In ordinary daily life, deeds are the least familiar to everyone. From the formation and connotation of advanced objects, deeds can be divided into long-term advanced deeds and temporary emergencies. How should we draft deeds and materials? The following are the deeds of respecting the elderly that I collected for you (generally 5 articles). Welcome to share.
Deeds of respecting the elderly 1 Peng, female, Han nationality,1born in September, 986, a villager of Yapulong Village Committee, and now the deputy director of Yapulong Village Committee. My father died of illness at an early age, and my mother remarried and raised her beside my grandmother for her to go to school. These hardships have shaped her into a charitable, old-age, straightforward, enthusiastic and cheerful personality. In the eyes of villagers, she is a good child, and in the eyes of grandma, she is a good granddaughter; Among friends and relatives, there is no one who doesn't give a thumbs-up and no disrespect. She is indeed a good example for us to respect the old and be filial and live in harmony with our neighbors.
First of all, she is a kind young man.
Peng had excellent academic performance since childhood, and many parents in the village came to her to make up lessons for their children. Every time, she takes pains to tell them what she has learned and teach them her own learning experience and skills. Many children have made great progress as a result.
After graduating from college, because she majored in English, many children asked her to help them learn English. No matter how busy Peng is, as long as she has time, she will go to Children's Home to help them and never charge a penny.
Aunt Miao, a villager, tried to commit suicide many times because her husband was paralyzed and her children were unable to support her. When she heard about it, she hurried to their house to find out the situation. While doing ideological work for the children, she enlightened Aunt Miao, took her own food and money to give Aunt Miao an emergency, and helped Aunt Miao to do laundry, cook and clean. It was not until her children offered to take care of their parents' daily life that she was relieved.
Kong Derong, a villager in the village next door, has a difficult family and suffers from indirect mental illness. His parents are old and weak, and his daughter is young. His wife tried to run away from home many times for this reason. When she heard about this, while doing his wife's ideological work, she quickly reflected to the village group, responded to the villagers' donations, helped them treat their diseases, and helped their family tide over the difficulties.
Second, she is a filial daughter.
My father was paralyzed in bed because of illness, and my mother ran away from home because of indirect mental illness. Besides studying hard, she cooked and massaged her father when she got home. When the weather is fine, she takes her father to the yard to bask in the sun. Every weekend, as long as conditions permit, in addition to finishing homework and washing clothes, she massages her father whenever she has time, finds delicious wild vegetables for her father to eat, and gives them to her father whenever she has time, hoping to alleviate her father's pain. Especially during his father's serious illness, he almost squeezed out all his study time to chat with his father, pick up some things that can be sold and buy nutrition for his father. Especially in his last days, fortunately, during the holidays, she spent all her time and energy on his father, never leaving, feeding, scrubbing, massaging, washing feet, accompanying the bed, and finding Chinese herbal medicines to stew for him when his father was asleep. Unfortunately, my father finally died of illness. At that time, my father was only 37 years old and she was only 9 years old. She was weak and young, and eventually became an orphan. She also grieved for it for a long time, but finally chose to face it bravely. Fortunately, grandma resolutely shouldered the burden of raising her and continued to provide him with education. Since then, she has made up her mind to study hard and repay her grandmother in the future.
After graduating from college, she gave up the generous job treatment in other places and decided to go home to start a business in order to take care of her elderly grandmother. Because grandma went to work in the field as a freshman, she accidentally fell down from the hillside, and her face, waist and legs were seriously injured. She stayed in bed for nearly two months, but fortunately she had a holiday. After learning about this, she gave up the opportunity to work in the city and rushed home to take her grandmother for infusion, medicine and water. Under her careful care, grandma gradually recovered, but because of her age, the waist injury could not be cured. When the weather changes, grandma feels unbearable pain. For this reason, she specially bought a massager to help her massage. Don't let her do heavy work or dirty work. Whenever possible, she tried to keep her grandmother out. She wants to do her best to let her grandmother enjoy her old age.
Third, she is a good cadre who works carefully.
In 20 13, she was fortunate to be elected as the deputy director of the village Committee, which was a challenging job for her who just entered the society. In the face of all kinds of villagers who come to work, she has to learn and ask her elders from time to time how to handle things to the satisfaction of the villagers and follow the principles. As soon as she has time, she looks for information, reads relevant books and constantly updates herself to meet the needs of more people.
