* Ask something he will be interested in.

Generally speaking, people feel more comfortable when they talk about themselves or what they like. Why? Because I know a lot about these topics and have already thought about them, here are some chat topics for your reference:

* How was your day?

*TA's past experiences (such as childhood experiences, what he likes to do, and who in his family means a lot to him)

*TA's hobby

*TA's favorite sport

*TA's favorite book, movie or music.

* Constantly enrich yourself.

If you can spare time to watch the news and read newspapers and magazines, you will have more topics to talk about in your mind. Keep yourself up to date with current events and pay attention to funny comedy video clips or popular jokes on the Internet.

When you feel that the conversation between two people is beginning to become unintelligible, you can ask your TA if she has read or seen anything interesting recently. If so, you can discuss what you think of it. If not, then this is the perfect time to tell TA what you have seen recently.

* Explore some hypothetical scenarios.

You can ask TA, if you have to choose the same, which do you think is more acceptable, blindness or deafness? Would you rather eat only spinach all your life, or listen to Christmas songs for 8 hours every day all your life? Try to think of interesting topics. Scenes can be interesting or complicated. Then ask the other party which one TA is willing to choose. After TA gives the answer, let TA explain the reasons for TA.

You can deliberately oppose TA. No matter what the other party said, they all put forward the opposite opinion, so TA was forced to reconsider his opinion. But let's be clear, you're only doing this to make the conversation more interesting, and you don't really want to hit TA.

* Let TA tell you something you don't know.

It can be about TA itself, or it can be something you don't know, or cold knowledge. No matter what it is, you will learn something new. And if you want to be specific, you can ask TA to tell you some hobbies you don't know.

Nostalgia is also a good choice in this case. On the first day of school, TA's first toy, the first birthday party that TA can remember. Only in this way can we have a good understanding of what TA liked when she was a child and what was important to TA.

* Ask some strange questions

When two people are in a good mood, this can lead to some interesting topics and make them both very happy. You can ask this question: If you had to choose between TV and Internet, which would you give up? What do you think life would be like without clocks? Keep the conversation easy and interesting, and you won't make mistakes. Tell TA a funny joke, and then laugh with TA (provided that TA has a good sense of humor).

:: Discuss the future

We can discuss what we want to do in the future. Maybe you want to travel to Paris, play a play, write a novel, or live on a boat. Ask TA what her dream is. Here are some suggestions:

* Which school do you want to go to? * What major do you want to study?

Where do you want to live? * Where do you want to travel?

*TA may have hobbies. What kind of work do you want to do?

* Listen carefully

The art of talking with TAs includes listening, which can encourage others to talk more. Let the other person see that you are really interested in what TA said. When TA is talking, listen carefully. When TA speaks, summarize what TA said to you with affirmative sentences and body language, and let TA know that you are really listening to TA.

If you are just beginning to fall in love, and you have a lot of silence, try not to let your talk for more than an hour from the beginning. Talking too much will soon make a new relationship boring. Let TA know that you are not distracted. It is normal for small talk to turn into silence.