Current location - Education and Training Encyclopedia - University rankings - How to deal with the dormitory relationship of college girls?
How to deal with the dormitory relationship of college girls?
We have to live in dormitories for four years in college, and roommates have become the closest and longest-lasting people we get along with, so establishing a good dormitory relationship is the beginning of a good college life.

I think the following three points should be kept in mind and mastered in university dormitories.

① Respect understanding and seek common ground while reserving differences;

After going to college, everyone's family environment and dormitory life experience are different, and everyone's personality is also very different, but we can choose to respect each other, such as respecting others' dressing styles, hobbies, habits and values. As long as you don't touch your bottom line, you don't have to quarrel with your roommates or have a cold war.

(2) Empathy and self-discipline:

People who have the ability to put themselves in others' shoes have many people in their hearts. When we can put ourselves in the shoes of more people, it actually means that more people can be put in our hearts. The so-called prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach, which means that empathy brings us more imagination and more possibilities, so that we can better understand other people's behaviors and ideas and get along with others. Self-discipline and tolerance, you can't treat yourself and others with double standards, but you should be stricter with yourself and learn to be considerate and forgive others. This will give others the impression that we are tolerant, not aggressive.

(3) help each other, treat people sincerely:

If your roommate is in trouble and needs your help, don't be stingy and give you help. I think most people have good personalities. You helped her once, she will remember your kindness, and they will help you next time you are in trouble. You should also pay more attention to your roommates at ordinary times. Only with your heart can you open their hearts. Sincere people are always the most popular.

The above three points are the three most important points that I think the interpersonal relationship in the dormitory is good.

I hope all the students who read this answer can have good interpersonal relationships in college and spend a wonderful four years! Remember, if you are in full bloom, butterflies will come!