Yapulong village committee is under the jurisdiction of 12 group, and several villages have high mountains and long roads, with extremely inconvenient transportation and harsh natural conditions. In order to do a good job, she is not afraid of the long journey. As soon as she has time, she goes to the village, visits the villagers, understands the actual situation of the villagers, and immediately reports to her superiors when she encounters practical difficulties to help the villagers seek more and better help. At the same time, the information and policies about farmers' livelihood and helping farmers to become rich will be distributed to farmers one by one, which will drive villagers to be down-to-earth and help them get rich.
Due to the large number of migrant workers, wide floating area, long time out and frequent information changes in this village, it has brought many difficulties and inconveniences to the work. Comrade Peng always tries his best to understand the situation of people who go out and keeps in touch with each other. In order to pay attention to more left-behind children and the elderly, Comrade Peng not only completes the tasks and work assigned by his superiors, but also sends his warmth and care as a grassroots village cadre to the needy people, doing practical things for the people and being a caring person of the people. She often visits those low-income households and five-income households, giving them money and things, and sending medicines to doctors has become a common practice. Chen Yongyun and Miao Guo Liang, low-income households, are the objects she helped the most. Miao old people are inconvenient to move. Out of trust, they often take care of things such as cutting meat and shopping for free and send them home.
Filial piety to the elderly is the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation and the cornerstone of China's ethics. China has a very long tradition of filial piety. In the profound traditional culture of China, filial piety culture is a core concept and spirit, and an important part. "Filial piety is the first of all virtues" and "I am old, I am young and I am young" are the essence. Comrade Peng grew up under the influence of filial piety culture in China, and is a typical representative of filial piety. Comrade Peng respects the old and is filial, and can achieve "the old are provided for, the young are provided for, and the young are provided for". She treats the villagers with a smile, is charitable, gets along well with her family, cares about people around her with sincerity and helps people around her with enthusiasm. She touched many people with practical actions, and also infected and educated many people. She has become a model of respecting the elderly and filial piety in ten miles and eight townships, which has inspired one party to respect the elderly and filial piety.
My mother, Zhao Qiongzhi, female, was born in 1947. She is 64 years old and a villager in Lu Biao Village, Lu Biao Town, Anning City, Kunming City, Yunnan Province.
She came from a poor family. Her father died in her early years, her husband was absent and she had six children. Her mother was old when the child was very young. Since the rural household contract, the farm work has been heavy, but she gets up early every day and is greedy for the black, pulling the children and raising the elderly. After her hard work, her life is getting better every day. But 1990, grandma was unfortunately ill. Although he received treatment, his legs were paralyzed and he has been in bed ever since. She is 99 years old now. Day after day, for 20 years, my mother has been guarding my grandmother with filial piety and facing life calmly with tenacious perseverance. In the past 20 years, I have been carrying her to bask in the sun in winter, serving food and water every day, pouring excrement and urine, wiping her body with a towel regularly, staying by her side wholeheartedly, taking care of her carefully, taking care of her diet and daily life, and doing heavy work to maintain her family. But no matter how hard and tired she is, taking care of the elderly is the housework she must do every day.
When grandma can't take care of herself, my mother feeds her every meal like a child, and feeds her with water bit by bit. With the careful care of my mother, grandma is getting better and can eat with a spoon by herself. Later, grandma was encouraged to try to walk and help her walk step by step. Grandma can't walk with crutches because she is too old. She tries to walk with a light four-legged stool. In order to prevent the stool from slipping, she wrapped her four feet in old cloth. Grandma can finally walk gently by herself, but she has a little silver hair on her head, severe back deformation, lumbar protrusion and hyperosteogeny.
Nothing annoys my mother more than the busy farming season and the dead of night. Perhaps it is because grandma is old and has insufficient control over the nervous system. She talks to herself in the middle of the night for no reason, and sometimes she moans. My mother thinks my grandmother is ill and can't take care of her fatigue. She quickly got up to say hello and was relieved to see that it was nothing.
As the saying goes, "There is no dutiful son before the bed", and my mother did it. In recent years, with grandma getting older, her ears are not good, her eyes are not good, and she occasionally has a little problem. But under her careful care, she is in good spirits. The neighbor said, "Without her sincere filial piety and love, how can the old man live this happy old age?" Mother used her virtue of filial piety to the elderly to make people talk, and also cast a life style for herself.
