In those years when I was in college, I always felt that the relationship between university dormitories was the most important place to maintain, and I needed to invest a lot of feelings and experiences. Therefore, I have been cautious for four years in college. However, this makes me feel very tired, because many times your efforts don't get any return, or even a little response. Until one day I saw an idea about the relationship between college dormitories: "Roommates may just be strangers who have lived with you for four years", and then I was relieved.

I have graduated for many years now, and my roommates who used to get along with each other day and night have not contacted each other for several years, even without saying hello, and simply stopped contacting each other, only occasionally giving friends a compliment. Therefore, I always agree with the sentence, "Roommate may just be a stranger who has lived with you for four years." Although you won't get along with strangers from the moment you check in, you just need to be mentally prepared. You don't have to force or expect anything. Only by being yourself can we be more calm and easy to get along with in the next life.

Roommates are not necessarily friends. You may meet roommates with different opinions, hobbies and even different schedules. But living close doesn't mean being close. Roommates may just be roommates, not friends. Be careful not to speak ill of one roommate in front of another. When there is a conflict with your roommate, you must first communicate and solve it.