Things around university lectures 1
How wonderful college life is, that's just my vision. But now it's completely different. How many people will think I have trouble? Live a normal life every day
People who don't go to college don't know the troubles of college students; People who don't deal with college students don't know their difficulties; People who don't care about college students don't know their hardships.
The beginning of the university always makes people look forward to it, because the teachers in high school say it is beautiful and makes people look forward to it. As long as there are few classes, universities have a lot of time to do many things that have nothing to do with study. The color of youth is the true color and unique scenery of the university. I will have a high enthusiasm to do many things that belong to youth. In the ivory tower of university, I met all kinds of people and all kinds of new things. When I first entered the university, counselors or seniors would tell me a lot about the university and how to study. How to test; How to do something; What activities to participate in; Do something meaningful; What certificate to test; What useful knowledge to learn; Should you fall in love; How to contribute to the school's evaluation first and strive for Excellence with practical actions; How to live a good college life? Why did you tell me? Why should I ask those sad questions out of curiosity? There are many contradictions and fears behind these problems. With these questions, I began to explore the troubles of college life.
College student, a nice name, but I also have a lot of troubles. Take a so-called college student like me as an example. When I sigh every day, I know how much trouble I have, which keeps my thoughts going.
College students-for a beginner, they really can't adapt to depression, boredom, lovelorn, failure in learning, and there is no fact. Every day is not so full. Of course, for students who leave home for the first time, it is inevitable that they will miss home, and so on. It seems that they are useless. In the future, they will talk about their favorite major-Lin Zheng, because there is no teacher in class. I'm still studying entertainment. Bored to death!
Think that you can't adapt to school life when you just start school! You need to do everything yourself! Hey! At school, I also experienced many things that I didn't have before!
The misunderstanding of my classmates made me feel helpless; Can not be accepted by classmates, so we have to be introverted; The pocket money given by the family is always very small, and sometimes even the basic food and clothing can't be solved; Everyone else is in pairs, and I am alone in the dormitory. Every weekend or any holiday, I have a date, but I am always alone. There are always grade exams in universities, and if you fail, you won't get a diploma; How can we find a job, support ourselves, get married and spend a lot of money to get married? Young and ignorant, always cheated, feel so useless.
What's the use of self-confidence? I feel like a failure! I don't have any useful documents. What to do!
Everything is different from the university I imagined, and there is a world of difference! Why? I don't remember who said, "As a successful person, without goals, willpower, motivation, principles, spirit of not being afraid of losing, lofty thoughts and correct outlook on life, it is impossible to succeed!"
I think my trouble is that I don't have a deeper understanding of things and think things too simplistically, so I have a lot of troubles.
Of course, young people in society are not much different from us, but they have one more thing than me, that is, social experience. The more social experience, the richer natural experience.
What I lack is social experience. Think of others, think of society. How many people still want to study, but there are no books to read. My college student said this:
Did not come to college full of energy;
I immediately regretted coming to the university;
Universities have been wasted for several years;
College life is boring;
Get up early and go to bed late, sleepy and tired;
The bell lifted the hot quilt together;
Breakfast steamed bread is disgusting;
Sleepy after one or two classes;
Gastrointestinal meeting three or four classes;
The teacher can't ask anything;
Daily self-study bragging team;
Cheating in the final exam to persuade;
Life on weekends is really boring;
Calling is too expensive;
Boys are intimately suspected of being gay;
Too depressed to commit a crime;
Goose is so tired of falling in love;
Love is heartbreaking;
Tianya Cao Fang Linglong Jade;
Dream lovers miss each other;
My fair lady doesn't deserve it;
The first lover flies high with others;
Laugh at the sky and cry without tears;
It's not us before the flowers and under the moon;
Rehabilitation from physical and mental exhaustion;
I swear I won't be bad for society;
What do you know now?
A thousand words, insist
This is a summary of a graduate student's college life. I have a deep understanding of this kind of life.
Not only the troubles of these students, but also the troubles of many social youths.
I am afraid of being rejected by my people; Fear of losing fame and fortune; Afraid of losing face; Fear of failure; Fear of being bullied; Fear of being used; Fear of loneliness; I'm afraid; fear
(1) The pressure of study gives people trouble; The pressure of studying in the final exam almost overwhelmed me, especially for a science student like me. Because college students are an independent whole, I spend most of my time supported by individuals and paired with many people with weak willpower. For me, indulgence is like a runaway wild horse, which makes me run wildly in the colorful world. What I forget is convergence. Even if there are cliffs ahead, I will close my eyes and seek peace of mind, and I will never think about the hard upbringing of my hometown elders.
(2) The troubles caused by the economic pressure of life; I have no idea how to save my life. I spend more than 1000 a month. When I am rich, I am full of scenery. When you have no money, eat your last meal with a gray face. Tossing and turning, unable to sleep, worrying about what life will be like tomorrow? But I dare not tell my family that my parents have been very hard and tired.
