When I was old, I found that all these truths were true. How many ridiculous things happened in those days have now become a snack.
Rivers are thousands of miles away, and there are clouds in Wan Li.
As Dazeng said, the past is the past. Life is a process of vicissitudes and tempering. Spring, summer, autumn and winter, the wind and water turn. Irresistible time, irrepressible years.
And some things are always experienced before you understand, and some truths are discovered when you are old-all true.
Old, only to find that:
Friends, there is no distance, only sincerity.
Friends are like the stars and the moon in the night sky, shining, encouraging and looking at each other.
A friend is embedded in silent care, and you don't have to meet every day, but you will always have a heart. Don't be insincere. Nodding may make you understand that sometimes it is a pleasure to shine in the distance.
Writer San Mao once said:
The most beautiful thing about this relationship is the icing on the cake; The most valuable thing is to send charcoal in the snow; The best among friends is like good tea, which is light but not astringent, fragrant but not tangy, slowly floating, like water flowing forever.
Willing to join hands, not far from mountains and seas; People who follow the rules are not close at hand.
Friends are a kind of telepathy, a kind of tacit understanding.
A gesture, a smile, a word and deed, even a look, an action, a back, a look back, friends will get the message.
You don't need to explain to each other, you don't need to say anything, you don't need to talk nonsense, you don't need to make public, you are soul mates. It is the tenderest, most comfortable, most carefree and most beautiful artistic conception.
It is better to miss friends than to read thousands of books all your life;
Beautiful scenery all the way is not as good as friends.
Old, only to find that:
Leave room for others and leave yourself a way out.
There is such a legend in ancient Greek mythology:
Phaeton, the son of Apollo, the sun god, drove wildly in a luxuriously decorated solar car. He happened to meet the lunar rover when he came to a cliff.
When the lunar rover was about to turn around and return, Phaeton pushed it to the back of the lunar rover with the advantage of strong solar axle, leaving no room for manoeuvre for the other side.
Just as Phaeton gloated over the hard-to-protect lunar rover, his solar car came to a dead end and there was no room to turn around.
Advancing is dangerous, retreating is a disaster, and finally dying in the fire is helpless.
Leave room for things, don't push people to the wall; Leave room for your words, too. Don't fill them up.
Because there are always accidents in everything, there is room for them, just to accommodate them and not stand in their way.
Old, only to find that:
Reading more books is really useful.
The famous Argentine writer Borges said:
God gave me a vast sea of books and a pair of invisible eyes. Even so, I still secretly imagine that heaven should be like a library.
Regarding the usefulness of reading, I remembered a speech by Zhang Xuefeng, a graduate teacher, in the first issue of The Speaker. The host Lu Yu asked him:
"Do you really believe that postgraduate entrance examination can change people's destiny, or do you start to promote postgraduate entrance examination after doing this?"
His next words, clumsy and sincere, are very touching:
"If you are interested, go to Qiqihar University in September this year to see what kind of enterprises Qiqihar University is going to recruit;
Go to the school in Beijing to see what kind of enterprises are recruited by University of Science and Technology Beijing.
Let's see what kind of enterprises Tsinghua Peking University is recruiting. What kind of enterprise they go to, how much money they give students, and a month's salary. This is indeed the reality of the current recruitment market. "
I saw a question on Zhihu: "What is the most self-motivated person you have ever seen?"
The answer to the first number of likes is:
"I have met the most self-motivated people who are anxious about the status quo and have no perseverance to practice their determination to change. After three minutes of heat, I often hate my disappointment, and the most persistent thing is that I can't persist. They are buried in the crowd as the most ordinary people, but they live the most miserable life. "
Reading is never useless, even if it can't show the effect now, the scenery you yearn for in the book has become the real experience and wealth in your life, and it will play a huge role one day.
Old, only to find that:
Good health is over wealth.
Wealth and splendor, foreign things; Peace and health are the foundation.
Fudan female doctor Yu Juan wrote in her autobiography "Cancer Diary":
"Health is really important. At the critical point of life and death, you will find that any overtime work (staying up late for a long time equals chronic suicide), putting too much pressure on yourself, and the need to buy a house and a car are all floating clouds.
