In fact, this year is the animal year, and I will be 24 after my birthday. I've never been in love. I haven't thought about this question before, but now I'm a little confused by my parents' worries and friends' kind jokes: I'm not the kind of girl with a very introverted personality, and I have many male friends, but I really haven't seen any boy feel differently; Look, I'm not sorry for the people and the party. This is very interesting. I once doubted my sexual orientation (because I have gay friends around me), but I have no special feelings for girls. Many elders have warned me to take the time to talk about friends, because "the higher a girl's education, the harder it is to find a partner"-and I am currently studying for a master's degree, and I don't know if I will continue to study for a doctorate. I wanted to change myself this year and attended several parties, but it really didn't mean anything to me who didn't drink. Many female friends told me that "you can find a boyfriend whenever you want", and I really only admire it ... so I thought, are some people just unable to fall in love? Maybe I happen to be such a person? It is good to have physical or psychological problems. I just want to find out why. It is really bad to be dissatisfied with yourself. I didn't expect so many people to help me in just one day. Thank you for your comfort and guidance, but if I have no problem, does it mean letting nature take its course? Actually, I don't want to fall in love at first sight I just heard from a friend who has a boyfriend/husband that having a special feeling for a boy is the beginning of love, but I have never felt it myself, so I don't know how to "act". It's not that I seldom meet boys. On the contrary, I can talk to my male friend Kan Kan, even if it's my first meeting. As for lofty and picky things ... in fact, I really haven't thought about any conditions. If I insist, it's probably the kind of boy who wants the other person to take care of people ... Because I have always solved all the problems by myself, I think it might be good if someone can rely on me?

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Don't worry. It's normal not to fall in love at the age of 23.

You haven't been in love before, which only means that you have invested too much energy in other aspects, such as your studies, and you are not in the mood to fall in love.

I haven't had feelings for any boy, because with the continuous improvement of your education level and your own quality, your appreciation of the other half is definitely getting higher and higher. If a girl, or a relatively excellent girl, casually looks at a boy, then there will not be so many leftover men and women in this society.

You know, among the leftover men and women, only a small number of people with poor conditions can't find a suitable object, often because they have good conditions and are too picky to find a suitable object.

Moreover, now the real leftover men and women are single in their thirties, and you are only twenty-three. Even if you are 27 years old, it is a good time in this era. Don't rush to marry yourself, and don't bend your young mind into a leftover woman. You haven't started yet. How can you be a leftover woman? Many times it can give you "profligacy", and many times it can make you fall in love, as long as you meet a lovely-really cute, not just falling in love. ...

Don't be afraid, I didn't get married until I was twenty-nine ... I never had any love experience before I was twenty-eight, and I am as happy as ever! Good food is not afraid of late. ...

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