The Spring Festival is getting closer and closer. This family reunion day makes us look forward to it, but it really worries us.

Wandering outside, what I miss most is homesickness and local accent.

However, when you meet a fellow villager, you will inevitably encounter seven aunts and eight aunts who love to get to the bottom of the matter, and naturally you will inevitably suffer from various "cross-examination."

Adults will never escape, but they will always be asked naked, "How much is a month's salary?"

Ask, get the answer, still unwilling, or even "shop around":

"Gee, you earn a lot ~ but your uncle's son didn't go to college, and his business is tens of thousands a month ..."

Then, everyone dispersed contentedly, leaving themselves in the same place, biting their teeth and hating that they had not succeeded.

My heart is very painful. Is there wood?

However, I am not afraid of getting hurt. After all, I have rough skin and strong self-healing ability.

However, there is another situation, which is more difficult.

I'm not kidding. If this question is not answered well, it may have a lifelong negative impact on our next generation.

This situation is a family where children are studying.

No matter you are in primary school, junior high school or senior high school, as long as you don't get into college, you are not spared.

Adults and children together, in the happy and peaceful moment of the New Year, will be "besieged" by the "barrage" of their loved ones:

"What is your child's ranking in the exam?"

"How many points are there in mathematics (science), Chinese (liberal arts) and English?"

"My brother's child won a scholarship. Does your child have it? "

……

If the children do well in the exam, our parents are also willing to say proudly:

"Hey, still the same as last year. The door is the first one. The child didn't know it was true. Give other children a chance to show. "

Then, you turn and walk away easily.

Of course, if the child is mature.

In other words, after children have a certain psychological endurance, or have their own mature values and goals, this "test" is really not worth taking as adults.

But if it is, at this time, the child is still young and his mind is not mature.

TA needs a correct set of values and self-confidence.

Unfortunately, the result is not ideal. How should we parents answer this question in order to protect our children's self-esteem and prevent "enthusiastic" relatives from ruining our fun?

If you are a parent, do you have this kind of worry and anxiety?

Or is there any good way to handle it? Let's prepare for the "new year interrogation" in advance.

Everyone is welcome to make suggestions, and tomorrow I will share my ideal parents' answers.

Anita is encouraging you.