Make friends theme class meeting

Opening remarks of the class teacher: (Talk? Be careful when making friends, and make good friends? The importance of. )

Because of the characteristics of junior high school students' physical and mental development, peer communication is very important to them. Peer communication is more likely to produce * * * and more equality. Peer interaction can exercise children's independent ability, and peers can learn from each other and learn from each other, which parents can't replace. Children who lack experience in peer communication may have interpersonal maladjustment in adulthood. Without normal peer interaction and friendship with others, children will feel lonely and form a withdrawn character, which is not good for their physical and mental health. Especially for middle school students who are gradually away from their parents, teachers and other adults psychologically, it is more important to establish good peer friendship. Now most junior high school students are only children, and there are not many opportunities to communicate with their peers. Therefore, they lack the experience of communicating with others and often encounter various puzzles and problems. For example, you can't tell friendship from true friendship, and you can't resolve conflicts in time, and so on. These are the problems that we should focus on in teaching.

Activity 2: Please look at the sketch.

Characters: Xiao Ming, a young man, two bad students and two policemen.

Plot: After school, Xiaoming was stopped by two bad students to rob money, and the tall guy saved the day. Xiao Ming was so grateful that he made friends with him as a benefactor. I usually eat, drink and be merry with young men, and I also learned to smoke and drink. Xiao Ming was bullied and asked young people to help him. One day, the young man stole some cameras and asked Xiao Ming to help him hide them. Xiaoming helped hide it. After the incident, both were taken away by the police.

Activity 3: Please analyze it. What should I pay attention to in the process of making friends?

Activity 4: The class teacher explains? What kind of friends are good friends? .

Make friends, build friendships, make your own choices and think carefully. When making friends, make friends that are helpful to you. Help can be in many ways: it can be moral, academic and technical. In a word, it can make you progress. We should make more friends like this. We call friends who can help us make progress like this as beneficial friends. )

Activity 5: Who can be called good friends? What should a good friend look like in your mind? Please talk about it.

Activity 6: What did the class teacher sum up in the words of the ancients? Good friends hurt friends?

In ancient China, educators thought that good friends could be divided into three categories:

The influence of beneficiaries and three friends.

A man with upright friends is morally upright.

Friends trust the sense of responsibility of honest and trustworthy people.

Friends learn more from learned people.

This standard was summed up by the ancients, so has it changed in modern times?

There are changes, just as the students said, but the essence is the same. That's it? Can help you make progress? . Each of us should choose good friends and make good friends.

We call such friends who have a bad influence on our moral conduct bad friends.

Confucius also expressed his views on hurting friends.

Three lost friends.

Yubi: A man with ulterior motives.

Yourou: A flashy person.

Friend: flatterer, flatterer, flatterer.

Our life needs high-quality life, and our friendship also needs high-quality friendship. It is high quality to associate with good friends, but low quality to associate with bad friends. So, make good friends, not bad friends.

Activity 7: The class teacher encourages everyone to make friends happily.

Question: In the process of communication, some friends like to point out your mistakes and criticize you bluntly. Do you like such friends?

This kind of friends, we call them friends. It is very rare for him to point out his friends' problems and criticisms frankly. Marshal Chen Yi once said? It's rare to be friends, dare to criticize in person? . We should be happy to associate with such friends in our contacts.

Third, make friends. (blackboard writing)

This kind of frank criticism can make your mind clearer and make you progress faster. Friends can't all be friends? Good people? ,? Hello, I'm fine. How are you? This is untrue and insincere. Friendship without inner communication will naturally not be strong.

Activity 8: Let students remember the idea of making friends? Three can't? And then what? Three principles? .

Make friends? Three principles? ：

First, make good friends.

Second, don't make bad friends.

Third, make friends.

Make friends? Three can't? ：

You can't be self-centered for long.

Can't socialize The circle is too small and not wide enough.

Can't? Dude, loyalty? Easy to go astray

Activity 9: How to make real friends and develop sincere friendship.

1, exchange sincerity for friendship

Step 2 cultivate friendship with enthusiasm