When I was in high school, I didn't consider anything but brushing the questions and studying hard. But after going to college, it is different, and there are not so many constraints.
Write your homework if you want, and copy it if you don't want. You can choose not to be serious in class, you can skip class, and you can fail classes. You can also choose to surf the internet all night without taking a diploma at most.
When I was in high school, I had many illusions about the university, and I chose only one-to enter the university. Although there are many choices in college, fantasy is pitiful.
More and more freedom and time, less and less bondage will destroy a person. Although it sounds hard not to choose, we have always lived like this. Because we are used to it, we don't need to choose by ourselves, so we don't have to bear the consequences caused by the wrong choice.
Once you have the right to choose, everything needs to be decided by yourself, and all the results and pressures are borne by yourself. This is the most tiring thing.
Second, take the initiative to find yourself really bad.
Life in the past 20 years has been very passive, being asked where to go, what to do and what to learn. I feel that I am particularly independent and have ideas, but I have no chance to practice. I also feel that I have a particularly strong learning ability and high efficiency, and even feel that I am a self-disciplined person.
These are all illusions. You think too much. You used to feel very efficient, but your parents and teachers forced you to stare at people. After going to college, you find that you have no determination to sit down and study hard. I used to feel particularly young and energetic, but actually I just wanted to find a chance to go out and relax because of the pressure of high school study.
I hate going to college. I can't rest in the dormitory every day and eat takeout. I used to think I had my own ideas, just because all my previous efforts were aimed at getting into an ideal university, and I didn't know what I wanted to do when I went to college.