Confucianism has its own "universities" and "primary schools".

What are "universities" and "primary schools"?

Not the study of villains and adults; Nor does it mean that the seal is a primary school and the world is a university;

In short, primary school students teach themselves; A great scholar is also a man of learning.

Primary school, loyalty; University, forgive me. In short, loyalty and forgiveness have always been, not two.

What is "with people"?

For the way of learning, one is yourself and the other is others. Know yourself, know how to be with people, that's all.

Confucian practice, the word is: benevolence. Two words: benevolence and righteousness. Three words: Ren Zhiyong. The four words are: benevolence, righteousness, courtesy and wisdom.

How should a person become himself and how to get along with others after becoming himself? The other includes others, other things, nature, heaven and earth.

Being with people is inevitable, because life does not exist independently between heaven and earth, among all things, body and destiny, only the self that can be independent. However, the body and destiny are bound to be connected with everything. If you can't achieve destiny, you can't achieve self-improvement. Confucianism says that you can't be a gentleman if you don't know your own life.

Being with others is also a test. When a person has achieved self, knowing the true self must include the relationship with others. No one else's self is heartless, and it is not me who is heartless; Others change themselves for lack of courage. Without courage, it is not me. Those who have a strong sense of self and don't know others do it for the sake of knowing less, not me.

The most important thing is that universities are learning from others, so there is a saying in "University" that being virtuous in the world means being yourself in front of the world. And to be yourself and be seen by the world, you must be wise and visible, otherwise it will be difficult to be seen by the world!

So what is "the way of university", "the way of getting along with others" or "the way of being an adult"!