The sound of urging marriage, regardless of the occasion, will always reach your ears from time to time in the morning and evening. When you are urged to get married, you can't find the right person at all, and you don't really want to get married. That feeling is really helpless and uncomfortable.
Parents urging marriage are mostly morbid. They feel that urging marriage is the "task" of parents in their own lives. This "task" is like playing a game. They feel that only by completing this "task" can they lose their rewards. Then they don't know that their children who have been forced to get married have become victims of this game, and their parents are even complacent about completing the "task".
My parents' generation was basically married at the age of twenty. Therefore, even if the times are no longer different, their thoughts are not so advancing with the times. Although it is acceptable to get married a few years later than before, it is not necessary to get married around the age of 20, but in their view, they must be at least 2056 years old to find a partner, and they must get married before the age of 30 in 2078.
It is necessary for them to get married, and everyone should do it. Besides, it's better to get married early, not too late. Since parents have such a cognition, when you are not young, you are beyond the age they think you should get married, but you are still alone, of course they will be particularly anxious, and then urge you to fall in love and get married quickly.
That's what people do. Cognition determines thinking, and thinking determines behavior. At the same time, this cognition is not easy to change. Therefore, no matter what you say or explain, it is difficult for them to really understand you, and they will only keep urging you according to their ideas, endlessly and endlessly.