As the saying goes, "filial piety is filial piety", and it is common for old people to talk a lot when they are old. At this time, my mother always advises my family not to argue with the elderly. Respecting the elderly is our traditional virtue. Although some words make people feel uncomfortable, they are not malicious. We should listen patiently and explain after listening, which will resolve some misunderstandings. Under the careful management of the mother, the family has been getting along very well. Now the children are all adults. Although the six brothers and sisters are not separated, they all have their own families. They hold a family reunion once a month, which is presided over by their mother. Whenever there are things or difficulties at home, we will discuss them together. Over the years, the relationship between brother and sister can be handled well. It is my mother's upright and upright style that makes this big family harmonious and happy, envied by the villagers and praised by everyone. Mothers often tell their children: "Filial piety is not only the responsibility of children, but also an important way to educate future generations. Only by doing it yourself can we truly achieve the goal of educating children and set a good example for them.
Supporting the elderly is the traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. "Under her long-term example, the children also understand the truth of filial piety to the elderly. Let grandma enjoy the delicious food first. In the eyes of her mother, she is a filial daughter; In the eyes of her husband, she is a virtuous wife; In the eyes of children, she is a kind and wise mother.
In daily life, while taking good care of the elderly, mothers also give enthusiastic help to neighbors in trouble. No matter who needs help in the village, my mother will lend a helping hand without stint. Over the years, everyone has adhered to the principle of peace and mutual respect, and with the support of more than one needy family, neighborhood relations have been handled well. Once, at home, I vaguely heard a groan of pain from the neighbor's house next door. She pushed the door and went in. I saw Aunt Yang lying on the sofa. It turned out that her old habits were repeated, and then she quickly dressed her and took her to the hospital. The next day, she brought water and rice for her. If there are any small contradictions between neighbors, they also take the initiative to mediate and clear them. Mother is such a warm-hearted, helpful, filial and respectful old man who lives in harmony with the villagers.
A harmonious society is inseparable from the word "filial piety". As social citizens, in the process of building a harmonious socialist society, harmony between people is the most important feature of a harmonious society. If everyone in today's society puts filial piety first, society will become more harmonious.
There is an old saying that "filial piety is the first of all virtues", which means that filial piety plays an important role in virtue, even occupies the first place. If a person doesn't even respect his parents, how can we believe that he will love the people and the motherland? How can anyone really make friends with them? The "first filial piety" in Disciples Rules requires us to be filial to our parents. Parents call it, emergency response; If you have something to explain, you should leave immediately, listen respectfully to your parents' instructions and so on.
Some people can't help wondering: What is filial piety? Isn't it just a sentence? What else can it mean? Don't! Filial piety is the combination of "old" and "son", with "old" above and "son" below. The good intentions of this word have told us that filial piety should be the first thing to do. There are many touching stories about filial piety in history, among which "Wendi personally tasted soup and medicine" was so touching that I don't know how many people were touched. In 202 BC, Liu Bang established the Western Han regime. Liu Heng, the fourth son of Chinese Emperor Liu Bang, is a famous dutiful son. Liu Heng is filial to his mother and never neglects her. Once, his mother was seriously ill, which kept Liu Heng awake all night. His mother was ill for three years and was bedridden. Liu Heng left the complicated government affairs and personally cooked the pharmaceutical soup for his mother. When I give medicine to my mother, I always taste it first to see if the soup is bitter and spicy. I thought it was almost enough, so I gave it to my mother carefully. For his mother's early recovery, he guarded her bedside day and night. Every time I see my mother asleep, I just lie on my mother's bed and sleep quietly for a little while.
"It's warm in winter and clear in summer, and it's sleepy in the morning." His filial piety, which we all see in our eyes, has become an eternal story. The sky is big, filial piety comes first, and filial piety is a long-standing cultural and traditional virtue of our Chinese nation. Parents gave us life and gave us complete skin. Give us eyes and let us discover beauty; Give us feet and let us travel all over the motherland; Give us thoughts and let us learn "filial piety". Shouldn't we imitate the "filial piety" of our ancestors to repay our parents?
However, now we see scenes that make us feel chilling from time to time. The precious wealth of history has not been recognized by modern people. Some people even want their parents to "honor" them. In their hearts, only their parents naturally raised them, and even let them be cattle and horses. They didn't return their parents' thoughts. As long as they are happy and carefree, they always ignore their parents' sufferings, but never think about their mother's October. Especially those children from single-parent families, have you ever thought about the pain of being both a father and a mother? Parents won't tell us this, because parents never don't think of you! But what about you? Not only are you inconsiderate, but you also argue with them. You "won", and your parents' hearts are as painful as being burned!