(3) There are many troubles in the relationship with girls; There are three kinds of personal feelings of modern college students. One is waiting for a rabbit. I hope love can come to my door without action. But only live in desire and pain every day, and troubles can be inseparable from me like a shadow. One is the burning type. I can make girls stay together like a duck to water every day. Living together for a long time will worry about each other's many shortcomings. The collision between positive and negative poles is no longer a spark of love, but a flame of anger. Be a tearful and dejected girl and continue to get along. The dew of time has long evaporated in those dark and sunny days. Let's take a look at your study depression and troubles. And those separated lovers may have so much acid and pain that she calls her crazy every night, forgetting that the dormitory has been closed and others are sleeping. When you are sick, you will find that her comfort will look so pale, helpless and sad for no reason, so run around quietly in your heart, don't forget the trouble. Then love, like a beautiful art painting, reaches the golden section at one end of the river bank thousands of miles away. I am intoxicating with beauty, so my old friend has spring, but good times don't often get together for thousands of miles. After all, I have sent you a thousand miles, and I want to cry without tears. The other is peacock memories. Many college students are just like Sister Xianglin. Every day, they talk about the past. What kind of classic love do I have? What kind of beauty is she? What kind of temptation does she have? Cao talked too much and no one listened. As a result, I was scolded I can't get out of the shadow of memories. I can't get a happy life. It must be annoying! No one knows how long I will be depressed! I don't know what kind of love I am! I don't know when I won't be lonely anymore!
(4) I am troubled by the lack of others; I can't get the care of school teachers or classmates, and I don't even care about my family. I spent a year at home in a hurry and didn't make a phone call. I care very much when I see other classmates' families asking if they are cold or warm. Sometimes I really want to cry, but there is no place to let go of my feelings and cry. Maybe people will think you're crazy. Many times, many people think you are weak. I have a strange and naive idea. If I die now, will my classmates pay attention to me? Or how many days do I have to die before the teacher knows that I have left quietly? Will you donate money to me? How much will you donate? ?
(5) Sometimes I get annoyed because I can't find a sense of accomplishment. The competition in modern society is too fierce, and so are schools. It's hard for me to find a sense of accomplishment in high school and the kind I like, so I'm lazy and have no motivation to struggle, hoping to find a sense of accomplishment in the world of online games. So the charm of online games is too great, because it can bring me a sense of accomplishment. I dare say that everyone has a strong desire in his heart, and that's why I'm even more worried!
(6) the troubles of employment; The seriousness of the form of employment has made my head a lot bigger. I can't imagine what it will be like in the future. I'm just groping my way forward at school. Actually, I dare not think about it either. Because I am interested in forests, I often go to the library for sightseeing. Waste my youth!
(7) the troubles caused by serious comparison; Americans are more popular than others, but I still like to compare with many classmates. I will stay with Comrade Hu Jintao for one day. Life is wonderful without him! Sad!
(8) The troubles caused by personal interests are different. Students play basketball in succession, but I can't do it at all. I can only stand aside and often be a cheerleader. I can't play with others, so my contacts are also implicated and I haven't found many good friends. Depressed!
(9) The troubles caused by computer addiction; After buying a computer, there are too many things to play in it, so I won't get tired of playing it every day, and it's easy to get addicted, just like I often pick the true three kingdoms in my dormitory. Many times I know I shouldn't surf the Internet, but I still have to surf the Internet or I will feel uncomfortable all over! A good way to restrain is to hope that friends will give some advice! I have integrated into this wonderful world. Somebody help me.
(10) The troubles caused by going out to work. Working outside has become an affirmation of college students' ability, but I am also worried, afraid of being scolded, afraid of falling behind in learning, so I am still a bird in a cage and a frog in the well. Never experienced the world. I still want to graduate soon!
Trouble, trouble, I live a life like a year in trouble every day. I don't know if the sun will come to my dark heart tomorrow. Come and give me some light and warmth.
The second part of the things surrounding the university speech
We have been in college for a year and a half, and we are a member of the army of college students. We all have our own troubles, but our troubles are also very * * * in all aspects. Let me share with you some troubles that I think everyone has.
Simply put these numerous troubles into the following three categories: life, study and emotion. First of all, talk about the troubles in life. There may be some characteristics that favor boys.
