University is a free and inclusive place, where you will meet many different people. Some people are independent, some people are different, and some people work hard. Colorful life collides freely here. It's really not easy to handle the relationship between classmates. Next, I will teach you a few tricks to make you feel at home in college life.
A gentleman is harmonious but different, and a villain is not harmonious. Universities are admitted according to grades, not one's moral character, so you will meet different people. There are different ways to communicate with different people, the premise is a scale. First of all, people who can come to universities to receive higher education must have excellent grades or outstanding majors. Such people are not difficult to get along with. The right medicine is the key. Some people like to study. Try not to involve games or play when communicating with such people. From the aspect of learning, talk about the professional courses you are interested in or the courses you are interested in, so that the other party can know that you are also a person with your own opinions on learning. For those who like sports, show their own sports characteristics and communicate with them with their strength.
Understand personality, starting with small things and details. Everyone has something he likes. You can tell by listening to music. From the type of music, you can get a general understanding of a person's personality and favorite style. Some people like to listen to folk songs, some people like rock, some people like to listen to classics and so on. When you communicate, try not to have differences in genres, but to understand the advantages of each other's favorite styles with appreciation. For a person who likes the national style, it's no fun to talk to him about the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame. Starting from such a small thing as music, we can find something in everyone's heart. It's much easier from here.
Mutual understanding, mutual tolerance and mutual concessions. In fact, the most critical interpersonal relationship among college students is between dormitories. After all, roommates will live together for four years. The dormitory is a small family, but it is not a real family. No one will indulge you like you do at home, because the dormitory is a public space in a sense. In a place that is both a public space and a private space, you have to restrain yourself. Some people like to go to bed late, while others like to go to bed early and get up early. These are two completely different lifestyles, there is nothing wrong, but they have a greater influence on each other. People who like to sleep late should try not to make noise in the dormitory to affect students who go to bed early, and students who go to bed early should try not to affect students who are still sleeping when they get up. This is the best way to get along. Some students may like smoking, so you should pay attention to the fact that the harm of second-hand smoke is much higher than that of direct smoking, so try to smoke on the balcony or outdoors to avoid affecting your classmates.
Having said that, some people go their own way and simply ignore other people's opinions and suggestions. At this time, you can't give in. You should report this situation to the relevant personnel and hand it over to the school for settlement. We will always encounter things that cannot be solved. At this time, we have to ask for help instead of relying on our own ideas to solve the problem. Isolating others or picking fights can't solve it. There will always be difficulties in life. If you take negative measures to deal with difficulties, then you should reflect on your own problems.