I don't know if parents who have children going to college at home have this feeling: it seems that after their children go to college, they are not as close to themselves as before, and there are few telephones, and they hardly take the initiative to call themselves. Many parents think that their children are too old to control themselves. Then why on earth do children seldom contact their parents once they go to college?

First of all, when I first left home, I was definitely not used to anything. At that time, our parents were our best objects of complaint, so we had frequent contact. But after getting familiar with the environment, this kind of contact is decreasing. I have a circle of friends and people to complain about, so the phone calls to my parents are gradually decreasing.

Secondly, after going to college, I made new friends and my life became very rich. Some children will choose a school far from home when they enter the university. Their idea may be that the farther away from home, the better. After all, in our mind? Good people get what they deserve? And when I was a child, I stayed in one place for more than ten years, which may be a bit boring. They are eager to go to a distant city and see how life there is different. After going to college, they will meet new friends. They may come from different places and have different habits, but when these friends get together, they will have many of the same topics. You may feel homesick at first, but after staying in college for a while, you are completely integrated into that life. When children are happy at school, they may not remember to call their parents every day. If this happens, parents should actually be happier. After all, children do well in school, which is what parents want.

Finally, there are many courses in the university. If you want to get more opportunities than others, then you have to enrich yourself infinitely. Only in this way can we be better than others, and it will not be so difficult to find a job in the future. Behind this Excellence, of course, I accumulated it with my own time. Learn bit by bit, accumulate bit by bit, and slowly create a successful self. Time is fully utilized, so there is less communication with parents.

In fact, when children step into the university campus, it already means that half a foot begins to step into the society. Many times they have more things to consider or more things to be busy, and many times they neglect to contact their parents. So it is not because children are no longer close to their parents, but because there are too many things around them.