How should two people get along when they first met? Its purpose is to get to know each other. Boys should remember this standard and don't think too much. Do it. Generally speaking, from the stage of just knowing, talking for two or three times, you will enter the stage of friends. Then what boys need to do is to understand the basic situation of girls, including: girls' hobbies, general personality, family members, occupation, age and so on. Of course, knowing the situation will avoid the question and answer mode.

Second, the friend stage.

When two people have some trust, they will enter the stage of friends. So what should a boy do when two people are friends?

In fact, at this stage, boys don't have to chase girls deliberately. After all, they are just friends. Just getting along with girls as friends. The main purpose of this stage is to enhance the interaction between two people, further deepen understanding and strengthen interaction. There are two specific things that boys need to do: treat girls as ordinary friends, invite girls to dinner occasionally, and chat with girls occasionally to express their affirmation. Although boys can't show their love for girls at this stage, they can show a kind of affirmation to girls. For example, a boy can say to a girl: I think you are very nice and comfortable to get along with. This expression is an affirmation of girls' character. Just mention it a little bit and let the girl know what you think of her. Only in this way can girls have the confidence and motivation to continue to get along with you.

Third, the familiar stage.

Further than ordinary friends, the interaction between ordinary friends is just a daily chat, while the interaction between familiar friends is a heart-to-heart interaction. To put it bluntly, it is to talk to girls. So how do boys communicate with girls? Talking to each other is a kind of spiritual sustenance and heart-to-heart behavior. For example, share your secrets, stories, love views, etc. Mainly to let girls know you emotionally and let girls' emotions move for you. When you can have a heart-to-heart relationship with girls, then you will enter a state where there are more friends than lovers.

Fourth, the stage of ambiguous relationship.

Generally, there is an ambiguous period before formal love. This stage is generally called love internship. Since it is a love internship, it also means what couples can do. At this ambiguous stage, almost everyone can practice in advance, such as holding hands and hugging relatives.

Five, intimate relationship stage

After going through the stage of ambiguous relationship, that is, after the internship, you can become a boyfriend and girlfriend smoothly. The relationship between two people has been put in place. The boy only needs to find a suitable opportunity, give the girl a promise or directly upgrade the relationship to a close kiss, and break the relationship between two people, and then he can successfully determine the relationship between two people. In fact, chasing girls is not as difficult as everyone thinks. Just figure out what to do at every stage of chasing girls, and then one by one, step by step.