Investigation report on college students' love: it is a common phenomenon for college students to fall in love. The average age of college students is about 20 years old, and they are already legal citizens and adults. Protected and bound by law. Sexual psychological and physical maturity. They are eager for love, yearning for love. Moreover, they already have the ability to fall in love. Therefore, there is no doubt that college students fall in love. However, after falling in love, it is followed by ideological rejection and fluctuation, which makes lovers quarrel endlessly, be trapped by love, give up their studies and regret for life; Fighting for love, wyndell dichinson incident on campus. There was a rift in their relationship, and the vulnerable teenagers chose to commit suicide to escape the relationship that was about to break down. All these have stained the pure and loyal love of college students with a gray stroke, which makes us think deeply: should college students fall in love during their study? Which is more important in the choice between love and study? The issue of college students' love is actually very sensitive. Obviously, love is a very common thing in college, but if we really want to deal with study and love, I'm afraid it's difficult to keep a balance. But it's not without laws. It is difficult for a college student without rational control to master the ship of love, and the love of a person without rational control is definitely a failure. Such college students had better not fall in love in a hurry. So, what are the aspects of rationality? As a college student, I should be able to bear the pressure of love. When two people are in love, they must have the right attitude. Even if you have a correct attitude, your other half will be infected by you, so don't worry that falling in love will delay your study. The key is that you should take the lead and lead your other half to learn. You can't be blinded by love. After all, it's only in college. It is hard to say whether it will succeed in the future. Don't delay yourself or others. This survey adopts the form of questionnaire, and the scope of the survey involves the students of the whole college. It can be said that the authenticity is relatively strong. In the survey, students expressed their views on college love: 60% said they had been in love or were in love, and 30% had not been in love at present, so they would fall into it when they met the right person. Only 10% clearly indicates that it has not been discussed so far, and it is not planned to be discussed during the university. Most interviewees believe that various contradictions in love will have a great influence on feelings. The problems summarized can be roughly divided into the following aspects: First, the cost of college students' love. It is normal for college students to part ways because of emotional disagreement, but college students without any financial resources are not happy with the distribution of "the same assets" after breaking up. Who should pay for college students' love consumption? Through many students' answers, 60% agreed that boys should take the initiative to pay for girls, and 30% agreed that boys should pay for them. 10% is other. If you often go out for dating, shopping and eating, how should these expenses be calculated? This is just a relatively common consumption, and those with relatively large amounts of high consumption. For example, college students who communicate in different places often need telephone contact, and the contact fee also accounts for a large part of their monthly living expenses. Some students talk on the phone for an hour or two, and the transportation expenses for visiting each other in other places will also cost a lot. During the short holidays, some students will also fly to different places to visit their lovers. And how are these costs calculated? In fact, love is a matter for two people, and the expenses in this process should be the responsibility of both parties. Doesn't mean that boys are born to "raise" you. Everyone's economy is basically not independent, and there is no reason for anyone to pay the bill. The wisest thing to do is to reduce your own expenses as much as possible, resist "extravagant love", consider your own and each other's conditions, and don't make unnecessary "sacrifices." Talking about an economic love is our ultimate goal. Question 2: Regarding the conflict between college students' love and study, many people think that this is the best time to fall in love. At this time, their minds are more mature and they are more or less sure about the future. In college, love and study are one of the most critical issues. Is 1 plus 1 greater than 2 or 1 less than 2? It depends on how you grasp it. Through the investigation, students think that the beneficial influence is mutual management, that is, mutual encouragement and supervision between lovers can promote learning and promote the progress of * * * *; It is an adjustment to the relatively boring professional knowledge learning, which is helpful to both body and mind; Learning to adjust love is learning, and learning is the support of love. The negative influence is a sign that it can't be handled correctly, that is, it can't allocate time reasonably, and many people may regard love as more important than study; Falling in love under the condition that the learning foundation is not solid enough will have a negative impact on learning, and in serious cases, it will also cause great emotional fluctuations, thus causing serious consequences and undesirable phenomena such as being tired of learning and dropping out of school. Some people think: How can love not affect learning? Of course, if you don't study at all, that's another matter. You should spend most of your time with your lover in the normal time before falling in love. Where does time come from? I have to spare a lot of energy to think about you dear, where does this energy come from? People in love don't quarrel, so your mood will be like this? Can you study