Teacher Yuan, a senior consultant of Guangzhou Sunny Psychological Counseling Center, believes that "parents should change the style of' arranged' and accept their children.
"The growth.
Mr. Yuan believes that many parents are used to treating their children as "children" and taking care of everything. Overindulgence will make children.
Can't grow normally. He said that during this period, what parents should do is to "give their children as much free space and room for growth as possible,
The form of care is mainly guidance and support. "He said that before the start of school every year, there are always some parents who are worried about their children going to college.
Explain to them how their children are "disobedient" and are very anxious about their behavior. He said, "Independence.
The conflict between establishment and control has always been the most prominent problem in parenting education. For children who have gone to college, they
Their task is to adjust their psychological state and locate their life values and goals. They need space, and they need space.
Traveling light, parents' neurotic anxiety and nervousness usually increase their stress, so smart parents should study.
I will hide my anxiety and turn my energy to the work of guiding children to realize their self-worth.