Before college, whether we live on campus or go home every day, we all live with our parents, and the trivial things in life will hardly bother us. But after coming to the university, we lost the care of our parents in life, and some problems inevitably appeared. The following three may be more representative. The first thing: clothes are piling up. It is observed that almost everyone has had this kind of trouble, but the frequency and degree are different; Second: money is like water. Usually, we can always hear a classmate say from time to time: no money! Especially at the end of the month. The third thing: getting less and less sleep. Everyone should have a deep understanding of this, regardless of boys and girls. The troubles in life are with us almost all the time, affecting our college life to varying degrees, both physically and psychologically. It is absolutely necessary to get rid of or eliminate these troubles. Here are some ways to introduce you. First, we must form good living habits, especially those students who have the above problems. A good living habit can completely improve our quality of life. Secondly, we must also learn to manage money. We don't have much money on us, not to mention that our parents earned it hard. It's okay not to make a plan, but at least know where to spend your money every month and where to spend it next month. Third: Learn how to make rational use of time. You can read more books when you have time, which is interesting and beneficial to your own development. Life is the foundation of all activities. I think living an organized and meaningful life should be a sign of success.
Next, I will talk to you about some troubles in my study. By the end of the term, I think everyone has a deeper understanding of learning troubles. Whether you love learning or not, everyone has troubles, personal or universal. Combining the examples around me and my own observation, I sum up some of your troubles into three formulas. First, stress+exam = class; Second, confused+tasteless = want to skip class; Finally, occasionally attending classes+often skipping classes leads to the failure of the course. No matter what kind of students, there is pressure. Students with excellent grades are under pressure to get scholarships. Middle school students are under pressure, so they should work hard to make progress and prevent retrogression. Students who don't like studying but don't have an open mind are under pressure to repeat grades and get employment in advance. The curriculum is complicated and useless, the teacher's class is boring, and he has no interest in this major, but he has to change his major. Confusion about the future has made many students feel confused and depressed as never before. Every student should have his own views on the current university education in China. Whether we are lucky or unlucky at this stage, many things are beyond our control. I think as long as we take it seriously, we can always find a way that suits us. Here are some suggestions for those students who still live in the fog. Simply put, it is four steps: find interest, find the right direction, and strive to reach the other side.
Finally, let's talk about the emotional troubles that everyone is interested in. I gave him a title called "Those troubles in love". I looked up some materials and summarized the characteristics of our college students' love situation as follows: popularization, younger age and openness. I think everyone can understand and have a deep understanding of this "three modernizations", so I won't say much and tell you some data. According to the survey, about one-third of college students are in love now, and as high as 50% of senior students? 60%, and students in favor of love account for 95% of the total number of students. According to incomplete statistics, the number of junior one students in love was only 5% five years ago, but now it has reached about 15%. According to incomplete statistics, the number of junior one students in love was only 5% five years ago, but now it has reached about 15%. What caused this situation? Here are some common love psychology. First, the acquisitive psychology of being eager for success is directly related to the special crowd atmosphere where talents, manners and beautiful women gather in colleges and universities. Some male college students stubbornly believe that girls who have no boyfriends after graduation are all left behind by others. Second, the dependence psychology is mainly caused by the loneliness of the only child and the habit of caring for others. Love motivation, which belongs to "emotional sustenance", lacks independent consciousness and self-reliance ability and is easily frustrated. Third, psychological compensation, triggered by utilitarian love motives, hopes to get social status and economic compensation from the loved ones. Fourth, the psychology of the Dance Academy: His love motive is to satisfy the desire to associate with the opposite sex, seek excitement, fill the spiritual emptiness, and even have premarital sex. They love each other, play with each other and lose each other, which is a kind of enjoyment and consumption outside marriage. Finally, curiosity about sex, sexual impulse caused by physical maturity and requirements for sexual intimacy. Of course, the above list is some common psychology, not all. The above psychology can be said to be abnormal psychology, which leads to a common love mentality around us: just ask for what you once had, not for eternity!
Next, I will introduce you to some psychological puzzles caused by emotions.
One: In the minds of college students, the gap between the ideal and reality of love makes people feel an unspeakable loss. In other words, I have always believed that there is perfect love, but the reality is that there is no perfect man or woman and no perfect self. There are many factors that affect the success of love, such as age, appearance, conduct, personality, culture, occupation, interests, hobbies, economic status, nationality, religious beliefs, political attitudes, etc. Maybe it's just mutual appreciation and recognition of a certain aspect, or it's just that they broke up because they don't like it a little. As we all know, it takes time to reach a tacit understanding in many aspects, and it takes mutual understanding and joint efforts to establish a permanent love and happy family.
Three: we are still young, too inexperienced, and lack a deep understanding and correct judgment of a person's experience; Because they are too emotional and extroverted, they blindly sweep away the traditional way of love with implication and depth as the beauty. We are facing a realistic society with diversified life values, so it is logical to have psychological difficulties in love.
The psychological dilemma of love can also be divided into three categories.