in that mood? Obviously, for those children who have no goal in life and muddle along day by day, love may be a disaster, which will make them neglect their studies, go astray and waste the best time. But for students with strong self-control and life ability, love may become a booster for their progress, which will not only affect their studies, but also promote them to climb to higher goals. Love should be a positive motivation, a sharing, a giving, a responsibility and a mutual appreciation. Therefore, for us, the best love is based on mutual help. Question 3: On the issue of college students' long-distance love, there is also a special group in college love: lovers who fall in love in different places. Generally speaking, there are two kinds of long-distance love: one is lovers who were originally together, and one party left the other for school, family and other reasons, but the love relationship continued to be maintained. The second kind is that two people from different places, because of school and other reasons, go from acquaintance to acquaintance until they establish a relatively stable love relationship. Nowadays, with the development of science and technology, mobile phones and the Internet have gradually become popular, and long-distance love has gradually warmed up and even become a fashion. So what kind of attitude do students have towards long-distance love? What influenced their attitude? What factors affect the stability of long-distance love? According to the survey, compared with the other three grades, senior students account for the most, and freshmen account for the least! And the difference is significant. But I have to admit, I experienced love in my freshman year. In other words, the results show that senior students are not more inclined to deny long-distance relationships than junior students. Secondly, among the factors affecting long-distance love, trust, a third party, long absence, the stability of two people's feelings and the personality of lovers have all been recognized by everyone. It can be seen that long-distance lovers face more challenges than ordinary lovers. True love should have no geographical restrictions, but in today's rapid economic development, more and more factors have become obstacles. I have to say, for the average person, long-distance love needs a lot of courage and determination. If you can persist, you will certainly get a happiness that everyone envies. But the people who started paid a heavy price in this process, too much money, time, energy,, and. The result is physical and mental exhaustion. Therefore, long-distance love is only suitable for a small number of people with real emotional foundation. Question 4: On the issue of college students' online love, the so-called online love is to meet friends of the opposite sex through online chat and have feelings in further communication. A remarkable feature of contemporary college students is their strong ability to accept new things, so the popularity of online dating has become an inevitable trend. After a series of surveys, it shows that 20% people agree with online dating, and these two people are consistent in personality and preferences. Although two people can't be together for the time being, they can inspire their confidence and try to turn unrealistic into reality. What they want to prove is that online dating can also be realized. Some people hold a negative attitude, 70%-80% people think that online dating is purely a kind of weak love, some people turn pale when they talk about online dating and think it is not true, and those who are online dating are too unrealistic. These people have formed a bad impression in their hearts and will discourage or forcibly interfere. Of course, online dating should also be understood as a kind of love. As others say, distance produces beauty, and there is a good feeling pinned on the person you like. Just like lovers in reality, there will be no deep feelings when they are bored together every day. In fact, as long as you have faith in this relationship, no matter how far it is, you will work hard for it, just to show those who disagree that online dating is not all true. Therefore, we can't exclude this way of love ... After the two sides have a certain understanding, they can also harvest a beautiful love. Summary: The above four questions basically represent the problems involved in college love, which is more representative. We study the love view of contemporary college students, aiming at understanding their understanding and attitude towards love view from the physiological and psychological aspects, analyzing many problems caused by incorrect love view with examples, and the influence of western thought and society on college students' love view, so as to make college students understand love view from theory to practice and guide them to establish a correct love view. Through the investigation of college students' love view, we realize that college students' love has become a common imagination, and it is becoming more and more complicated with the development of society. No matter schools, families or students themselves, they should think deeply about how to treat their love and how to finish their college studies. We believe that proper love can promote mutual learning. But what we want to say is, don't be too addicted to the river of love, and don't get lost in love. After all, college life is a golden period for us to learn professional skills and a key stage for us to decide our future direction. We can't abandon all happiness for a moment's happiness. For love, we should always maintain a stable state of mind, and we should not make ourselves, the other party, the family and society sad for the sake of temporary unhappiness. As for schools, we should also take some measures to guide college students to fall in love, so that the whole university campus will not be dead, and it will not be filled with smoke because of love. I believe that college students in the new era will also be able to grasp their love! ! !