But it is undeniable that every student who enters the university. No matter how good you were before, you have to change after four years. This change may be good or bad.
First, "a university is like a small society"
(1) Students who have the position of monitor will always benefit the most.
The authority of class cadres in universities is great, especially the monitor, who can be said to be one of the people who benefit the most. In the university, the monitor not only manages the daily student affairs of the class, but also carries some hidden benefits. For example, the squad leader didn't fight for the selection of poverty grants at that time, but basically there will be one in the future. There are also the following scholarship evaluations. Some university scholarships are evaluated regardless of academic performance, and most of them are directly given to the monitor.
Besides, which monitor have you seen fail the whole class? Sometimes the monitor's academic performance is not as good as yours, and he even plays games in class. But people just don't fail. Why? If you think about it carefully, you will understand. And the monitor has a bigger advantage, that is, the party member selection, which is basically a direct default monitor. It can be said that the better the relationship with counselors in universities, the more important it is. Although interpersonal relationship is not a necessity of university, it should be there.
(2) The roommate relationship is chaotic.
In the university dormitory, in fact, the university is like a small society. Many college students actually don't want to stay in the dormitory, a big reason is because of roommates. When we are in the university dormitory, we often feel that our relationship with our roommates is very chaotic. Buy a pack of snacks, if you eat it alone, it is easy to be separated by your roommates.
But sometimes I feel that I have a much better relationship with my roommate, and then my roommate starts to oppose me. It's really not easy to meet a good dormitory roommate, if it's the kind of person who haggles over every ounce and wants to say a word when he sees what others are doing. Your college life will be terrible. Sometimes dealing with the relationship between roommates is really as complicated and uncomfortable as in society.
Second, no matter how good you are, you must change within four years.
No matter how good a person is, he will change after entering the university for four years. Maybe you won't believe it. Take a slow student for example. He just entered the university four years ago. At that time, no matter what you said or did, it was dull. At that time, he participated in the election organized by the school radio station. It is hard to imagine that in four years, he can change from a dull person who doesn't know what to say to an excellent student host.
Another example is a student who studied hard during high school. Perhaps because of talent or other reasons, I was admitted to an ordinary two colleges. There is no denying that he was really a hard worker in high school. But since I entered the university, I have been fine as a freshman. But in my sophomore year, I began to play games with my roommates often and didn't attend classes. We can't deny that universities are schools that change our destiny. But the university is also a melting pot. No matter how excellent you are, you have to change in four years.
The university is really like a small society, in which the twists and turns are more of helplessness after one's own experience. Some people have gained a lot because they went to college, and finally they took the postgraduate entrance examination and were admitted. Some people end up doing nothing because they go to college, and then spend the rest of their lives in a hurry. I just hope that no matter what I go through, I won't lose my way when I grow up.