Spend more time with your children when you have time, buy a pair of shoes for your parents with the money from buying a car, and don't try hard to change a big house. It is also warm to be with the person you love. "
As Yi Shu said: My destination is health and talent.
Many things are precious only when they are about to be lost. Feelings are like this, so is health. So, don't let the future you hate the hard-working but healthy you now.
Forget what you shouldn't remember and cherish what you have around you.
Spare cooking time, savor time, and live a healthy and wonderful life in humble.
Old, only to find that:
Don't always save the best for last.
Sometimes what you think of as frugality is actually a waste.
Because of food, clothing, money, etc. Will gradually lose its original value in the passage of time.
Because time won't wait for you, when you want to enjoy life, you may find that you can't climb to the top of the mountain at one breath.
Don't save the best for last, because beauty won't stay. Don't wait for you to take out the flowered skirt, only to find that you are past the age of wearing it.
Don't look for the footprints of spring breeze in autumn, and don't look for the shadow of autumn moon in winter. We should enjoy the best life in the right season.
Whether you are 20, 30, 60 or 70, you should enjoy yourself in a high-profile way, seize every moment now, do whatever you want, and don't save the best for the last!
Beauty will never stop, just like the spring breeze comes and goes.
Life comes and goes, and there is no more time. If you don't enjoy it in time, you may have changed your taste and appearance when you enjoy it.
Mao Mu once said in The Moon and Sixpence that I tried my best and lived an ordinary life.
Just like fireworks, we have seen Qian Qian's wonderful scenery, and when we get old, it will be calm. Perhaps only in the end, I found that ordinary is the only answer.
If a person's thoughts are transparent, then he will be enlightened in his actions and in his heart. He will have desire but not persistence, and he will live freely. People who are prepared for danger in times of peace have a peaceful heart, bluer clouds and more secluded boats.
The past will eventually become a passing cloud, and after that, it will turn over.
If you are always entangled, there will be no sunny day in life.
When I was old, I found that all these truths were true.
Rivers are thousands of miles away, and there are clouds in Wan Li.
As Dazeng said, the past is the past. Life is a process of vicissitudes and tempering. Spring, summer, autumn and winter, the wind and water turn. Irresistible time, irrepressible years.
And some things are always experienced before you understand, and some truths are discovered when you are old-all true.
When I am old, I find that my friends are not far away, but sincere.
Friends are like the stars and the moon in the night sky, shining, encouraging and looking at each other.
A friend is embedded in silent care, and you don't have to meet every day, but you will always have a heart. Don't be insincere. Nodding may make you understand that sometimes it is a pleasure to shine in the distance.
Writer San Mao once said:
The most beautiful thing about this relationship is the icing on the cake; The most valuable thing is to send charcoal in the snow; The best among friends is like good tea, which is light but not astringent, fragrant but not tangy, slowly floating, like water flowing forever.
Willing to join hands, not far from mountains and seas; People who follow the rules are not close at hand.
Friends are a kind of telepathy, a kind of tacit understanding.
A gesture, a smile, a word and deed, even a look, an action, a back, a look back, friends will get the message.
You don't need to explain to each other, you don't need to say anything, you don't need to talk nonsense, you don't need to make public, you are soul mates. It is the tenderest, most comfortable, most carefree and most beautiful artistic conception.
It is better to miss friends than to read thousands of books all your life; Beautiful scenery all the way is not as good as friends.
When you get older, you find that leaving room for others is also leaving a way back for yourself.
There is a legend in ancient Greek mythology: Fay, the son of Apollo, the sun god, rode a luxurious solar car. He happened to meet the lunar rover when he came to a cliff.
When the lunar rover was about to turn around and return, Phaeton pushed it to the back of the lunar rover with the advantage of strong solar axle, leaving no room for manoeuvre for the other side.
Just as Phaeton gloated over the hard-to-protect lunar rover, his solar car came to a dead end and there was no room to turn around.
