The essence is that when we are in college, we can ask our parents for living expenses, and others will not think that we are neets. After entering the society, if you continue to ask your family for living expenses, you will be described by many people as a neet and will be discussed by people around you. There is no competition for money in universities. When we were in college, although we were adults, there was no competition between us and our classmates. Our only competition is who plays the leading role in class activities, or who can become the president of the student union. Only these games will make us feel very distressed. There will be no money involved between us. Such feelings are relatively pure, and we won't think so much at that time. But after entering the society, the people around you will become more and more complicated. No matter how old we are, we will consider our own interests, and it is difficult for us to continue to be friends with others. After entering the society, I will no longer talk to others, nor will I take the initiative to treat others as friends. Our best relationship is limited to colleagues. We are just students in the university. Although we were adults when we went to college, we were still children at school in the eyes of teachers and parents. We don't have to work hard, we ask our parents for living expenses on time every month, and our parents will treat us as children. At this time, life will be easy. Even when I was in college, when we went out to work, my parents felt that we were too tired, and they would feel sorry for our efforts. But when we graduate and enter the society, we become adults in our parents' minds. Although our age has not increased, our social responsibilities are much more than before. Our parents will no longer support our lives. They make us work hard in society like adults. In this period, we must work hard to support ourselves and our families, regardless of our ability, because we have more social responsibilities.