Confucius said, "The filial piety of a husband, the classics of heaven, the meaning of the earth, and the trip of a person are also." Filial piety is a simple word, but it represents too many things. It is fleeting attachment and happiness that cannot be copied. It's the past that a slip of the foot makes a lasting regret, and it's the chain at the crossroads of life. Once it's disconnected, it can't be connected again. The world is vicissitudes, and the years are ruthless. Don't wait until you lose it to understand what filial piety is and what your parents have done for you. Remember, caring for children will smooth the wrinkles on parents' foreheads. The most beautiful thing is sunset red. Care for this beauty, collide with beautiful notes with your heart, play the warmest and most beautiful March, and pay tribute to the elderly in the world! Let the song resound in the vast world forever!
Material 4: Wang Limei, a native of Dudu Village, is an ordinary rural woman and an ordinary peasant daughter-in-law. For seven years, I served my father-in-law with heart disease and my mother-in-law who was still alive. Meticulous and unrepentant, her filial piety infected people around her, and her deeds spread all over Liudian Street. Since she married her husband, she and her in-laws have lived in harmony like biological parents. My in-laws have always regarded her as one of their own and never regarded her as their daughter-in-law. Compared with her daughters, she is more willing to tell her something, and Li Mei has become a caring person in their lives.
In 2005, my father-in-law with heart disease had a heart bypass operation in Nanjing Gulou Hospital. Among many children, Wang Limei, the third daughter-in-law who has the most harmonious relationship with the elderly, took the initiative to go to the hospital to take care of her father-in-law. She didn't say a word of complaint in front of her husband's three sisters and two sisters-in-law. For many years, my sick father-in-law and my weak mother-in-law have lived in Li Mei's house. Since the operation, my father-in-law has been unable to get up and move normally because of senile diseases, and even has to feed. In recent years, my wife Li Mei has been taking care of eating, drinking and sleeping. Li Mei really cares about a pair of in-laws and takes care of them in many ways. She buys summer clothes in summer and sweaters and down jackets in winter. Mother-in-law often has low back and leg pain. Li Mei will seek medical advice for her mother-in-law, wipe her waist and wash her feet or accompany her mother-in-law to the hospital for treatment, just like a daughter takes care of her mother.
Husband Xu Lusheng is often away from home because of work needs. Li Mei not only takes good care of her in-laws, but also pays special attention to the study of a pair of children. She makes this family happy and warm, and never worries her husband too much. She is not only a filial daughter-in-law, but also a virtuous wife and kind mother.
Neighbors all envy Xu Jia for having a daughter-in-law as good as a daughter. Wang Limei's deeds are not only celebrated in Liudian Street, but also widely known in the surrounding villages. There is no one but praise her. They all said, "It is better to have a good son than a good daughter-in-law!"
Disciples Rules, a classic of Chinese studies, said: "If you are sick, try medicine first, wait around the clock and stay in bed. "Filial piety and loving relatives are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. Wang Limei explained the true meaning of "filial piety" with practical actions. In today's economic and social development, in the increasingly civilized new countryside, such a good daughter-in-law is an outstanding representative of our national traditional virtues!
5 xxx is the employee in charge of the aging work association and complaint reception in xxx community of Fengtai Street. In recent years, under the correct leadership of Fengtai Street, with the guidance and help of Fengtai District Shuangyong Office, we have actively carried out the "Starlight Plan for Community Welfare Services for the Elderly" with the implementation of the "Starlight Plan", paid close attention to publicity and education on respecting the elderly, improved the facilities for the elderly and improved the service quality for the elderly, and achieved good results. The residential area has been successively rated as "civilized residential area in the capital" and "civilized residential area in the capital * * *" by Beijing.
(a) to form a team, clear responsibilities, establish a positive supporting service system.
The community directly under the branch is a military camp with dense population, relatively concentrated residence and large personnel flow. 1309 households with 3,473 people, including elderly people over 60 years old 146 people and 9 survivors. Under the leadership of Qu Yanqing, director of the neighborhood committee, Xxx is specifically responsible for the aging work association and the complaint reception group. In order to carry out the work of respecting and helping the elderly, xxx assisted and guided its five regimental units to set up support groups such as dispute mediation group, home appliance maintenance group, medical care group, plumbing maintenance group and life service group to serve the elderly on a regular basis. Establish a reception system for the elderly and a system of registration, mediation, handling and registration of disputes involving the elderly. Insist on analyzing the situation of aging work every quarter and hold a meeting of representatives of the elderly every six months. Solicit your suggestions extensively, and the reception team will go to various units from time to time to learn about the situation of the elderly and answer their various questions. The mediation team should always have a job to solve the problems found.
(two) in-depth publicity, regular education, and create a good environment for respecting and caring for the elderly.
