Can a girl give birth to a baby when she is pregnant in college? Will you be expelled from school if you are found out?
Xiao Ai not only achieved excellent results in junior year, but also gained sweet love. In the communication, Xiao Ai heard a lot of sweet words from her boyfriend, but these were not enough to impress Xiao Ai, so in order to make her completely fall in love, her boyfriend gave Xiao Ai many promises. Under the attack of sweetness and ambiguity. Finally, Xiao Ai fell, and two people ate the forbidden fruit immediately.
Parents didn't expect Xiao Ai to steal the forbidden fruit during college, and they also believed in the child's personality, so her mother seldom told her about popular science and love. When the school called to tell Xiao Ai that she was pregnant for five months, her mother stayed on the other end of the phone for a long time.
After hearing the news, Xiao Ai's parents rushed to school overnight. After consulting the counselor, the man's parents and Xiao Ai's mother unanimously decided to let Xiao Ai have a baby and then take her to school. At present, universities generally do not expel students because their female classmates are pregnant. If a female student is pregnant, she can choose to have children.
However, Xiao Ai's life still has a long way to go. After graduation, she will meet better people. Because of a mistake, she became a mother directly. It is still a pity that Xiao Ai missed many opportunities in his life.
When this happens, it must be wrong for parents to blame their children blindly. In fact, it is not uncommon for college students to steal forbidden fruits, which is related to parents' education and school management.
So how can schools, parents and students avoid this unexpected situation?
1, children should be responsible for themselves, especially female students.
Jia Lin is a good student with excellent academic performance. After going to college, she also got the long-awaited love like Xiao Ai. In the face of her boyfriend's subtle reminder, Jia Lin was not carried away by love. She said to her boyfriend, "It is not only irresponsible for a child to do that at the wrong time, but the unexpected birth of a child is likely to bind our future." After listening to Jia Lin's advice, my boyfriend had to give up.
Girls are easy to fall into sensibility after falling in love, and their behavior is not very rational. It's rare for a girl with a strong mind like Jia Lin. Everyone is responsible for himself, especially girls.
The physical pain caused by abortion is far less than the psychological injustice, and some girls will have a certain shadow on the life of husband and wife. It is often said that the most feared thing is not meeting love rat in love, but the person who makes you emotional.
Restrain students' bold behavior appropriately.
In the eyes of students, Professor Xu is an amiable elder. In fact, Professor Xu teaches history, but he is worried that students will do impulsive things when they fall in love. Therefore, he often applies to the school for the number of lectures, taking this opportunity to educate his children on morality and implicitly tell them the consequences of stealing forbidden fruits. Professor Xu often said, "Never, never try" has become the mantra of students.
School is a social platform for college students to know. Some schools encourage students to fight for freedom and become more independent. However, some students have misunderstood this concept and think that stealing forbidden fruit is something adults must do. In this case, the school has the full responsibility to educate students to learn to be responsible, and the teacher's persuasion can just make these students with abnormal behavior turn back in time and pull back from the brink.
3. Parents should give their children more classes.
Sister Xu often takes her children to "classes" before going to college. At first, the children rejected these things, but under the soft grinding and hard foam of Sister Xu, the children still kept her teachings in their hearts. In fact, Xu Jie's course is very simple, that is, he often says to his children, "You should know how to protect yourself outside and be responsible for others."
Many parents think this kind of education is unnecessary. On the contrary, they think that as long as they try not to mention it to their children, they will be protected from harm, but in the end, something like Xiao Ai will happen. Often mentioned in front of children will definitely arouse their curiosity; However, proper education will make children feel confident, love will not be too out of line, and they will know the seriousness of stealing forbidden fruit.
If female college students get pregnant before marriage, schools and parents should not blindly blame their children. Think about whether you have done your duty to your child before you speak. Blindly blaming will only make the child more confused and finally push the child to a desperate situation. In the face of such a thing, everyone had better deal with it rationally. But girls should also think about it. Is it difficult for them to go to school with a big belly?