Two teenage boys died in a hotel because of a love dispute. Such a thing is really regrettable, but in the face of such a thing, while regretting it, we should also think about why this kind of thing has happened many times recently, and why such a tragic thing happened to such a teenage boy at the age when he should have lived happily. Personally, I think this kind of thing doesn't happen often among college students, but it is very abrupt among college students because people pay more attention to it. Personally, I think there are many reasons for this kind of thing, not just the two parties themselves.

0 1, which seems to value love, actually binds the freedom of both parties. For many students, love in college can be said to be the first love in their lives, so many people are convinced that this love may be the only one in their lives and will carry it through to the end. Therefore, for this love, many people will attach great importance to it, and sometimes even turn this attention into some distorted ideas, thinking that I can't let go anyway, and I will try my best to save it anyway. It is under this concept that the seemingly emphasis on love actually fetters the freedom of both parties. The progress of love is a matter of two people. Although the first love is enviable and desirable, there will inevitably be some differences of opinion in the process of love, which will eventually lead to the breakup of the two. In the face of such a thing, it is good to get over it. If you can't get over it, it will cause something.

Many young people can't stand these things when they first experience love. Some people will be depressed for a long time after experiencing such a thing, saying that they no longer believe in love and will be silent for a long time, while some people will take a more extreme way in the face of such things. Especially when one party is unwilling to break up, this way is even more extreme and sometimes even threatens the life of the other party. In fact, be patient and think seriously. If you really love her, you should try your best to give him (her) freedom and think of him (her) when it is irreparable. Although it is said that only one love in a lifetime is what everyone yearns for, it is really difficult to meet such a thing, and from a psychological point of view, there are many shortcomings in both the idea and concept of first love, so there will inevitably be some differences of opinion about first love.

02. Family education is also a major reason that cannot be ignored. For China families nowadays, people pay more attention to their children's learning, but ignore the education of their thoughts and personalities and how to be a man. This creates a situation. Many people can be said to have IQ but no EQ when they are adults, but they are thoughtful but don't think of others. Many families' education focuses more on satisfying their children as long as they study hard. However, due to their busy work, many parents choose to make up for their children as much as possible in money, ignoring communication with their children, which makes many children grow up. Although their bodies and physiology have developed, they have many ideological deficiencies and some wrong ideas.

Some people even think that what I want must be mine when I am an adult. I don't want to let go, so it can't run away. In fact, such an idea can not be cultivated for a while, but an idea that has accumulated over time since childhood. Some children have lived in that kind of clothes since childhood, and they have whatever they want. This kind of life depends not on the economic strength of a family, but on the education of parents to their children. When educating their children, some parents choose to meet all the requirements of their children as far as possible in order to discipline their children conveniently and not to listen to their crying, but this practice is bound to have a great impact on their personal thoughts after many years.

Finally: love is valuable, but love in a cage is not happy.