Advancing is dangerous, retreating is a disaster, and finally dying in the fire is helpless.
Leave room for things, don't push people to the wall; Leave room for your words, too. Don't fill them up.
Because there are always accidents in everything, there is room for them, just to accommodate them and not stand in their way.
I found it really useful to read more books when I was old.
The famous Argentine writer Borges said: God gave me a vast sea of books and a pair of invisible eyes. Even so, I still secretly imagine that heaven should be like a library.
Regarding the usefulness of reading, Shi Jun remembered a lecture by Zhang Xuefeng, a graduate teacher, in an issue of The Speaker. The host Lu Yu asked him:
"Do you really believe that postgraduate entrance examination can change people's destiny, or do you start to promote postgraduate entrance examination after doing this?"
His next words, clumsy and sincere, are very touching:
"If you are interested, go to Qiqihar University in September this year to see what kind of enterprises Qiqihar University is going to recruit;
Go to the school in Beijing to see what kind of enterprises are recruited by University of Science and Technology Beijing.
Let's see what kind of enterprises Tsinghua Peking University is recruiting. What kind of enterprise they go to, how much money they give students, and a month's salary. This is indeed the reality of the current recruitment market. "
I saw a question on Zhihu: "What is the most self-motivated person you have ever seen?"
The first answer is: "The most self-motivated person I have ever met is anxious about the status quo and has no perseverance to practice his determination to change himself. After three minutes of heat, I often hate my disappointment, and the most persistent thing is that I can't persist. They are buried in the crowd as the most ordinary people, but they live the most miserable life. "
Reading is never useless, even if it can't show the effect now, the scenery you yearn for in the book has become the real experience and wealth in your life, and it will play a huge role one day.
When I am old, I find that good health is the greatest wealth.
Wealth and splendor, foreign things; Peace and health are the foundation.
Yu Juan, a female doctor at Fudan University, wrote in her autobiography "Cancer Diary": "Health is really important. At the critical point of life and death, you will find that any overtime work (staying up late for a long time equals chronic suicide), putting too much pressure on yourself, and the need to buy a house and a car are all floating clouds.
Spend more time with your children when you have time, buy a pair of shoes for your parents with the money from buying a car, and don't try hard to change a big house. It is also warm to be with the person you love. "
As Yi Shu said: My destination is health and talent.
Many things are precious only when they are about to be lost. Feelings are like this, so is health. So, don't let the future you hate the hard-working but healthy you now.
Forget what you shouldn't remember and cherish what you have around you.
Spare cooking time, savor time, and live a healthy and wonderful life in humble.
When I get old, I find: Don't always save the best for last.
Sometimes what you think of as frugality is actually a waste.
Because of food, clothing, money, etc. Will gradually lose its original value in the passage of time.
Because time won't wait for you, when you want to enjoy life, you may find that you can't climb to the top of the mountain at one breath.
Don't save the best for last, because beauty won't stay. Don't wait for you to take out the flowered skirt, only to find that you are past the age of wearing it.
Don't look for the footprints of spring breeze in autumn, and don't look for the shadow of autumn moon in winter. We should enjoy the best life in the right season.
Whether you are 20, 30, 60 or 70, you should enjoy yourself in a high-profile way, seize every moment now, do whatever you want, and don't save the best for the last!
Beauty will never stop, just like the spring breeze comes and goes.
Life comes and goes, and there is no more time. If you don't enjoy it in time, you may have changed your taste and appearance when you enjoy it.
Mao Mu once said in The Moon and Sixpence that I tried my best and lived an ordinary life.
Just like fireworks, we have seen Qian Qian's wonderful scenery, and when we get old, it will be calm. Perhaps only in the end, I found that ordinary is the only answer.
If a person's thoughts are transparent, then he will be enlightened in his actions and in his heart. He will have desire but not persistence, and he will live freely. People who are prepared for danger in times of peace have a peaceful heart, bluer clouds and more secluded boats.
The past will eventually become a passing cloud, and after that, it will turn over.
If you are always entangled, there will be no sunny day in life.