Falling in love seems to be something that everyone longs for, especially at the age of Seeds of Love. When you watch romantic dramas, you always fantasize about your love story.

But there is a saying that we are all at the age of "Seeds of Love" and at the front line of learning. Falling in love is a taboo. ..

After studying hard at the cold window for more than ten years, the university is a paradise. During college, most people are adults, and it is also possible to fall in love.

But at this time, many people were taken away by the old man, and there were no peach blossoms. This makes people very helpless. Finally, when they are old enough to fall in love, no one can fall in love.

Although love is hard to find, it is necessary to meet. Some people have never been estranged in love in college, while others have always been lonely.

Then, what are the reasons for those who have not had "peach blossom luck" in college for four years and can't get love?

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You have to believe that this is definitely not an accident. People who can't meet love must have a reason. These four points are the most common.

First: study first.

The first kind of people only concentrate on their studies and ignore everything else.

Let's just say that everyone pursues something different. Perhaps your pursuit is to have sweet love, but in the eyes of some people, their ultimate goal is to become a person who gains more wealth and fame by knowledge. Of course, many people do it for their dreams.

After going to college, if you want to gain love, you must meet each other on your own initiative, commonly known as expanding your heterosexual contacts. There are many ways to do this, such as joining student unions, societies and participating in various activities. ...

When you meet more people, you will naturally meet a blooming peach blossom.

But for those who study hard, the above methods are a waste of time. They are not interested in any activities. Maybe they will actively participate in any academic discussion, but their focus will definitely be on improving themselves rather than meeting love.

The activities of learning people in universities are nothing more than classrooms, libraries, canteens and dormitories. ...

Don't say that you can't meet love in these places for four years, even if you can't get off the list for ten years. As for those who take off their orders in the library, they are not purely people who concentrate on their studies.

To sum up, people who concentrate on learning have only four words in their hearts: knowledge progress.

Second: the house

This species is the natural enemy of most people. If the first person can't get rid of it for ten years, then the second person is afraid to be single dog all his life.

People who concentrate on their studies will eventually go out to several public places and may meet like-minded people.

People who live in houses often just stay in dormitories, play games or catch up with plays. In a word, comfort is their greatest pursuit.

It is said that falling in love needs to know more people to have a chance. For those who stay at home, they won't go to classes that they can't go to. Many people who have been in college for four years may not know all the opposite sex in their class.

The activities of men and women in the house are dormitory and classroom. When they are hungry, they order takeout. Day after day, what kind of love sparks will they spark?

The only stranger I contact every day is probably the takeaway brother, and after staying at home for a long time, they will find dating and shopping too troublesome, so they might as well have fun at home playing with their mobile phones and computers, so most of them don't want to fall in love.

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Third: high vision.

Most of these people are girls.

Girls are a kind of imaginative creatures. They don't know how many prince charming they have built in their hearts. This idea is a beautiful yearning for girls, but many people can't tell fantasy from reality.

Girls have a hobby, that is Korean dramas.

The male and female protagonists of Korean dramas have high values and sweet love, which will really make many people yearn for it, especially the male protagonist of Korean dramas, which is perfect. I'm afraid I'll have a standard in my heart after reading too much.

However, TV plays will always be TV plays. In real life, no boy can be like a master in Korean dramas, but some people just don't want to come out and swear to find a boyfriend who meets their own standards. In this way, being single for four years is not a problem.

Fourth: inferiority complex

If single dog is pitiful, then the first three are inevitable results, and there is nothing pitiful.

However, this fourth kind of people is really pitiful, because their love has been avoided by themselves. Maybe they can really have peach blossoms, but they just don't want to believe that peach blossoms will bloom and then fall.

People who feel inferior will feel that they are not good enough anywhere, maybe they are not tall enough, not beautiful enough, have bad skin and are not slim enough. ...

In short, these will make them feel inferior. Even if you meet someone you like, you dare not try, and even your inferiority complex is aggravated, and you feel that you are not worthy of each other.

People with a heavy sense of inferiority are really not confident enough. Even if someone pursues them one day, they will subconsciously avoid it. After a long time, their hearts will be tired. Many people simply break their peach blossoms in order not to be tired, never thinking, not accepting, not trying.

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Love is the beauty that will appear in everyone's life. Some people appear early, while others appear late.

It's a rare thing to meet that person in college, so you have to understand:

College time is wonderful. Don't fall in love for the sake of falling in love. As a student, study is the main thing, and love is the auxiliary thing, but don't abandon the need for love.

If you are lucky enough to meet love in college, please cherish it, it will be a wonderful experience, but if you don't meet it, try to do your own thing and live the present well, and eventually a peach blossom will bloom for you.

This is the correct attitude towards love.