One. There are two main reasons for the above psychological difficulties: First, there is deviation in self-evaluation. Such students often care too much about what others think of them, but never seriously consider how to give themselves an objective evaluation; The second is the misunderstanding of the attraction of love and the lack of scientific cognition. On the surface, it seems that people's psychology of choosing a spouse is more inclined to external charm. In fact, most male and female college students think that personality, talent, psychological fit, personality and hobbies are more attractive when choosing the opposite sex. With the growth of grades, college students are becoming more and more practical about the conditions for choosing love objects. Generally, I will no longer "follow my feelings" or only care about "having". Therefore, college students with such psychological difficulties should look for their own strengths from all aspects, excavate and sort out their own bright spots and characteristics that can attract others, learn to change their way of thinking, and compare their strengths with others' shortcomings in order to enhance their self-confidence and accept themselves; Secondly, learn dialectical thinking and see the two sides of things. Is a person attractive to the opposite sex? Do you have to have a suitable lover during college? Doesn't mean what your future life will be like. "belated love" may be true love, and puppy love may disappear early.
Secondly, the psychological dilemma of this kind of love is mainly due to the superficial understanding of friendship and love and the lack of scientific understanding of social interpersonal relationships, which proves that their sexual psychological development really lags behind the maturity of sexual physiology. Of course, it does not rule out the influence and psychological impact of complex interpersonal relationships formed by rapid social development and concept renewal on college students.
I want to say these three words about love: love is a responsibility, love is an elegant art, and love is an ability to live.
Lecture on things around the university (the third part)
I went to college with a sack of money and exchanged a sack of books; After graduation, I exchanged these books for money, but I couldn't afford a sack. "This is the truth of some college graduates. The first thing for college students after graduation is to find a satisfactory job, but how many people are satisfied? Many college students began to run for their future in their junior year. Where is their fate? When I entered the Sohu community this morning, many topics were about college students. The trouble for college students is to find a job, because 6.5 million college students graduated this year, which is a huge employment force.
Not long ago, I saw CCTV 2' s economic news about the "labor shortage" of migrant workers in Dongguan, Guangdong. A few years ago, a bridge was crowded with migrant workers looking for jobs. This year is crowded with bosses looking for migrant workers, in sharp contrast. It is said that Guangdong is short of 2 million migrant workers because of economic recovery. I interviewed a girl in her twenties on the news. She wears 30 cars and 30 clothes a day, each 3.5 yuan. The actual income is about 3000 yuan/month, which is quite a lot. But you have to work 14 hours every day, and you earn hard money. It means tight employment here.
Tell me more about college students. After the expansion of enrollment, the annual graduation team of college students and junior college students in China is quite large. How many talents did the expansion of university enrollment bring to China? How many lives have changed? Enrollment expansion, enrollment expansion, all go to college, drive sheep into wolves, train pigs into leopards, train cattle and horses into lions, chickens and ducks into carved eagle, who will eat grass? The evil consequence of blind enrollment expansion in universities is to create a bunch of so-called unemployed young people with high academic qualifications.
College students are demanding. First of all, the salary is required to be at least 2000 yuan per month. The reason is that the initial investment cost is too high, coupled with soaring housing prices, even "ant housing" has to be paid monthly, but the conditions given by the employer are that Xinjiang only has 1 0,000 to 1, 500 yuan only has 2,000 yuan/month. I believe the whole country is similar except Beijing and Shanghai. This can't meet the salary requirements of college students, more than half of them can't find jobs, and many of them have lost employment opportunities. Our unit has come and gone a lot.
Secondly, the working environment that college students need. Those who enter the office as soon as they arrive at the unit must go to the grass-roots workshop for exercise. They see that the environment is poor and there are many jobs that they can't afford to lose. Most of the post-90s generation are only children, and they are baby bumps. They never suffered anything, so they left in less than a week. For example, our unit recruited more than a dozen cement projects with a daily output of 3,000 tons in Wusu, and ten of them left after one week because they could not bear hardships.
Now that college students are not assigned, parents are also anxious. What can we do? I spent a lot of money, and finally, I graduated and was still a nerd. This is not only a problem for college students, but also a problem for parents. In two years, the child will get married again, which makes parents very painful and worried about college students.
Who is to blame for all this? Is it the teaching system? Or the social system? It remains to be discussed. Back to the front, migrant workers are "short of work", with a gap of 2 million, just one Guangdong province! How big is the gap between the economically developed areas in the Yangtze River Delta and the Pearl River Delta? Can our university bank put down its airs to fill these vacancies? I think college students will scold me if I ask this question, but isn't this also a way?
In the western part of the motherland, such as Xinjiang, there is also a shortage of talents, especially in remote mountainous areas. College students, the only child, are facing the ideological struggle of choosing a job. The employment pressure of the graduating army every year can be imagined. Put down your airs and go where you are most needed and where you grew up.
Maybe college students strongly oppose Yaozi's point of view, but I am kind. I wish our graduating college students and those who are willing to find a job find a good job.
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