Often go deep into all units and households to publicize the Law on the Elderly and the Regulations on the Protection of Rights, and distribute two "legal" pamphlets to each elderly person, one for each elderly person, to accompany the elderly to tell family life, tell stories, discuss legal knowledge and exchange experiences in nutrition and health care, so that the concepts of "an old family is a treasure" and "every family has an old man, and everyone will be old" are deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. In the past three years, we have carried out intensive publicity and education 10 times, held lectures and consultations on the legal system on a regular basis, publicized relevant contents 10 times by using blackboard newspapers and window displays, set up special publicity columns, and posted publicity slogans for respecting the elderly on a regular basis. Xxx also pays attention to the use of advanced models that advocate respect for the elderly and create an atmosphere of loving and respecting the elderly in the whole community. Organize the selection of "Five Good Civilized Families" every year, and vigorously publicize the typical example of honoring parents-in-law and daughter-in-law, and respecting parents and children. Through education, the majority of the elderly have mastered legal weapons and raised their awareness of upholding the law. Through education, many children can always care about the warmth and coldness of the elderly and promote the harmony and warmth of the family. Through activities, most people in the community can care for and honor the elderly, and the community has gradually formed a good atmosphere of respecting the elderly, loving the young and living in harmony.
(three) enthusiasm, initiative, meticulous and thoughtful, to solve problems.
The focus of aging work is to serve the elderly and the goal is to satisfy them. Around this center, xxx takes enthusiasm as the first requirement and active service as the first standard, and has carried out the "four services" activity to actively and comprehensively solve problems for the elderly in the community.
The first is medical services. The outpatient department has specially set up a health care room, equipped with X-ray, B-ultrasound, electrocardiogram and other equipment, and established a health file for each elderly person to facilitate the elderly to see a doctor. Medical staff insist on being on duty 24 hours a day, so that they can be on call and receive timely and correct treatment. They insist on regular rounds and send doctors and medicines home. Set up "medical care garden" and health care common sense column; Regular teaching of health care knowledge through closed-circuit television.
The second is life service. With the assistance of the management section, a life service center has been opened, and more services have been added, providing staple food and non-staple food 10 varieties every day. The life service team insisted on repairing household appliances, plumbing, doors and windows for the elderly, and also handled the bicycle tax payment certificate for the elderly in time, replaced the gas certificate, household registration book, newspapers and periodicals, and handled the third generation of children's enrollment, epidemic prevention and other matters. The vehicle service team provides warm service, calls at any time, rain or shine, ensures the use of cars for the elderly, and insists on sending special cars to the hospital every week.
The third is special service. Provide special services to the elderly who are very old, severely disabled, widowed, childless or not at home, and implement the family responsibility system. In the summer of XX, retired workers in our hospital needed hospitalization for cerebral infarction. As they were not accompanied by their children, they and other comrades in the neighborhood Committee found a car in time to take the old man to the hospital, and contacted the civil affairs department to be hospitalized first and then pay the fee. I went through the hospitalization formalities in time, which bought me time for treatment. After that, I contacted my family and went to the hospital to visit and nurse until XX died. Recite by residents of the jurisdiction. For the elderly who are ill in hospital, she tries to take time out to visit the hospital. Leading the service staff to wipe the body, dress, send the dead old man to the funeral home and organize the body to say goodbye, which made many family members feel grateful.
The fourth is condolence service. Visit individual elderly and infirm people regularly and irregularly to ask about cold and warmth; Every Spring Festival, go door-to-door to pay New Year greetings to the elderly; On holidays, bring condolences to the door; At the same time, I also express my condolences to the families of martyrs, disabled soldiers, disabled people and other difficult families. In recent years, every year, the Double Ninth Festival organizes the elderly to collectively visit Xiangshan, Summer Palace, World Park, Military Museum, Tiananmen Square and other tourist attractions, which are well received by the elderly.
(four) activities, fitness, and actively participate in the volunteer team.
The community has established a university for the elderly, and started calligraphy classes and painting classes, so that the elderly can learn something and enjoy it. A calligraphy and painting club, a literary and art team, a fitness team and a martial arts team were established. Xxx has also become a volunteer to serve old comrades. She takes her old comrades to do morning exercises every day, or dance swords or play Tai Chi, and always takes pains to give careful guidance and training. This year, the Tai Ji Chuan Performance Team also teamed up to participate in the national fitness activities and sports activities for middle-aged and elderly people organized by the General Logistics Department. The performances of "Twenty-four Style Tai Ji Chuan" and "Thirty-two Style Taiji Sword" won the second and third prizes respectively. The fun sports meeting for the elderly has been held for five consecutive years, with more than 200 participants, enriching the amateur cultural life of the elderly and improving their quality of life.
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