What particularly caught the author's attention was that in the "Today's Topic" column of Kaixin.com on June 5438+09, the editor directly talked about the "Fudan University poisoning case"; A boy from Jincheng College of China Southern Airlines was stabbed to death by his roommate; A rotting male body was found in a dormitory of Nanchang Hangkong University. A murder case occurred in a campus of Jiangsu University of Science and Technology "; Use "provoke anyone, don't provoke roommates! Come on @ their kindness of not killing! "For the title," Call on "netizens to thank their roommates for their" kindness of not killing ".
It is not difficult to see that the sentence "thank my roommate for not killing anyone" is a bit exaggerated and funny, but combined with the recent murder case on the campus of colleges and universities, I feel that "it seems that I really should say' thank you' to my ex-roommate, because I met you, I was saved from death and I was lucky to survive". It's not easy to live, and it's even more difficult to watch the students who get along with each other day and night after graduation.
"Thank my roommate for not killing me" is obviously a small joke, but after laughing, I can really feel a pain in my heart. My roommate or classmate, one of the closest partners in the university campus, eats and sleeps together and studies and lives together. I really can't imagine that he (she) will become a "sharp knife" that takes your life, pushes you to ashes and turns you into a bubble.
No wind, no grass. It can be seen that the recent popular online "classmates meet and thank their roommates for not killing" more or less reveals people's fear of death and concern for human nature. (article reading network: www.sanwen.net)
What causes the frequent murders on campus, which makes our hearts fall into extreme fear and anxiety? Looking at several recent murders in colleges and universities, it is found that most of them are caused by mutual friction between classmates, and such cases are not limited to universities, but also occur in junior high schools. Just last month, a senior three student in Xining, Qinghai had a dispute with his classmates over trivial matters and stabbed them to death. In fact, the occurrence of campus cases reveals that many students lack the necessary psychological qualities, such as tolerance and generosity.
So, what makes students lack these qualities? Based on the relevant reports and my own understanding, the author summarizes the following points: First, the influence of social environment. University is a small society, and all aspects are influenced by the social environment. Many problems in universities can be traced back to society. For example, some bloody and violent TV dramas and online games have become bad examples for students to imitate and learn first; Second, there are "loopholes" in education. Our current education still focuses on how to improve students' academic performance, which often makes moral education, values education and collectivism education empty slogans. Third, there is a lack of concern for students. At present, no matter whether it is a university or a junior high school, students' dormitories are basically uniformly distributed by the school, regardless of students' living habits. Some people are afraid of noisy, while others like lively. Some minor contradictions are easy to accumulate and eventually break out. Moreover, at present, students generally face great learning pressure, especially those courses with greater intensity and difficulty. It is very likely that the teacher inadvertently said, "If you don't get good grades now, you will definitely have no future in the future" and become a "heart disease" for students. Then in the process of interpersonal communication, students become sensitive and irritable, causing bloodshed and so on.
At this point, we should see that the recent popular "classmates meet and thank their roommates for not killing" is no longer a simple expression of mutual pleasure. At a deeper level, it shows that campus killing has become a serious problem in the current society, which urgently needs people to pay attention to and solve. If we don't pay attention to it and solve it, this problem will inevitably spread with the trend of tumbling down the river. By then, more than one or two lives will be lost, maybe more; The sadness brought to the family is not once or twice, maybe more; The school lost not one or two precious students, maybe more; The loss brought to society is not a little, but may be more. ...