The motivation for restraint is also simple. I will strive to be better, to live better in the future, and to live better for future generations.
Take myself for example, my specific motives for not being lazy are: First, my family is poor; Second, not to be ordinary. To put it bluntly, I also want to live as an adult.
It's lazy to have a mine at home, and I don't think it's anything. This is the advantage created by the previous generation to the next generation. But then again, there is such a good foundation. If you can work harder, a high probability means that you can live a better life. After all, it is endless.
However, I really despise those students whose family conditions are average or even poor, but they are still lazy and sometimes I find it incomprehensible. First, you have no lazy life at all; Second, is there no pressure at all? Third, isn't there a sense of mission to change the status quo of the family? Fourth, is there no sense of responsibility?
A terrible fact is that many lazy students have poor family conditions.
Although the college admission rate is getting higher and higher now, I believe that since I can be admitted to the university, I am definitely not diligent in high school.
However, some college students work hard in high school. As soon as I went to college, I had a 180 degree flip, and the whole person became lazy and decadent, completely losing the spirit of high school.
I think there are three specific reasons:
1, he has a "gene mutation", and I don't know how to explain it. The whole person has changed anyway. If you want to change back, it is impossible to rely on others to say it. Only he can realize that it is very difficult to change back with a high probability.
He feels that he has nothing to hide. You see, one of my college students has changed his fate. This may have been the case decades ago, but now, college students are just a learning stage, nothing special, even if you study in the north.
3. It may really be that college is easier. People, in a relaxed environment, gradually become lazy, which makes sense.
Of course, the core reason is that I think this person is not motivated.
Lazy, of course, there is nothing to come after.
Lack of ability, difficulty in finding a job, poor job, low salary, old age, untenable in the city, unemployed at home, all kinds of bad things.
I absolutely believe that some lazy people may do better than diligent people after graduation, but I never believe that good luck will come to you. After all, that's a very low probability. Maybe people just look lazy, but you can't see how much effort they put behind them. Some college students may wake up in college, some college students may wake up after being beaten by society after graduation, and some college students may never wake up.
Is it necessary to have a good future after graduating from a diligent university? The answer is not necessarily, but I want to say that at least after graduation, you will have a lower limit and get better and better.
For example, if you don't work hard in high school, you won't be admitted to a good university. If you work hard, you may not be able to get into a good university, but at least you can get into two books, which is already ahead of many people.
Diligence makes up for it, and the early bird catches the worm. Truth and experience have proved that as long as you work hard, you will have your own world, which is actually between your thoughts.
What about the university environment? There are many advantages and disadvantages, depending on how you use it.
A few days ago, a hot search found that Chongqing is a "big", relying on people to move goods, pure manual labor, and insisting on buying a house in a good location in Chongqing after many years. This is the power of diligence.
The harder you work, the luckier you are, because opportunities belong to those who are prepared.