A female student of English department in Guangdong, whose family is very poor, needs to wear clothes one by one in winter. Finally, she committed suicide. Regardless of other reasons, poverty is definitely one of the reasons, and economic distress has pushed a life to an end. There are also college students who sell their houses at home, and those who sell their houses are for education, but the money in poor areas is undoubtedly a drop in the bucket for the high tuition and fees of universities. Sitting in the classroom and worrying about next week's living expenses and next semester's tuition will make everyone feel desperate. Although there are scholarships, student funds and student loans ... only a few people really help. It is a sin to have no money to study. College students are poor enough to commit suicide, and society should also bear the unshirkable responsibility.
The second reason: standing still in college education.
There has been such a saying since ancient times: teaching and educating people, but now there are many teachers in universities, but not enough people. In particular, the ideological education for college students is empty talk and unrealistic, and has not entered the hearts of students. Now college students' thoughts are actually a pale and empty desert. Facing the rapid development of society and the innovation speed of market economy, if college students want to adapt to society and the future, they must ask university teachers to carefully analyze the relationship between college students' psychology and social reality and find the entry point for their future integration into society. This is the key to ideological education. However, how much has our university education done? Enrollment expansion, enrollment expansion! The number of students has expanded. Has the ideological education for college students been expanded?
Reason three: the fragility of psychological endurance.
The competition in today's society is fierce. In order to find a job, many students study hard, but they are less and less courageous to face the unknown future. If something happens, they will leave a suicide note and find it short. All aspects of society attach importance to learning, but neglect good psychological education for students. Many students show the characteristics of lack of social experience, strong dependence and poor psychological endurance, and are prone to go to extremes when encountering setbacks. In addition to caring about students' grades, school teachers and parents should also pay attention to observing students' psychological changes, keep abreast of students' psychological trends, and help students adjust their psychology. It is best to sharpen their will and strengthen their nerves with more life experiences.
Reason 4: The employment system of college students is not perfect.
The current job market is really chaotic, and there is no unified guarantee standard for college students' employment. A few days ago, 600 yuan hired a college student with a basic salary. We often see some strange recruitment questions to test our college students, and there is even news that recruiters ask people if they have anyone. These recruitment methods are totally discriminatory. If the employment market of college students is standardized and they can compete on an equal footing, then their mentality will be in a peaceful state and they will not go to extremes. In a sense, college students' suicide is a sign of losing confidence in the future. The reason why they lose confidence has a lot to do with the chaos in our current job market.
Reason 5: Stress leads to depression.
Meng Yi, a 26-year-old doctoral student from Hengyang, Shanghai Institute of Organic Chemistry, Chinese Academy of Sciences, jumped from the seventh floor of the teaching building, which disturbed the study of the staff in the conference room on the first floor and took away his young life. In his suicide note, he said that the reasons for his suicide were "world-weariness, laziness and depression." He also said at the end of the suicide note: "Although God wants to keep me, my life is hanging by a thread." The reason why he chose not to go back is that the research pressure of the institute is too great. Not to mention doctoral students, college students are under great pressure to study everywhere. Although it is difficult to train talents without pressure, can we consider the students' endurance? They are like high-speed rotating motors with thousands of pounds of metal support. When metals are tired, let alone people.
Reason six: indifferent social and cultural atmosphere
The cultural atmosphere created now has a really bad influence on college students. One is the atmosphere of "aristocratic culture". Let's look at today's TV and movies that reflect the lives of young people. What are not jewels, and how many reflect struggle, hard work, simplicity and enterprising? It is easy for students to compare it with reality, which will naturally lead to pessimism. The second is to ignore the cultural atmosphere of life. Violent movies and TV programs are proof that people's lives have been violated by violence. It is easy for people to downplay life. The third is the luxurious cultural atmosphere. Paying attention to food and clothing has become people's fashion, and the result of this fashion is people's inner emptiness. Pessimism, indifference to life and emptiness of mind are the catalysts for suicidal emotions.
Reason seven: emotional entanglements
In the past, there was a popular saying in the school, "The old people have left in BMW, and the old people in Kong Wen are crying here." It is a vivid portrayal of contemporary campus love. Nowadays, college students like fast-food love, but they don't know how serious the sequelae are. It is common to fall in love at school and break up after graduation. Feelings are two-sided, and it is difficult to predict the outcome. Finally, some people walk freely, while others can't let go. Some college students with insufficient life experience drilled a dead end and committed suicide. On the one hand, the sloppy attitude of modern people towards emotional problems regards love as a game; On the one hand, the weak consciousness of self-protection and the great deception of body and mind deserve our deep thinking. Love in popular culture has greatly changed the concept of love of modern college students, and also led some of them to embark on the road of no return or not completely changed.
Reason 8: world-weariness, the temptation of suicide
There are many suicide websites in Korea and Japan, and some time ago there were suicide websites in China. They preach that they will die if they are tired of the world, which has a great influence on the world. College students are the most receptive group to new things. Faced with various pressures from all sides, students are at a loss about the future. Xiao Xugang, a freshman in Chinese Department of Shenzhen University, chose to jump off a building to end her life. Six days later, Xiao Zhang, a graduate student in the architecture department of Shenzhen University, also committed suicide by jumping off a building. The reason is that she suffers from depression and has a strong world-weariness mentality. Many factors, such as psychological barriers, physical illness, study and employment pressure, emotional frustration, economic pressure, family changes and the surrounding living environment, will make students commit suicide because of world-weariness. The whole society should pay attention to the psychological barriers of college students and their mental health.
Finally, I want to ask college students a word: "Since you have the courage to die, why don't you have the courage to live?" Even if society doesn't provide enough nutrition for your "courage to live", can't you find a reason for your "courage to live"? Listing so many reasons is not for you to mourn for it, but for you to face these problems firmly and live a wonderful life constantly.