1. academic priority: although falling in love is sweet, the main goal during college is to learn and grow. We must put our studies first and try not to let falling in love affect our studies. Reasonable allocation of time, to ensure that both school and love can be taken into account.
2. Respect each other: Building a healthy relationship requires both sides to respect each other's thoughts, feelings and boundaries. Respect each other's personal space, privacy and independence and don't try to control or manipulate each other. Establish open and honest communication to establish good mutual understanding.
3. Honest communication: In love, honesty and communication are very important. Keep good communication with your partner, including sharing your feelings, needs and expectations, and listening to each other's opinions and ideas. When solving problems and contradictions, try to communicate in a rational and mature way and avoid emotional or offensive words.
4. Self-growth: Falling in love is not only for each other, but also for your own growth. University is a critical period of self-development. Don't completely define your life and identity as each other.