1 obsessed with the predecessor. Don't!
After being together, many people always like to get to the bottom of each other's past, or ask from time to time:
"Will you and your predecessor do the same?"
First of all, you accept him, which means you have to accept all his past. Holding on to the past will only make the other person bored and make you uncomfortable. Why bother? It is most important to create the future and more beautiful memories together.
Secondly, whether the two parties are in love for the first time or not, it is also the "first love" for the other party. It is the first time to fall in love with each other, so it is good to manage with heart.
2 Talk about breaking up. Don't!
It is not advisable to break up easily, whether it is a threat or a joke. Talking too much about "breaking up" will break your heart. One day, if you casually say it, the other party will firmly say: OK, then break up.
When encountering contradictions, the first step should be to find a solution, not to blame each other.
3 Do you like to turn over old scores?
When quarreling, I like to turn over old scores: "You used to be ..." ... this will only aggravate the contradiction and not solve the problem. Many times, the misunderstanding of lovers' quarrel is: I won't win until you admit your mistake. But I didn't realize that, in fact, every time we quarrel, your's love life will get shorter.
No matter what mistakes the other party made, he sincerely apologized. If you have accepted it, you are determined to go on together, and don't turn it over in the future.
4 wo can't compare with others!
Ordinary love is not a Korean drama, and there will be no sweet plot every day, so don't compare Korean dramas with objects.
Don't always say "Look at other people's boyfriend (girlfriend) ..." Every couple gets along in different ways and treats you well in different ways. Don't always look at the sweetness of others and ignore the happiness they bring you.
⑤ Continuously output negative energy No!
Occasionally, if you are in a bad mood or have troubles, it is no problem to talk to each other, but you always feel sorry for yourself, and being immersed in low emotions will also affect each other. No one can stand it for a long time.
If you really encounter a problem or a sad thing, two people can negotiate to solve it together, instead of just outputting negative energy.
No 6 exploratory tests or questions!
Don't always ask, "Do you really love me?" "Which is more important, me or the game?" Questions like this are nothing more than asking how important you are in the other person's heart and how much he loves you, but these are not asked, usually felt with your heart. So asking too many unnecessary questions will only upset the other person, or make the other person feel that you are questioning his love for you.
Don't easily take the popular online test method to test whether the other person really loves you. Your unintentional temptation may hurt each other.