confused
One,
interpersonal communication
In terms of interpersonal communication, it may be that former friends are not around and online communication is not timely.
On the other hand, I don't get along well with my roommates and classmates.
Second, personal ability is insufficient.
Lack of personal ability leads to lack of confidence. Inferiority is an important cause of confusion. Because of my lack of personal ability, I watched the opportunity slip away in front of me, so I regret not working hard before. Because of my lack of personal ability, I envy others' achievements. By contrast, I was hit. Because of lack of personal ability, bad personal habits and procrastination, failing homework or lessons, being criticized or accused, I feel uncomfortable and feel inferior.
confused
Personal ability is insufficient, but you don't want to work hard, because there is no habit of working hard, and failure to work hard leads to personal ability deficiency, which becomes an infinite cycle.
I have never been in the habit of working hard. Just urging me to study. When I got to the university, I stopped studying without anyone urging me. Plus, since childhood, it's not so fierce and dazzling.
I find that I don't have any special skills and I can't communicate with others. After studying for several years, I can't do my best. When I found that I had accomplished nothing and my head was empty, I felt very inferior.
I found that I had to question the teacher's theory, judge and innovate, but I found that I was not inspired. For so many years, I only extracted and memorized all the good words and sentences. I know who said this sentence, but I can't say it myself. What's worse, I can't do at least one sentence.
To learn
Third, college life is not suitable.
Not suitable for interpersonal communication, too much leisure life in college, not suitable for teachers' teaching methods, not suitable for learning methods here, and not suitable for all aspects.
Fourth, there is no incentive.
Because without achievement, there is no motivation. In the final analysis, it is lack of ability.