First of all, stick to being yourself and don't lose yourself because of love. Secondly, we should correctly handle the relationship between love and study, and focus on learning. At the same time, you should always be rational in the process of love, know how to express your love in the right way, and learn to refuse when necessary, which will make you more mature. However, some people think that college students' falling in love will affect their studies, or pursue romance and neglect their studies. In short, it is personal freedom for college students to fall in love, but it is necessary to balance the relationship between love and study and maintain rationality and maturity.
Roy clift wrote in his poem: "I love you not only because of your appearance, but also because of who I am when I am with you." Love is a process of mutual promotion, common growth and constant running-in. Get along for a long time, it is inevitable that there will be contradictions. Don't give up easily. Even immortal couples like Qian Zhongshu and Jiang Yang will have small frictions in their lives, not to mention college students whose love concept is not yet mature. Once there is friction or conflict, don't break up easily Understanding and tolerance are both essential qualities in love. Love often means giving. Being together is not a simple combination. Understand each other's difficulties and tolerate each other's shortcomings. Love also needs to be managed, just like duet. Both sides need to constantly adjust their pace, keep pace, and finally get a complete harvest.
Although love in college is simple and pure, it cannot be without principles and dignity; Although sweet, it cannot be without responsibility and responsibility. People in love should grasp their own bottom line, protect themselves, cherish and respect themselves, and at the same time take responsibility and protect each other. No matter how close you are, you should draw a clear line, don't easily go beyond the "thunder pool", and don't easily sacrifice yourself for your lover. As the saying goes, lovers should love themselves first. Before liking others, he should be good enough to himself, live hard, manage his life in order, strive to improve himself and become the person he wants to be, so as to love others better. In the process of love, both parties should abide by love etiquette, avoid intimate private behavior in public places, forcibly confine themselves to the world of two people, be out of touch with the external environment, match their external actions with their internal cultivation, and safeguard the image of college students in society.
Love is an ability, a creation, a development, and a process in which two people who are pursued by * * * learn from each other and make progress together. The contradiction between "love and learning" is an inevitable problem in college students' love, but they are not incompatible and antagonistic. High-quality love is based on the academic development of both sides, working together for the ideal and building a love nest together. If college students in love grasp the balance between love and study, they can catalyze each other and will inevitably achieve double harvest. If college students in love can't grasp the balance between love and study, then college students should put learning first. Love will come sooner or later, and the university time is only four years, which is precious. Don't spend all your limited and precious time in love, relax and study. Love is a trip, an action, accompanied by many emotional experiences. * * * Committed to growth, there seems to be no end. College students who shoulder the heavy responsibility of the times should handle the relationship between love and study, make their youth more exciting and enrich their lives.