to take and put, and others can eat them if they want.

2. Keep your distance. As the saying goes: distance produces beauty. It's good to have one or two close friends. But no matter how good the relationship is, be polite. You can't blurt out hurtful words just because you have a good relationship. And treat other roommates equally. If your attitude towards others is obviously different, the other person will think more and then gradually alienate you.

3, even if you don't like a person, you just adjust your inner sense of distance, not deliberately keep your distance, but pay attention to your sense of proportion. Don't shake your face, which is not only impolite, but also makes the relationship very stiff. Living in the same dormitory, it will be embarrassing to look up and see you every day, and it will also affect your mood.

4. Remember your roommate's birthday. Prepare some small gifts and birthday wishes, roommates will feel concerned and have a better natural relationship.

Don't discuss anyone in the class in the dormitory, because the person you are talking about may be making friends with a roommate. Usually I can't see that others are making friends, but I feel that others seem to have no friendship. In fact, others have good friendships in private.

6. learn to be tolerant. Don't be too grumpy, be considerate and understand each other. Roommates come from all corners of the country, so their living habits and ways will definitely be different, and mutual tolerance will make the dormitory relationship more harmonious.

7. Communicate appropriately. Contradictions between dormitories always exist, so sometimes we should not keep them all in mind, but talk about them properly, otherwise it will greatly affect the direct feelings of roommates.

8. generous praise. But not flattery. Don't be stingy with praise, but don't step on it. (This is very important) You may accidentally offend others sometimes.

9, be careful not to influence others, everyone has their own space. Don't get to the bottom of everything except your best friend.

10, cleaning, taking turns. Moreover, it must be agreed in advance that everyone must clean up on time and not delay cleaning to keep the dormitory clean.

1 1. If you want to buy this kind of thing, you must ensure that the dormitory is shared equally.

12, I thought the dormitory relationship was very important, but later I thought the dormitory was very casual and everyone had different personalities. When you meet great roommates, the best way to get along is to do your own thing well.