Solution: 1 Find a partner for your mother. Be sure to find one. In your situation, it will be difficult to find a wife, because your mother will be the terminator of your husband and wife's feelings, so before you find someone, let your mother fall in love (not marriage, but love). You need to ask your mother's friend for help in this matter, because your mother won't listen to you, and then you can persuade your mother to remarry with her friend.

2. I usually take the initiative to accompany my mother for a walk and shopping, so that she feels that you and she are one.

I often call my mother when I work in the field, so that her guard will fade.

After your mother's marriage problem is solved, you'd better work in another city, because you need to set up your own home, so you'd better stay away from your parents so as not to affect your feelings with your wife. You can choose to work in a city not too far away, or you can go home to visit your parents at any time.