Tunnel vision is like sitting in a well looking at the sky. Because of lack of information and narrow thinking, I always think that the sky above me is the whole world. After all, the biggest world you think is just the daily life of other people's families.
Therefore, in college, we must seize every opportunity to go out and see the world more. Although there are fewer opportunities in ordinary universities than in famous universities, there are still many opportunities if you want to seize them. The biggest fear is that you can't catch it.
My university is an ordinary second-rate university. At that time, in addition to learning this professional course well. I take part in the speech contest, writing contest and debate contest in our province. In these processes, I have met many awesome people and come into contact with many different thinking concepts.
When I was a sophomore, I got to know the teacher of the organizer because I actively participated in the Hope Star English Competition. The other party thinks my spoken English is good and recommends me as a foreign teacher assistant.
By being a foreign teacher assistant, I not only improved my teaching management ability, but also made many foreign friends. My oral English also gave me a lot of points when I was interviewed for the postgraduate entrance examination.
At that time, there was another student in our class who often went out to work part-time. In the process, I met many great people, and now I have started my own business.
In this process, information is very important. For example, the news that I participated in the speech contest of the Star of Hope at that time was learned from a friend. Therefore, we must never close our eyes. Make more friends with excellent people, and you will often get more than you can imagine.
Second, calmly analyze and don't be wise after the event.
In college, we are often faced with various choices, from whether to go abroad for postgraduate study, to which elective course to choose and which major to study.
Sometimes, a small choice may have a great impact on us.
When I was in graduate school, I chose an elective course by mistake because I didn't fully understand it in advance. I was going to study the comparison of Chinese and foreign literature, but I chose a cultural theory analysis by mistake.
This is not very helpful for my graduation thesis. I can totally teach myself. Because of a small mistake, nearly 50 hours were wasted.
If you decide to take the postgraduate entrance examination, it is also very important for the choice of postgraduate schools. Because of a mistake, it may mean a new year. How many years can life be wasted?
When making a choice, don't be influenced by emotions first. Many people choose to go abroad or take the postgraduate entrance examination only because they are angry with their parents and boyfriends. You are Japanese, but at the expense of youth!
The man who can control his emotions is greater than the general who won the ideal city! (Napoleon)
Secondly, calmly analyze the consequences of each choice. Swot method can help us make a choice. S (strength) is an advantage, W (weakness) is a disadvantage, O (opportunity) is an opportunity, and T (threat) is a threat.
For example, you are struggling with which university to take the postgraduate exam. Then list the strengths, weaknesses, opportunities and threats of these universities respectively, and consider their own strength. Through weighing, an objective conclusion is finally drawn.
Third, be good at offering again.
Review is a very popular word now, which is essentially summary.
Universities never lack hard-working students, but why can't everyone get the first place in the exam? There is never a shortage of desperate people in society, but why are there so few successful people?
One of the big factors is the resumption of trading. Through the resumption, we can sum up every pit and every achievement we fall into in time.
For example, there is a pit on the road. You fell in when you passed by today. Will you jump in tomorrow? Of course not, because you know where there is a hole, so you can avoid falling in.
But it is such a simple truth that we don't understand it when we live and study.
To be good at making a comeback, we should not only sum up the pits we have fallen, but also learn from the failures of others.
Before the Wright brothers invented the airplane, they summed up many previous experiences and lessons. Before the real plane appeared, people made feather planes, because they thought that birds could fly with feathers, and planes should also have feathers.
Successful people are sometimes not necessarily smarter than us. They just took fewer detours and dropped fewer pits than we did.
These, through the resumption, we can all do it.