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The current social chaos has attracted the attention of all walks of life. Both men and women pursue sexual stimulation and indulge for money. Consequences, separation of husband and wife, children's pain, epidemic disease. Cause social unrest.
Therefore, I am reminded of an old story: "Liu Xiahui sat in".
Liu Xiahui, who are you? Liu Xiahui has only been a judge (in charge of prisons) all his life. However, he was strict in law enforcement and upright, and was dismissed three times. Later generations of Confucius and Mencius listed him as "losing his holiness", and Confucius praised him: "It is enough to lose one's will and not insult one's body, to speak from one's heart and to act on one's mind." Mencius praised: "Liu Xiahui is also a saint." The deceased called it "harmony".
According to Xunzi, during the Spring and Autumn Period, there was a doctor named Liu Xiahui in Lu. He is a man of high morality. On one occasion, Liu Xiahui went to other places to handle affairs, which delayed the time to leave the city. At this time, the inn was also full of guests, so he had to spend the night under the city gate. Soon, a beautiful young woman also came to spend the night under the city gate. Liu Xiahui saw the woman, wearing thin clothes and shivering with cold. Liu Xiahui was afraid that she would freeze to death, so she wrapped her in her arms with cotton-padded clothes, and there was no fornication until dawn.
Now analysis, it should be said that, first, Liu Xiahui is very rational about sex, he didn't take advantage of people's danger to possess young and beautiful women; Second, beautiful young women are also very decent. She didn't commit suicide because Liu Xiahui gave her warmth. Third, it should be said that he (she) is of high moral character. Have grasped the moral bottom line of sex. There is nothing immoral because of your own interests. Therefore, the story of "Liu Xiahui can't sit still" has become an eternal beauty talk.
On October 20th, 65438 10, I saw a message on Sina. Com: "Female college students want a one-night stand to make up for the journey home." Xiao Yan, a 22-year-old foreign trade girl from a university in Yongchuan, thought hard and finally decided to look for a "one-night stand" on the Internet, on condition that the other party would subsidize her travel expenses of several hundred yuan. On June 1 1, Xiao Yan met a man named "Lonely Tonight" in the cafe of French naval barracks in binjiang road, South Bank. The man named "Lonely Tonight" remitted money to Xiaoyan and left her. No money to buy sex. Help educate Xiao Yan with facts. I can't tell yet that Lonely Tonight is a Liu Xiahui-style character. At least he did a good thing, helped others, and gave Xiaoyan a trip home. He didn't sell himself short, fish in troubled waters and hurt Xiaoyan.
Of course, I mainly want to say a few more words about Xiaoyan here. A female college student with higher education made such irresponsible and frivolous actions to herself in order to raise money to go home. Not to mention that the traditional virtue of women's chastity in China has been lost, and even the basic moral thought of being a "good woman" has been forgotten. We shouldn't ask, has a female college student with higher education strengthened her self-cultivation at ordinary times? ! I don't know if you have read the story "Liu Xiahui Sit-in". If not, you might as well read it. It may also shake your heart. Compared with that beautiful young woman, will she feel ashamed? Is a woman's chastity more important than those hundreds of dollars? Money can be obtained through various legal channels. And chastity is only once for women! ! ! If you lose it, you can't get it back. She is a woman's personality and dignity!
Of course, the problem of promiscuity is not just a woman's problem at present. The development trend of social freedom is that there are more and more men and women, which seriously harms society. This serious consequence should arouse everyone's attention. If we all sit still and love ourselves like Liu Xiahui, will our social morality be much better?